No experience

[deleted24928561]

So I just turned 56 today (November 8) and have no experience as far as gay sex goes. I have kissed a few guys and sucked cock and loved it. But I have never had penetration sex with anyone. I'm a late bloomer I guess. I'm married to a female- but for the past 5+ years- we have lived as roommates only with no intimacy. We get along great but the marriage is over. She wants an open relationship- and I don't. And I have come to realize I am totally gay.
Are any of you late bloomers like me? Just curious.

 

[tps87]

I was in my mid 40's - I think 46 - first time with a guy. It was after getting divorced I really contemplated what I wanted to do next as far as a relationship. I realized I didn't want another one with a women so I started trolling the various gay apps online. Now I've had a BF for going on 5 years.

At 46 I thought I was a late bloomer. I thought I was over the the hill and my options would be limited - that everyone would be looking for 20 and 30 year old guys. I was wrong. There are plenty of people into middle aged and older guys. Yes you see some who want xx age or younger but you also see those wanting xx age or older.

I can't advise you how to handle your marriage. In my case it was pretty clear cause she wanted out. I do know if I had not taken action when I was 46 that the clock would keep ticking regardless of what I did.

 

[brandon38]

I was in my mid 40's - I think 46 - first time with a guy. It was after getting divorced I really contemplated what I wanted to do next as far as a relationship. I realized I didn't want another one with a women so I started trolling the various gay apps online. Now I've had a BF for going on 5 years.

At 46 I thought I was a late bloomer. I thought I was over the the hill and my options would be limited - that everyone would be looking for 20 and 30 year old guys. I was wrong. There are plenty of people into middle aged and older guys. Yes you see some who want xx age or younger but you also see those wanting xx age or older.

I can't advise you how to handle your marriage. In my case it was pretty clear cause she wanted out. I do know if I had not taken action when I was 46 that the clock would keep ticking regardless of what I did.

This give me hope

 

[chrisrobin]

This give me hope

Dont pin all your hopes on anal penetration as being the ultimate goal, there are more ways than one to get sexual satisfaction without the need to be rushed into fucking.

 

[brandon38]

Dont pin all your hopes on anal penetration as being the ultimate goal, there are more ways than one to get sexual satisfaction without the need to be rushed into fucking.

That is true thanks for the advice

 

[beginner63]

I am bi and sucked my first cock at 47. I was hooked after that. Topped a few guys then started bottoming at 53. Find what you enjoy and just do it . Life is too short

 

[tps87]

Dont pin all your hopes on anal penetration as being the ultimate goal, there are more ways than one to get sexual satisfaction without the need to be rushed into fucking.

Just to be clear - when I said my first time with a guy was age 46 - I didn't say what we did. Penetration was not in the picture. That came quite a ways later.