no man has ever made me orgasm

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Here's a little orgasm mind blower... I'll keep it short hopefuly.

my wife when we were orginally dating had played with quite a few guys, never had anyone make her cum. I was the first, happily to do so, good Gspot one to. Also, only when she was exceptionally horny (and being toyed with for hours) did I make her cum via eating her out. I found out it wasn't my technique she was just hard to make cum. But I have maanged (with the right setting mood foreplay) to make her cum over and over again in bed (Again not all the time but on good occasions).

Before we were married again, a friend of hers agreed to be my mistress (we were in a long distance relationship the friend was near by). Holy hell that girl could cum (again and again...).She even came vaginally, spasms, liquid and all via just nipple play. I figured, it was truely my wife that was just hard to make cum.

Well, my wife and I play around, and she found a guy, who with just his left hand and 1 finger could make her writhe and cum as if it was quite litterally a button. My wife described it as "The greatest clitoral pleasure" she has ever had. Though the guy wasn't as good at fingering, he was a master at the clit.

Lesson learned by me, and I am just at the begining of learning some of these new tricks, but I have yet to meet a girl who couldn't cum given the right mental state, and techniques.

"The greatest sexual organ in the human body, is the mind."
 

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When I first met my wife she was 19 and had never had an orgasm in spite of having been sexually active for several years prior. It wasn't until many months into our relationship, and after we had completely fallen head over heels for each other, that one day she had her first orgasm. And it was a beauty! I asked her what I had done that finally worked for her and she said it wasn't technique, just that she got to some place in her mind where it all clicked. Well, after that she came on a regular basis. Many years later and now she can cum at the drop of a hat.

I think it's maybe similar too insomnia. Some people get to where they just can't get to sleep. Night after night and it builds to where they're just resigned to their fate. Then one day, bam, sleeping like a baby.

Just a thought.
 

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"Porn lied to me!"

What? You mean that all those times I was delivering pizza or cleaning the pool and the incredibly blonde, buxom, limber woman of the house didn't immediately go down on my cock (and then invite her best friend, Tiffany, over) didn't mean that there was anything wrong with me? It was because porn lied?

Whew! I'm so relieved!
 

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"Porn lied to me!"

What? You mean that all those times I was delivering pizza or cleaning the pool and the incredibly blonde, buxom, limber woman of the house didn't immediately go down on my cock (and then invite her best friend, Tiffany, over) didn't mean that there was anything wrong with me? It was because porn lied?

Whew! I'm so relieved!

it lied to you too?

goddamn you porn! :mad:
 

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it lied to you too?

goddamn you porn! :mad:

Porn lies to me, but I still call it up, ask it to come over late at night, and it has its torrid way with me until we're both satisfied, at which point I kick it out of the house ... until the next time.

I'm porn's bitch.
 

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Dear dolfette:

During our ten years together my wife has had maybe 3 or 4 vaginal orgasms. Her clitoris, however, is very responsive to both my tongue and fingers. She will usually orgasm after several minutes of stimulation. She has never experienced multiple orgasms, not for a lack of trying.

Recently I came across a rubber thimble in the supply drawer at work. It fits snuggly on the tip of my index finger and has many soft, bristle-like protrusions covering its surface. I have used it to rub her clit and it drives her wild. She will often orgasm in what seems to be less than a minute. Of the approximately 15 times I have used it to stimulate her she has had a second orgasm 3 times.

Go to an office supply store. Buy a rubber thimble with the requisite soft bristles. Find a good partner who happens to have an index finger. Wash the thimble well in warm, soapy water between uses. Let us know if it helps. Good luck.

P.S. Love the pics in your gallery.
 

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My girlfriend has trouble orgasming during sex unless she's on top / in control. Everyone has trouble once in a while, it's mostly psychological in many cases, hope things take a turn for the better!

I wish it were as easy for a woman to climax as it is for a man, but that damned clit had to be on the outside... if only it were just on the inside so the penis would fully rub across it with every thrust ;)
 

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I noticed you said you use a vibrator. My wife, when we were dating, could only cum with a vibrator. She read somewhere that your clit gets used to it, so she stopped using it and after a while, she could cum once in a while with regular sex, and nearly always with oral. But, her clit had to get sensitized again because the vibrator had spoiled it.