No equivalence of Small Penis Humiliation for women?

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  1. B_quietguy

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    The topic of Small Penis Humiliation (SPH) arises time and again on this website. We've heard and read stories about men getting humiliated knowing their wives and girlfriends get it on with a big dicked guy. Sometimes right in front of them. Part of me just doesn't get it - not just because I'm well endowed but more because I'm just not interested in humiliation. Humiliate myself? Not a chance? Why humiliate somebody else if all I really do is earn somebody else's scorn or end up participating in somebody else's self-deprecation?

    As I think about SPH, there really is no equivalence for women. How many women want to be humiliated by seeing their boyfriends and husbands fucking somebody younger, skinnier, healthier, with bigger boobs and tighter twats? I know about women who like knowing their male partners are having sex with other women. Even one of my partners likes to hear about my sexual acts with other women, and she is happy for my playful joy in these acts. But she is never humiliated by them, and I could not imagine her wanting such humiliation. Which gets to the point that there really is no SPH equivalence for women. How many women get excited by being put down by their male partners' sex acts with other, more beautiful, women? I know of none.
     
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    I would not be be an active participant in anything that makes me feel less self worth. All I can think is it's a fetish. Some people like to be humiliated. They like the way it makes them feel. I prefer praise.
     
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    well there might not be an equivalence to SPH for women, but sexual humiliation is nothing that is unknown for them, ever seen some porn?

    I guess to some degree it is normal to accept humiliation if it gives you the pleasure to make someone you care about feel good, and from some degree on it is a fetish, and i don't think it is restricted to one sex
     
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    people here mock my small clit :sad:
     
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    ROFL...

    :lmao:
     
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    ^^^see!!!
     
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    Cos it makes your cunt look huge.
     
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    my huge cunt intimidates the tiny cunts.
     
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    I just make sure that I'm standing upwind.
     
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    i make my own wind.
     
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    I think you'll find that that is the vacuum effect of when you walk.
     
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    I guess not, but some straight porn does carry humiliation undertones (directed at the woman).
     
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    I've seen a lot of rough oral videos that are definitely humiliating, the way the guy treats the woman and calls her names and punishes her by gagging her with his cock and treating her with disdain, hatefully in some videos. Some of those are weird and disturbing. Of course that's not humiliating a specific body part, that's treating her like she's somehow sub-human for being a sexual being. I like oral sex videos, so I run across a lot of the ones like that (which I dislike) while I'm looking for good ones. Never seen a gay oral video like that. I'm sure they exist, I've just never run across one.

    I think there are women who are really into that sort of thing. They internalize the virgin/whore dichotomy to the point that they fetishize it and enjoy those types of role playing scenarios.
     
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    i'd say most straight porn has overtones of humiliation for the woman.
     
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    I agree with this. Which is why lately I find a lot of porn boring.
     
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    There's that Rocco guy who likes to force women's heads into a toilet while he fucks them in the ass. That's weird and disturbing. Just google, "Rocco toilet" and you'll find lots of them.

    And those "vomit on my cock" videos where guys try to make a woman vomit on his cock and then make her eat it and throw it on her. Gross!

    How about the "trash can" humiliation videos where men put a naked crying woman in a full trash can?

    It seems like rather than humiliating a woman's specific body part, it's enough to just humiliate her for being a woman.
     
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    the only porn i can bear is the bdsm.
    weirdly enough the humiliation in that is far more respectful than any straight porn.
    pretty much.
     
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    Ugh the vomit on my cock vids are popping up more and more each time I look. Hasn't anyone ever just heard of a normal blowjob. No horrible loud gagging sounds. I'm sure you know what I mean the little gags are ok, but those loud disgusting fighting vomit ones bother me. Oh and lets not forget the hands in the hair holding her there while tears pour down her face blowjobs. I think these are why when the guys post "facefucking" questions I get so upset. That is what pops in my head now. I would punch someone in the nose if they tried to put me in a trash can... actually I'd aim for the balls, I might get my ass kicked but this stuff is alittle much for me personally. I understand everyone has their own kinks. Some women may like being treated this way just like some guys like the SPH stuff. I'm going to look at the toilet ones now (just because I have too... thanks petite:eek:)

    Edit: Yeah I just watched one of them... I'm not even going to comment on the toilet part I'm sure you know my opinion already!
     
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    I like a lot of these myself!
     
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    I think it's a recent phenomenon, this type of porn, amongst generally younger men. Then they wonder why they are relationship dysfunctional.
     
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