Can you make yourself orgasm? If so, then I'm sure that eventually, you'll find a guy that can do it, even if you have to show them how.
no man has ever made me orgasm
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Ive heard a lot of people say how bad porn is and how it lies to people about sex and it doesnt show the bad side. Well pornos are just movies, and like any movies, the problem only comes when people mistake movies for reality. They are meant as tools of entertainment, not education. Go pick up some Dr. Ruth.
I'd recommend Nancy Friday. I don't know where she found the women that she interviewed, but those are the craziest fantasies I've EVER come across...and I've been on the INTERNET!
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So does that mean you're a crazy porn sex freak (and I mean that in the nicest way possible)? :biggrin1:
i would suggest smoking some weed or have a drink...light some candles.
i like to set up salt baths with lavender oil and rose pedals.
have him spritz your legs and chest with cool water
to ease some of the heat/humidity from the hot water...
then ease back into the warm water...
the contrast will loosed up your soul. i hope.
imagine "him or her" worshipping your pussy...whilst surrounded by the warmth of the water.
maybe you need to hear that they REALLY do worship you.
some people may not let it be known...but the core truth is they would die for you.
life,death and...sex....i think there is some twisted romantic connection.
the trinity.
la petite mort.
i like to set up salt baths with lavender oil and rose pedals.
have him spritz your legs and chest with cool water
to ease some of the heat/humidity from the hot water...
then ease back into the warm water...
the contrast will loosed up your soul. i hope.
imagine "him or her" worshipping your pussy...whilst surrounded by the warmth of the water.
maybe you need to hear that they REALLY do worship you.
some people may not let it be known...but the core truth is they would die for you.
life,death and...sex....i think there is some twisted romantic connection.
the trinity.
la petite mort.
that sounds like a huge turn off.
it's really "nice" for lots of women...
but i hate being stoned, i hate being drunk, i hate that whole worship thing...really, it's not that it makes me uncomfortable, it's that it bores me.
good advice that would work for many though.
check my gallery pics...if you like...nevermind the penis pics.haha.
that just sounds so wierd.
i posted some pics of my first 2 suspensions with rope.
now if you combine your normal BDSM play and finish with a suspension
and engage in penetration oral and penile it leaves you dizzy
by the time you are eased down from the suspension.
it may be TOO harsh for what you are looking for...or it may be what you dig. either way you can find books...tutorials...even
join the adult rope arts list on yahoo for tons of tips.
it is called shibari or kinbaku is the more erotic sides of it.
that just sounds so wierd.
i posted some pics of my first 2 suspensions with rope.
now if you combine your normal BDSM play and finish with a suspension
and engage in penetration oral and penile it leaves you dizzy
by the time you are eased down from the suspension.
it may be TOO harsh for what you are looking for...or it may be what you dig. either way you can find books...tutorials...even
join the adult rope arts list on yahoo for tons of tips.
it is called shibari or kinbaku is the more erotic sides of it.
i've looked into it a little before...i love it as an art but never found the idea especially erotic. maybe i'll get a chance to try it sometime and find out.
cool pics! *never minding the penis pics* :biggrin1:
closest i get to any sort of buildup is with fisting. sledgehammer.
but it just doesn't come anywhere near the big O.
First thing you need to do is see a doctor to make sure there is nothing wrong with you physically (although looking at your photos, you are one incredibly sexy woman!). If all systems are go, then it might be off to some counseling. There may be some mental thing way back in the recesses of your mind (the most powerful sex organ) that are preventing you from letting go. Good luck!
sledgehammer...it's just a silly private joke.sledgehammer!? lol.
check out the sybian...or stockroom dot com for a fucking machine.
you are one tough cookie!
most women like a gentle touch.
i rub so hard that i sometimes kill all feeling for a couple of days.
i don't want fingers, i want the whole fist.
it's not so much that i enjoy pain.
it's that pain is a byproduct of the stimulation i like.
...unless i'm in the other sort of mood.
in which case, i'm fragile!
fucking machines...penetration alone won't do anything but make me numb after a while.
always wanted to try the sybian...but the price tag is just
it will happen eventually...no rush.
it could very well be a psychological repression thing.
i was molested by a boy babysitter and i didn't remember til i was 21.
the mind does some very unique things.
but so do our ideas of pleasure and sex.
keep at it dorthy and you will see you could have gotten there the whole time...but the yellow brick road showed you SOO much experience.
just try to keep "therapists" out of it.
ever notice the word therapist spells...THE RAPIST.
they really should do something about that.
it could very well be a psychological repression thing.
i was molested by a boy babysitter and i didn't remember til i was 21.
the mind does some very unique things.
but so do our ideas of pleasure and sex.
keep at it dorthy and you will see you could have gotten there the whole time...but the yellow brick road showed you SOO much experience.
just try to keep "therapists" out of it.
ever notice the word therapist spells...THE RAPIST.
they really should do something about that.
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If were me who was concerned about this ( which its not .. i have noooo problem with having an orgasm) I would say masterbation is the trick.First learn your body,learn where ur spots are.. and then when u are with ur guy.. dont make it so obvious but let him know what really gets u to that point.Some guys love a woman who is aggressive just a little bit.But first learn ur body.. that is essential.. I use to say.. I am the best lover I ever had.. till i found my most recent lover.. and Im more than open with him and he is willing to do anything with me beyond his limits.. and the sex is much better that way.. knowing urself and communication is the key here.. keep that in mind...
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