No *gasp* when I told her my size...

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  1. Knight

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    Hi

    So last night after phone sex with my gf, well during I think, she asked me how big it was. I told her 8" long (its about --- off of 8") and 6" around. The 6 got a wow and I told her its not like a tree but it still big, she said oh I know...

    Anyway I was expecting some sort of reaction but this was at midnight we were talking about this so maybe she was just tired...anyway I'm thinking because there was no big reaction she's had bigger (even though she only had sex once)? What do you ladies or guys think...
     
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    Just my experience, knight, but if she has only been with one guy, she has absolutely no idea how big you really are.

    Besides, for most women, we can "guestimate" the length; girth is a lot harder. 6" is thick, hun... Seeing it for the first time will change her response and reaction.

    bb
     
  3. jeepwranglerboi

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    I think a lot of men claim to be either 8 or 10 inches, so perhaps she wasn't taken back by your dimensions. Perhaps she didn't know how to react. I think that once she gets her hands (and hopefully other body parts) on it she will react differently. I wouldn't sweat it bro. :D
     
  4. soccerfanatic

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    I think this has been discussed a few times before, but since most guys exaggerate she's probably expecting it to be a little bigger than average but nothing really huge. A guy who is 6" will usually claim to be 8"/9" and so the girl will believe him unless she's experienced, and so when she gets to see a legitimate 9" she'll be shocked cos its so much bigger than her ex who claimed to be that size.

    I talk to a girl called Sarah on MSN sometimes and she fancies me and so she's quite open and flirty with me about stuff, and she showed me some pics her and her ex-bf took of them having sex and her sucking him off. She knows how big I am and she was impressed but she said she could easily handle it cos she'd taken her ex's 10" without any problems. From the pics I can gather this guy will be 7" maximum, if that, and so he's really fooled her, I didn't say anything at the time buy I found it kinda funny.

    Long story short, when I finally got my digicam and took her some pics, she said it was miles bigger than she'd expected it to be and she was really relaly turned on, and her reaction was a turn on as well.

    I'm not an expert, with me still being a virgin and all, but when u and this girl do finally start having sex Knight, expect her to be shocked at how big you are, cos I bet she's expecting u to be a lot smaller than u actually are.
     
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    if she didn't gasp now, I bet you can easily get her to do so whenever you two get around to it
     
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    I have to agree with the others. So many guys do claim to be 8 or 9 inches that she may think that is average. She has no clue about size. Once she gets to see it in person I am sure you will get more than a few gasps.
     
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    knight
    she may not have gasped when you told her the size, but I can assure you that when you go to slide in her for the first time, not only will you get a gasp, but you will get some "oh god's" and deep moans.....dont sweat it, you said it was late and it may not have registered in her mind yet....

    prep
     
  8. BobLeeSwagger

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    Maybe you should consider it a reality check. The more time you spend in LPSG, the easier it is think a little too highly of your dick size. Don't assume that everyone is as excited over it as you are. It might well be that she's no good at estimating size, but if you don't impress her with what you do with that dick, it might as well be a tailfin on a '59 Cadillac: oversized and just neat to look at.
     
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    what upsets me is that some average guys could have the lack of cognitive ability required to flat out lie :eek: i mean, how is there any way to hold up your statement once the clothes are off? stupid thing, in my opinion.
     
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    ^^^^Because if the girl is inexperienced she probably wouldn't be able to tell whether ur lying or not. If it was the girls first time and u pulled out a big cock, lets say 7", thats still a very impressive size and I bet if u told her it was 9" she'd believe you. However, if u two broke up and she got with a guy with a legitimate 9" then she's find out u'd lied to her, it'd be too late by then though, cos u two would be all over.
     
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    that's dumb :(
     
  12. soccerfanatic

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    Men ARE dumb though lol. How many guys do u know thaqt can admit that another guy is good-looking? And how many guys do u know that could happily admit to having a small dick without feeling like their masculinity is threatened? Very few is my answer to both questions....
     
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    i know a few straight guys who can identify good lookin guy ... but by and large, i suppose you're right. i remember when i was about 13 or so, my best friend and i were talking about something or other, and we came upon the subject of cock size. we both fairly innocently stated our lengths, i was about 5.8 then and he was about 6.5, and then nothing more on the subject.

    since then he's turned into something of a homophobe, because his older brother and father are both homophobic.. pity, really..
     
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    I'm not sure how this links into your last post. If two days ago she's all over you and telling you how big you are etc, to the extent that you start a thread about 'does she want me for my cock'. it seems weird that one day ago you seem to only be telling her your exact size now.

