No gay hate!!!!

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That is my opinion as well.



It depends. If his behavior continues, then I would agree. Knowing a tad of his background i can at least see Why he feels as he does. He needs to realize that not everyone who doesn't see things 100% his way, are not attacking him, and can have valid opinions. It is hard to seperate our biases from the cold hard facts. To him, EVERY homophobe will appear fugly, because of what he has gone through. Understanding that i choose to be more forgiving of some of his brashness. That said, I only have x amount of sympathy for a person who in the majority of his interactions, does not extend that same courtesy.

My patience only lasts so long. The fact that he did try to explain to me (an politely) the why behind his thoughts, did extend the shelf-life of my patience.
Baby I do not look for patience nor understanding. If we want to start throwing idiot tags around I am more than game to start tossing.

Btw, sorry for the brashiness but I have no time nor patience for people who insist on a rebuttal with nothing but a flat soap box to stand on.

If you guys don't agree with my fugly theory then show me one from this millennium that isn't. Resorting to calling me an idiot without actually offering any substance in the original argument of fugly homoohobes is an old smoke and mirror trick that only fools the foolish. It's a last resort some of us don't have to resort to.
 

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Ok. I've changed me mind. I have. Boyo is an idiot. And unstable, and in possible need of therapy and heavy meds.

Yawn.

Might I add neither one of you have posted a good looking straight homophobe making the media in this millennium?

According to both of you both my theories, that most homophobes are closeted cowards and all homophobes in the media are fugly, are bunk supposedly. You want to call me an idiot yet you can't come up with one single person to prove your point.

Seems to me both of you need to redefine what makes an idiot unless you already call throwing mud when you have nothing else "genius".
 
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Yawn.

Might I add neither one of you have posted a good looking straight homophobe making the media in this millennium?

According to both of you both my theories, that most homophobes are closeted cowards and all homophobes in the media are fugly, are bunk supposedly. You want to call me an idiot yet you can't come up with one single person to prove your point.

Seems to me both of you need to redefine what makes an idiot unless you already call throwing mud when you have nothing else "genius".
And I posted one that even you had to admit was plausible.

Please do not act as though you were not guilty of hostile mudslinging. You are just as muddied as the rest.
 

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Okay, so I leave for one day, come back, and BOOM!!! Both threads go from walk down spring lane to NIGHT IN FROZEN HELL!! I was so shocked, I almost fell out of my chair...I'm sorry all this negativity sprung up so easily! It was not my goal in the least...I'm sorry yall!
 

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Sorry but you have to understand where I come from. Six years ago, after living in nyc for 10 years, I moved to Davie, FL and started working at the gas station where I came into contact with the entire town. At first I thought it was amusing how I could spot all these lesbians but not one single gay guy. It didn't take me long to figure out why. Within one week, after living there a month, I had three different guys tell me I would be attacked and beaten up for being gay.... My roommate, the second being the guy whom I was seeing, who had already been hospitalized by a group of guys and bats, and a guy who said he would do it himself but that he had a gay brother. I fought and I fought hard and wasn't about to go back into a closet. While God might have put the gay neon sign over my head He also gave me a healthy dose of sexual attractiveness and confidence and I used that to my advantage. I looked for any homophobe to say shit to my face and there were plenty of them but they all turned to chicken shit once they met my Mr Hyde who was more than happy to come out to meet them. That shit pissed me off. The odd thing is that town was the cruisiest town ever. I could go to Target and if the guys girlfriend was on the other aisle he would be into cruising big time.

Unfortunately I am no longer the outgoing guy I was before that year happened. I finally made it back to nyc but not without the scars that drive our gay youth to kill themselves. And unfortunately I never came across a homophobe that was dumb enough to be my outlet.

So sorry if I sound pissed but homophobia, and the fact it comes.from cowards, pisses me off.

This a very touching story, especially for someone who grew in Mass all his life. I do not think I have ever faced the full force of homophobia that really exists in our country. It makes me so sad that it is still there in such strong numbers...
 

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resorting to form early on, I see.:rolleyes:

You are so one note MG.

One shrill, off-key, obnoxious note, that is off key and goes on forever...:frown1:

Just being the "condescending bitch" the boy help apply to me in another thread.

