No More Virgin Or Still Virgin ???

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Hi all,

Today I met a guy for the first time. We spoke and in 10 minutes, we were finished naked. At first I was very stressed but he was kind and patient, and I quickly relaxed. For almost an hour, he caressed my whole body, he masturbated me. I stroked it, I sucked it (with a condom) and I masturbated it. I didn't ejaculate but he did. The question is: have I lost my virginity or not? I'm not sure how to classify myself, virgin or not.

Thanks :)
 

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Hi all,

Today I met a guy for the first time. We spoke and in 10 minutes, we were finished naked. At first I was very stressed but he was kind and patient, and I quickly relaxed. For almost an hour, he caressed my whole body, he masturbated me. I stroked it, I sucked it (with a condom) and I masturbated it. I didn't ejaculate but he did. The question is: have I lost my virginity or not? I'm not sure how to classify myself, virgin or not.

Thanks :)
I'm happy to hear that someone is getting to enjoy your beautiful huge cock. Have fun!
 

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Oh mate till you get a length of nice hard cock in your manhole - or get your cock stuck in another guy then, sorry but you're still a virgin.
As for sucking cock in a condom - gross.

Yes it was not great fellatio with the condom, but I did not want to take too much risk.

He is top, and I think I am top, therefore penetration impossible. It annoys me, I felt like I was taking a huge step forward, but ultimately, it doesn't change my situation.
 

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I’d recommend just finding an aggressive bottom who will take care of your big thick dick. Get it o we with and you’ll no longer have the Virgin stigma
 
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The question is: have I lost my virginity or not? I'm not sure how to classify myself, virgin or not.

The traditional view is that virginity is about penetration or the lack of it. But the history of that is of a man having the confidence that if he marries a virgin, she is not already pregnant with another man's child, though of course she could cheat on him even in the first weeks of the new marriage.

So while it is easy to extrapolate from that to anal sex being the required act in gay sex, the concept is much less useful in gay sex. No-one is getting pregnant and no-one is being tricked into supporting children from a previous encounter and not all gay men are into anal sex.

So, I think, be aware of the generally accepted definition of virginity but don't dwell on it too much. From a previous post you made, moving from exclusively solo masturbation to bringing someone else to orgasm and being touched sexually yourself in a way that didn't seem cheap or just doing it for the sake of it is a milestone and I think you should feel good about that.
 
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Well I certainly am not a virgin as I have fucked a fair number of women and been fucked by guys a half dozen times. I guess I am a cocksucking virgin though as I have never done that. I have had mine sucked but as yet only by women.
 

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Depends what made him come.

Sounds like you're not a virgin in terms of giving oral/hj but are a virgin in terms of receiving it since you did not come.

If you haven't penetrated a guy to completion you are a virgin top. Def wear a condom for that. :)

The rest of it rates as foreplay. Intimate yes but not subject to virgin status.
 

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Seem like no penetration involved, can conclude that your are still a virgin.

By definition, there was penetration.

"Sexual penetration is the insertion of a body part or other object into a body orifice, such as the vagina, anus or mouth, as part of human sexual activity"
 
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Yes it was not great fellatio with the condom, but I did not want to take too much risk.

He is top, and I think I am top, therefore penetration impossible. It annoys me, I felt like I was taking a huge step forward, but ultimately, it doesn't change my situation.

Based on your profile pics... The person at the receiving end better not be a virgin... ;)
 

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You intentionally had sexual contact with another person, to the point that one of you climaxed. Not a "gold star" virgin, but you could still claim that you have some frontiers yet to explore (like anal penetration on either side of the exchange).