    To be honest, I wouldn't expect a 'gasp' with 8" - I'm sure she's impressed and all and very pleased by it but: a) she might have figured it out already from groping or gossip B) as has been stated, she might think you're exaggerated, c) 8" isn't crazily massive anyway.
     
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    When I was younger a lot of guys would say they were 8" or 10" inches. After I went with a real big man, I started to ask guys to measure up. I'm sure once she has felt it she will gasp.
     
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    What if it's not a matter of admitting it? Since I don't find men attractive, how am I supposed to know if a guy is good-looking? Sure, I can see a pic like, say, DMW's avatar, and think, "he's fit, a nice-looking guy." But by "nice-looking" I don't mean I think he's attractive. I often find myself baffled when someone says one male celebrity is good-looking and another isn't. I don't see features on guys that help me make that distinction, at least not like I do on women. I often find myself just going with the conventional wisdom about who's a "hunk". Women like him, so I guess he's good-looking. I've heard women say they thought Willem Dafoe was a good-looking guy and I'm thinking, "He could have left the Green Goblin mask OFF, for christ's sake!" I can acknowledge that he's in great physical shape, but this only makes him less sexually repulsive than Dome DeLuise.

    Re your second question: that number is far, far smaller than the the answer to the first and I doubt those groups of men even overlap much. Off the top of my head, the only times I can think of in which a guy talked about how small his penis was were stand-up acts and they were making a joke about it. Which doesn't mean he really does have a small penis, only that he knows that it's such a common cause of insecurity that it makes a lot of people laugh.

    I have no idea whether this is related to what you were even saying, but it's what I thought of.
     
  17. D_Humper E Bogart

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    Personally, I've never had a gasp, although I have had a "some women will have a hard time having sex with you"...

    Bwah ha ha!
     
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    My gf's ex boyfriend told her he had an 8 inch penis. While I was getting to know her online and before we started dating, she asked me about my size (in a very flirty way), and I told her my size, which was 7.75 x 5 at the time (I have since grown to 8 x 5.25). When I told her this, she told me that I was slightly smaller than her ex, but a really nice size. When we finally got together and she saw my penis, she was flabbergasted by its size. In subsequent discussions, we have determined that she has absolutely no concept of inches, so when he said 8 inches she just assumed he was telling the truth. In reality, he was probably around 6 inches long and 4.5 inches thick--no where near the 8 inches he claimed.

    The point is, chance are, that she has no concept of how big 8 x 6 actually is. Either let her be surprised when she first gets to see it, or compare it to an everyday object so she can know how it really looks. Chances are that comparison will get you a nice *gasp*.
     
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    My best friend is a fairly handsome guy and one day, after a couple of girls had stopped by where we were sitting and eating and BOTH of them spent time talking with him and not me, I commented on his looks and he just about freaked out. He has this weird double-standard that he can occasionally make a comment about my size but if I complement him on his looks then we're having a gay-fest or something.

    Not precisely "on-thread" but picking up what someone else said a couple of posts ago.
     
  20. Pene_Negro_Grande

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    Actually my male friends and I will comment on each others looks and they are not gay or feel their masculinity is in question...And I have friends that have had discussion w/me and said that they have a small dick - sure they are a little ashamed of it but I do have one who said that and decide to show me and I must say he has the smallest penis I have ever seen but the can charm the pants literally off women and does it quite often but he is a good looking guy...Dick size should not really matter - I mean I never there were so many huge guys till I found this forum...I guess I assume majority of everyone is average except for porn stars...

    But let me tell you a story - one of my female friend who is a bit of size queen...She always wants me to hook her w/my guy friends since they are pretty hot...I think she has had sex w/about 7 or 8 of them...But one in particular who she first met on the telephone while he was out w/me...They conversed and they liked each other and he flew to New York to see her...She said he told her his size but she didn't believe him - she said guys lie all the time...Well she said when she saw him - he was very good looking Latino but when they started to get busy she was floored by how big his cock was - she said he was at least 11 inches and like a coke can wide...She that usually only likes to have sex w/hung guys but she could not even get it in all the way and it hurt so bad that she could not even finish...My guy friend was crushed because he told her he always have problems w/woman not wanting to see him again after they get a taste of his member...She said she was not like that but she was lying - she said she could do it or attempt it again so she ended the relationship...He was devastated and he is very good looking but reluctant to really take any chances w/girls he likes now...She told me I should have warned her but I had no idea my boy was packing like that...I must admit I personally started looking at him a little different after that (LOL)...
     
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