Funny how when I get into poking back you and the circle jerk get all uptight. Where are you when your pals are telling members to, "eat a bucket of fuck" or "fuck off"? Hypocrisy anyone? Do you ever pause for a moment and think during one of your usual sessions of patting each other on the back, (you know, when you're all telling each how great you are when in fact you're just looking like a gang of rude and abusive adolescent bullies), that maybe, just maybe, you should grow the fuck up?

:dunno:

What's the matter, bully don't like to bullied?
 

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All you have shown to me Mercurygirl is that you spread hate around this forum. Nico and I do quite the opposite. I would appreciate if when you want to say something negative for no apparent reason, you remove yourself form the situation instead. Thank you in advance.
 

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Just being the "condescending bitch" the boy help apply to me in another thread.

Funny how when I get into poking back you and the circle jerk get all uptight. Where are you when your pals are telling members to, "eat a bucket of fuck" or "fuck off"? Hypocrisy anyone? Do you ever pause for a moment and think during one of your usual sessions of patting each other on the back, (you know, when you're all telling each how great you are when in fact you're just looking like a gang of rude and abusive adolescent bullies), that maybe, just maybe, you should grow the fuck up?

:dunno:

What's the matter, bully don't like to bullied?
did you know, that to deliberately follow a member form thread to thread, with the express purpose of harassing a member is against the TOS?

If one of my friends crosses a line and it is brought to my attention, I will either m them to say cool it, or flat out call them out IN THREAD. Look through my post history One such case was between a moderator who was a friend and myself. I also actively seek to build understanding between memebrs. I have done so with AlphaMale (a good friend) when he got into a disagreement with ironaddict (i felt alpha was being rude and said so, in thread even though it may have irritated him. ) I did so sagin early in this thread between conan and mike (I became hostile towards mike when he went ofter Conan and then myself multiple times)

So please do not think to dictate to me what I do or do not do. You, on the other hand, form what i have seen, seem to stir up controversy, dissidence, and dissension between members. Granted I do not know all you posts. I will be researching in the near future.

I can only hoe that you will actually be civil, or leave the thread, or do something profoundly asinine that gets you banned. As I do not lie seeing members banned, I hope you choose one of the first two options.
 

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@ Smaccoms: Nah, in fact it is you who propagates hate through this herd behavior. There was no hate by me in the thread in question. I didn't start labeling people, name calling, reread the thread as the facts are right there for all to see, or do I have to spoon feed it to you? I push when pushed. You sheepishly joined in because you're under the impression that mob rules and you fear standing up and having an opinion or allowing others to have an opinion of their own. Any conflicting opinion against your group is threat to you and you see it as a weakening of your standing in it. It's all about fear. Of being accepted and belonging to something you see as greater than yourself. That's no way to go through life. If you want to have an opinion you have to allow others to have theirs regardless of if you agree or not. Trying to drown out a single individual with this flood of blind hate is wrong.

So I suggest you look in the mirror before you blindly jump aboard the bandwagon and look to the root for the true instigator. My conscience is very clear in the matter. I have no plans of being intimidated by bullies. Get used to it.

@ Nico: Again, the hypocrisy. Perhaps you should read that TOS to countryguy (or whatever his moniker is) because he certainly followed me into that thread with the intent of starting something. But you won't, will you? Nah. Did you even read what Alphamale wrote in that thread? You did but you choose to ignore it. Typical.

Now lets all get this topic back track, shall we? Something tell me (history) that soon the whole gang will be here ruining yet another thread.
 
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@ Smaccoms: Nah, in fact it is you who propagates hate through this herd behavior. There was no hate by me in the thread in question. I didn't start labeling people, name calling, reread the thread as the facts are right there for all to see, or do I have to spoon feed it to you? I push when pushed. You sheepishly joined in because you're under the impression that mob rules and you fear standing up and having an opinion or allowing others to have an opinion of their own. Any conflicting opinion against your group is threat to you and you see it as a weakening of your standing in it. It's all about fear. Of being accepted and belonging to something you see as greater than yourself. That's no way to go through life. If you want to have an opinion you have to allow others to have theirs regardless of if you agree or not. Trying to drown out a single individual with this flood of blind hate is wrong.

