No cunnilingus because of self-esteem issues?

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  1. eyescream

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    #1 eyescream, Dec 11, 2009
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    most likely alot but if you really pay attention to a womans body and movements and actually care about pleasing her i am sure most women are gonna like it..
     
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    In my experience, most women are so glad that I'm not one of those guys that simply won't do it, that not doing it right was never an issue. The more practise the better though!;-)

    Several honorary lesbian cards later...:-D The most helpful thing I've done is to ask what they like. It's such a simple thing really.
     
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    I can't get enough of it. I love being able to figure out exactly what needs to be done to get my partner going.

    Sometimes it takes longer to figure that out then others but, I work hard at it and I'm ALWAYS having fun doing it so, it's just a great gig for me!

    :)
     
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    I never worried about her not liking it or that I was doing it wrong. If you're eating pussy you can feel her reactions to what you are doing and fine tune your technique as you go along. I love to eat pussy. I've been doing that since high school and have had every one of the women cum with the exception of one. She was a widow and very involved with her vibrating toys. I worked on her for 45 minutes and all I got was "that felt nice".
     
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    I always find the ones who are shit are the guys who think they are fantastic.
     
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    I agree with this. (Is this a women's issue??)
     
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    just sayin'... :)
     
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    Ahhh, muff diving, my favorite sport. I could only hope my gf loves it as much as I do!
     
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    qft
    not really, but yes really.
    i think the women will be interested to know the possible motivation for their idle-tongued boys.
     
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    Guys don't go down on women because of low self esteem issues? That's a new one to me. I've heard from women about guys who go down on women because they think they're great when in reality, they don't have a clue.

    Truth be told, the men who are really good ask what their partners want. It's just that simple.
     
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    Maybe since you're asking about how many GUYS avoid going down on women, you'd be better off suited posting this somewhere else, not in a women's issues board.
     
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    When I read the title of this thread I thought you were referring to women who wouldn't let men perform cunnilingus on them because they (the women) had self esteem issues.

    That I've encountered.
     
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    First of all, I don't eat pussy. it appears to me though, if one really likes to do this and received a complaint. A correction could be made on the spot. It would make her happy and would serve the pussy eater well in the future.

    Just a few, from one who can't remember the last time I had my tongue in some chicks twat.
     
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    If anything, I'd be more inclined to eat a girl out but avoid fucking her due to self-esteem issues.
     
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