No Libido After 30...

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So I turned 30 a month ago and a few weeks after that my libido just vanished. I went from jerking off 3-4 times a day minumin and a near constant semi to nothing. Im not horny, maybe only get a boner once a week or so (which isn't even that hard). Hell it's unresponsive to porn or blowjobs... I know people always say a guy's sex drive drops after 30 but damn this is rediculus. I mention it to my doctor and we went over the usual. No new meds, no new stress, don't drink, don't smoke, I get 7-8 hours of sleep a night and walk at least a hour a day.
She said to come back if it doesn't improve in a few weeks.
I dunno if I should be as concerned as I am.. If this is just normal... Which lord I hope this ain't my new norm... Or what...
Mostly I'm just hoping to talk....
 
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So I turned 30 a month ago and a few weeks after that my libido just vanished. I went from jerking off 3-4 times a day minumin and a near constant semi to nothing. Im not horny, maybe only get a boner once a week or so (which isn't even that hard). Hell it's unresponsive to porn or blowjobs... I know people always say a guy's sex drive drops after 30 but damn this is rediculus. I mention it to my doctor and we went over the usual. No new meds, no new stress, don't drink, don't smoke, I get 7-8 hours of sleep a night and walk at least a hour a day.
She said to come back if it doesn't improve in a few weeks.
I dunno if I should be as concerned as I am.. If this is just normal... Which lord I hope this ain't my new norm... Or what...
Mostly I'm just hoping to talk....
Speak to your Dr again if you still feel the same way in the next few weeks. It could be a few things like testosterone or even diabetes effecting things. Hopefully it will not be anything serious. The same happened to me at about 35. My sex drive just dropped real low for no apparent reason. All fit and healthy, no stress but suddenly sex was of no interest. It’s gotten slightly better over the last few years, but a lower libido is unfortunately the new normal for me. My wife has n the other hand is quite happy, as we now both have about the same sex dive as each other.
Personally I think my drop was a natural response from my body to match with my wife.
 

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Speak to your Dr again if you still feel the same way in the next few weeks. It could be a few things like testosterone or even diabetes effecting things. Hopefully it will not be anything serious. The same happened to me at about 35. My sex drive just dropped real low for no apparent reason. All fit and healthy, no stress but suddenly sex was of no interest. It’s gotten slightly better over the last few years, but a lower libido is unfortunately the new normal for me. My wife has n the other hand is quite happy, as we now both have about the same sex dive as each other.
Personally I think my drop was a natural response from my body to match with my wife.

I was checked for diabetes a right before my birthday.. No test for my testosterone tho...
 
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I was checked for diabetes a right before my birthday.. No test for my testosterone tho...
It’s worth getting checked out. My testosterone was marginally low, but not so much that it would effect my libido noticeably. There may just be no easy explanation for yours being low like with me.
 
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I didn't feel depressed or old until my dick stopped working.... =(
It is probably just a natural dip, and you will bounce back if you give it time. Don’t let this be something that depresses you.
 

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You mentioned that you walk for exercise. Maybe you need to give your testosterone a shock by something more intense. After doing sets of something like squats and leg presses, you should feel a boost in the day(s) following. Just a suggestion as it seems to have worked for me.