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Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by ugb, Nov 27, 2011.
"It hurts so much, but it feels so good" :biggrin1:
what don't you understand?
This isn't even an "issue." More like an attempt at size bragging. Should have gone into the sex with a large penis forum.
Wasn't an attempt at size bragging, it was an honest thought..
I didn't realize people would be so sensitive, mods can delete this
frankly I do not understand it either. I am also not into flogging. Yet there are those of both sexes who seem to crave it.
Now I do not think connecting pain and pleasure are exactly exclusive to women, do you? reflect upon this. You are not required to understand, simply let each enjoy what they do enjoy in peace.
Pain sometimes feels good. What is there to understand?
i feel that way about spanking.
Talking about penetrative sex specifically: Sometimes, to hit the really good bits, you have to hit the really bad bits. Be that by size, position or sheer luck. When you don't often get the really good bits, no amount of hitting the bad bits is going to make us want to stop!
Talking about other things such as flogging: Well that one is a little more complicated, and for some at least, has less to do with the actual pain and more to do with the treatment received and control one forces over their own natural reactions.
i don't understand why the fuck anyone likes coffee.
you do realise that there are men with masochistic tendencies?
I see an analogy between "hurts so good" sex, and the good burn from exercise, like when you complete a set of reps or sprint the last stretch.
That statement refers to some men and women. It isn't a gender specific statement.
Me too! And the flogging, and the biting, and the scratching . . . I could go on and on!
For me it's both physical and mental in both cases.
It can hurt at certain times, certain positions, etc. If he's played with my clit for a longtime. Many reasons really. But it's the overall set of feelings happening that can make it "hurt so good." Sometimes, I am reaching hard for a climax that is just beyond reach at that moment and it even be painful. When it feels that way, I might be sore or tender, but don't want him to stop. So...it can painful and feel good too.