So I suggest you look in the mirror before you blindly jump aboard the bandwagon and look to the root for the true instigator. My conscience is very clear in the matter. I have no plans of being intimidated by bullies. Get used to it.

@ Nico: Again, the hypocrisy. Perhaps you should read that TOS to countryguy (or whatever his moniker is) because he certainly followed me into that thread with the intent of starting something. But you won't, will you? Nah. Did you even read what Alphamale wrote in that thread? You did but you choose to ignore it. Typical.

Now lets all get this topic back track, shall we? Something tell me (history) that soon the whole gang will be here ruining yet another thread.
enlighten me as to which thread. I did not take part in any that you have been in for a few weeks (indeed I was only in the one where you were loggerhead with Petite, ans now this one) I do not make it a point to follow you, as I rarely see things in agreement with you.

So post a link to it, or PM m said link. I can assure you that if I feel they were out of line I will say something.

If i see something as they do, I will agree.

If i see parts of it, I will comment as to which parts.

I await the link.
 

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Ok found the thread. I have dinner to make. I will say that CG was polite, that there was a simple misunderstanding on BOTH of your parts that blew up (and you had your hand in that by *in print* seeming more aggressive than perhaps you thought to come cross), then it snowballed into a quick pile of shit, and AM reacted to his hubby being attacked as a spouse should, though I would not have resorted to "bitch" just yet (or I would say that you are acting like a bitch)

I would point out that you followed SC here, to his thread, with malicious intent. That is against TOS. And please do not compare mine and Conan's referencing mike's comments about what a homophobe is, stated in this thread, in hos thread, as our intent was one of clarification. I would also point out that I then tried to rectify matters by getting his thread back on track, and while I admit to pettiness in my "he needs therapy and meds" comment, kindly look to see how much I let slide and how I DEFENDED him to Conan.

All of which you have not done.

I hope you can see at least some of my points. I have no issue in talking to you. I hope you can see that I am responding sans rancor or snark.

I will check back later. I currently need to get dinner on the table for the fam.
 

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@ Smaccoms: Nah, in fact it is you who propagates hate through this herd behavior. There was no hate by me in the thread in question. I didn't start labeling people, name calling, reread the thread as the facts are right there for all to see, or do I have to spoon feed it to you? I push when pushed. You sheepishly joined in because you're under the impression that mob rules and you fear standing up and having an opinion or allowing others to have an opinion of their own. Any conflicting opinion against your group is threat to you and you see it as a weakening of your standing in it. It's all about fear. Of being accepted and belonging to something you see as greater than yourself. That's no way to go through life. If you want to have an opinion you have to allow others to have theirs regardless of if you agree or not. Trying to drown out a single individual with this flood of blind hate is wrong.

So I suggest you look in the mirror before you blindly jump aboard the bandwagon and look to the root for the true instigator. My conscience is very clear in the matter. I have no plans of being intimidated by bullies. Get used to it.

@ Nico: Again, the hypocrisy. Perhaps you should read that TOS to countryguy (or whatever his moniker is) because he certainly followed me into that thread with the intent of starting something. But you won't, will you? Nah. Did you even read what Alphamale wrote in that thread? You did but you choose to ignore it. Typical.

Now lets all get this topic back track, shall we? Something tell me (history) that soon the whole gang will be here ruining yet another thread.

I see no water in your arguments. You clearly know nothing about me, and your response here proves that for those who do.
 

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@ Nico: Again, the hypocrisy. Perhaps you should read that TOS to countryguy (or whatever his moniker is) because he certainly followed me into that thread with the intent of starting something. But you won't, will you? Nah.

Madame, since this is the very first time I recall ever having any dealings with you, please enlighten me on how I "followed you into that thread"? :confused:

And if you can't, I would request that you please stop with the false accusations.
 

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I am so lucky, none of my male friends are homophobic. But the other night a dear friend, a female made some statements and they were based on fear. I was surprised but she is much older, retirement age actually. I realize and based on her argument that her experiences can't be undone or explained away. However, she is from the old school and had a lot of experience with human misery having been a Social Worker. This is actually the second time she has expressed her opinion to me that was anti-gay and anti-semitic. I don't think I can help her to change or even know where to begin.