no man has ever made me orgasm
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True! Porn does lie....but if your man can't make you orgasm....but your enjoying it.....just finish yourself off
I read recently that you can make yourself come during sex without ever touching your clit, if you do enough advanced kegel exercises. Apparently you can gain enough control over all the muscles down there that you can voluntarily make the clit hood slide up and down on the clit to get you off.
If you don't teach them what you like and lead them, how do you expect them to know what works for you? No two people are the same. If you want it on the left, say to the left to the left. Deeper deeper. Harder harder. Up at an angle. You get my drift I know you do. Hmmm wonder how many guys just had to unzip their pants. haha
who says i haven't done that?
it's not what they do or don't do.
Bless your heart. Maybe, it's something physical or you just have too much on your mind. If I don't relax, I don't enjoy sex.
B_ScaredLittleBoy
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Do you orgasm on your own? Because if you do then its at least possible to cum with someone else. Maybe you're shy/holding back? That stops a lot of people from 'peaking'.
I'd love to try though...always eager for beaver...I mean...eager to PLEASE :smile:
I'd love to try though...always eager for beaver...I mean...eager to PLEASE :smile:
it's an emotional block, i'm pretty sure.
not that i'm not relaxed...
i enjoy it loads. the lack of orgasm doesn't frustrate or upset.
just perplexes me.
there's a mental trigger in here somewhere.
dolfette - I hope you don't mind me answerng for you:
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dolfette, shy? I dunno why but I doubt it...
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You need to surrender yourself to your partner and to the moment, then the magic will happen.
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My ex-wife was much like this when I met her. Despite her numerous experiences she had never climaxed, at least not to her knowledge. The first time she did orgasm was with me. Maybe that's why she married me. Soon into our sex life she began to become multi-orgasmic. I mean she was having 15+ in one night! She also squirted for the first time, something she had never even heard of before. Since our divorce, she has told me that the quality of her sex life continues to be good and that she does orgasm with other partners, so I know it wasn't due to my bedroom skills.
I later dated a woman who only managed to orgasm with two or three partners in her life. Only once had she experienced multiple orgasms, not with me though. It wasn't from lack of trying though! Still we had a great sex life and she had a very high libido.
Ultimately, there are so many factors involved that who can say why you haven't managed to get the big O yet. I hope you haven't given yourself a mental block against orgasm from pressure to achieve one. You obviously enjoy sex and are comfortable thinking about it, lest you wouldn't be a member here. At least you have that right?
I later dated a woman who only managed to orgasm with two or three partners in her life. Only once had she experienced multiple orgasms, not with me though. It wasn't from lack of trying though! Still we had a great sex life and she had a very high libido.
Ultimately, there are so many factors involved that who can say why you haven't managed to get the big O yet. I hope you haven't given yourself a mental block against orgasm from pressure to achieve one. You obviously enjoy sex and are comfortable thinking about it, lest you wouldn't be a member here. At least you have that right?
The women are paid to cum, hun. Or at least act like their doing it. As far as no man ever making you orgasm, I am sorry. That sucks. But keep at it, because it'll be worth it once you get there.
As far as the women in porn cumming from everything under the sun, I think if you did a study or something you'd find that's pretty rare. Most of us are a bit more specialized. I cum easiest from penetration (hence my preference for the larger members :wink: ), some do more from oral, fingering, whatever. It depends on how your body is put together. I'd guess not many women get off like crazy from all of the above.
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Dolfette,
You may be interested in this book, 'How to Have an Orgasm ... As Often As You Want'. It has great reviews on amazon.com and I have read it and found it very well written.
Hope it helps.
Seriously, this chick started doing kegels with a Kegelmaster and supplemented her diet with fish oil, chocoloate, and I forget what else. She says she averages 50 orgasms a day, without effort, as a result.
:boobies:
Of course, I probably wouldn't want to be behind her in traffic -- who knows how that affects her driving?
She says kegels don't work without physical resistance, so she used a spring-loaded device that allows her to increase the pressure required to close it.
Here's a link to a radio interview she did on a woman's health show. I thought she sounded credible.
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And her thread elsewhere:
http://www.thundersplace.org/forum/showthread.php?t=77017&page=3&pp=40&highlight=orgasms
If you're not interested, no harm done.
exlinebacker46
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in my humble opinion ( and it is humble lol )
i believe that if a man and woman are to be really good together in bed then forget size, shape, longevity,hard,fast,slow,sensual, none of it means anything if there is no connection in the mind,
its a fact that every feeling anyone has comes from the brain, so if you wnat your body stimulated to the point of an orgasm then it starts in the mind, what i think you need to find is a soul mate a best friend someone you love like a child loves its parent un-compromising, complete,
if you find this then i would put good money on the fact that you will have orgasms on a regular basis,
too many people think its all about just fucking and forget they have a mind this is where true pelasure comes from.
these are my words of wisdom for the day lol
take care all of you
i believe that if a man and woman are to be really good together in bed then forget size, shape, longevity,hard,fast,slow,sensual, none of it means anything if there is no connection in the mind,
its a fact that every feeling anyone has comes from the brain, so if you wnat your body stimulated to the point of an orgasm then it starts in the mind, what i think you need to find is a soul mate a best friend someone you love like a child loves its parent un-compromising, complete,
if you find this then i would put good money on the fact that you will have orgasms on a regular basis,
too many people think its all about just fucking and forget they have a mind this is where true pelasure comes from.
these are my words of wisdom for the day lol
take care all of you
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