Why're we all coming down hard on this girl for not wanting to give this guy oral sex? I guess we're assuming his cock is awesome, smells great, is easy to lick & suck and his cum tastes like maple syrup from IHOP. My questions are more about YOU, my friend. Ever trimmed your pubes? Maybe consider shaving, not your ENTIRE region, but enough that she's not overwhelmed by a forest of feelings down there? What's your hygiene like? Maybe she just doesn't want to embarrass you. Make sure you are putting forth your "A" game with your body, cock and hygiene and THEN ask her. If she still isn't interested, it's time, wayyyy PAST time actually, to discuss why. But having said that, this should absolutely NOT be a deal breaker, if you're very compatible in other areas in your life. Are you each others' friend? Do you mutually support one another? Can you work effectively as a team, without fighting *too* often? Does the good outbalance the "bad"? There are things more important than sex *gasp*. I can't believe I typed that. But it's true.
Right?