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D_Jurgen Klitgaard

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If a straight guy comes to LPSG , and can neither accept that there are gay / bi men here or that they just so happen to like his equipment, perhaps he's on the wrong site.
I have had MANY men here compliment me upon my pictures, by the way, THANKS guys... and the ladies too.

It doesn't freak me out when a guy SAYS he likes my cock- I've been told VERY explicitly what others would like to do with me. It's all good. I appreciate the compliments. I've complimented a few myself-

-I hope the GAY guys didn't get offended by a STR8 complimenting them...

Now, as Stupid as the prior remark sounded,It must be JUST as daft sounding in the opposite verse.

I say- regardless of orientation- if you have it- flaunt it-and don't expect people NOT to like it.

Are you saying my comment was stupid?

Listen, I don't like persistent hounding. If a gay person were to compliment me, then I will thank them. I have no problem doing that. But if constantly asked if I want to meet up somewhere so they can suck it. I have only been here three days and and I am already tired of men asking me that. I am straight, i don't want my cock in your mouth. I am flattered but sorry, no thank you. I am man enough to take a polite comment from another man, but when politeness turn to flat out lets fuck, I have a problem with that.

It's just the same as women on here. Women, how sick are you of guys asking you to comment on their junk or asking if they can fuck you? Am I the only guy left with some decency toward women? Maybe it's my southern hospitality, who knows. But I think it's rude to just flat out ask a woman that. Some women may like that, I don't know.
 

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A point has come to light...

Do the straight guys take offence when gay guys comment on their cock?

or rather, do the straight guys taken offence at gay comments on here?

or even, has a straight guy comment offended any of the gay lads here?

Just wondering?

No. I'm straight and I'm not bothered that gay guys comment on my penis. Sure, I'd rather have a lady comment on it, but I'm not going to get offended if a guy does. I'm putting it out there for all on this site to see, anyway.
 

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I enjoy nice comments about my cock from anyone.
Please feel welcomed to leave them on my gallery pics.

im straight and i have left many comments on guys pics.
I think i can appreciate a great looking cock when i see one.
 

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To be honest a compliment about me is a compliment.. I don't find that if someone is gay that it bothers me. On this site I have put my sexual orientation as 100% straight, because I am.. that being said it does not mean I find gay men offensive. My best friend is bisexual, it has never bothered me and he would never try anything on with me because he knows I'm straight.
I have taken my gallery down and that is because of reasons I do not wish to discuss in public, but when my gallery was up and men passed comment on my body or my cock I always felt good, good because I have self image issues and the fact that another person had found me attractive always made me feel good.
I think that when men (or women for that fact) send sexually aggressive pm's that is when the red flags go up in my head, but again they have been rare and all I have had to do is ignore them and the senders have soon lost interest. I have been posting here for a while and have had people of all sexual orientations send me pm's and some have been really helpful as they contained some really good advice.
When I talk to someone I suppose I see a person, not what their sexual persuasion is.
I am a member here and am not blind to the high number of gay men that are also members, I would never have become a member if that fact bothered me.

Rugbypup, I find it awful that your experience of talking to straight men has left you with such a negative view of the heterosexual community. I personally find homophobia distasteful to say the least. I hope that you will come across more broadminded straight men in your life and lose your fear.
 

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Thats very kind of you, thank you.

I think sadly i am just inherently unable to find a common ground with straight men. Ive never been into football, women, cars or many sports.

I wouldn't consider myself as obviousely gay or camp at all, im no screamer or pink bunny and i dont have that frankly aweful stereotypical soft lisp some gay men seem to have.

Interlecually i like straight men and i luv listening to straight guys talk but they can seem just as uncomfortable speaking to me as much as i do with them and i have no idea how im vibing as gay. I do have a well spoken english accent though, it can only be that im sure.

It's that terrible searching for small talk, then you get that aweful attitude, he's my girlfriends mate syndrome. It's like the straighter they are the more instinctivley they know. Its almost animalistic?

I can certainly say, i dont think i have ever been treated, socially, as an equal by a straight man.

Having said that, in my late teens, before i knew i was gay, i did have a very close straight male friend but looking back now, he was really violent towards me and i always took it for loyalty sake and the hope his instinctual masculinity might rub off on me.

Looking back now, it was like a relationship without the sex, story of my life, lol, and i think i really did kinda fall for him, unbeknown to me then i swear but oddly enough, not to his girlfriend, who hated it so much she poisoned him against me really badly.

He started really hurting me emotionally and occasional physically and im sure it was because of her. In the end I purposely destroyed our friendship as i thought it would hurt less to loose him that way than have him turn his back on me or beat the shit out of me too much because of his girlfriend.

Im still ashamed of how i treated him and miss him so often and its getting on for 10 years now.

Ive never had a close male friend since.

Silly pup, ive made myself all upset now, and why am i telling you all this anyways, lol
 

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I'm not a homophob at all, and i hope you don't think that Rugbypup. I don't mind comments from a gay person at all. But like southweat said, it's the agressive PMs that send up a red flag and that's what I got.

I posted some SS pics, and I wasn't aware about just how popular they would be on here with gay or straight people. I am generally a quiet and shy person so the agressive PMs affected me even more. Therefore I removed the pics from my gallery. Maybe one day I will put more up.

Like someone told me SSers are like gods on this place and I wasn't ready for that exposure only having been here posting for three days.
 

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A point has come to light... Do the straight guys take offence when gay guys comment on their cock? The gays who just say something such as: "nice cock" seem to be accepted as being just complimentary.

or rather, do the straight guys taken offence at gay comments on here? I am not gay or a man but I have noticed that quite a few of the straight guys are perturbed by the more persistent gay men. It's the gay guys who PM them wanting to hook-up that piss many straight guys off and make them take down their pics. :mad: Apparently some men whether gay or straight don't get that no means no.

or even, has a straight guy comment offended any of the gay lads here? Unfortunately, I'm sure there have been ignorant homophophic comments by men and women alike. :redface:

Just wondering?

yah agreed. it gets annoyiing after a point. Instead of a "hello" you get some obscene suggestion. After a few times of this happening, you just don't even bother chatting or putting up pics.

i'm cool with anyone who actually knows how to hold a decent conversation, i'm a str8t guy...if they're gay or bi..that's cool that's their thing...but when u get these few guys that just come at you like that, it helps perpetuate that negative stigma about gay men just out for sex...i mean correct me if i'm wrong but that's how itz been. no offence to anyone inparticular.
 

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yah agreed. it gets annoyiing after a point. Instead of a "hello" you get some obscene suggestion. After a few times of this happening, you just don't even bother chatting or putting up pics.

i'm cool with anyone who actually knows how to hold a decent conversation, i'm a str8t guy...if they're gay or bi..that's cool that's their thing...but when u get these few guys that just come at you like that, it helps perpetuate that negative stigma about gay men just out for sex...i mean correct me if i'm wrong but that's how itz been. no offence to anyone inparticular.

That's exactly how I feel.