No orgasm during sex for me

[Chaotica]

I hope this helps some guys understand why some women aren't keen on the idea and really don't mind not having an orgasm during sex. I don't feel like i'm missing out on much because if i want an orgasm, i just ask him to give it to me and he always does. I am very thankful my husband is secure and doesn't feel the need to make my orgasms about him or his cock.

I can relate to this so much. If I have been fucked well, then I don't feel like I've missed out on not having an orgasm, and they are easy to obtain otherwise. Yet at the same time, it's been my goal for seemingly forever to try to have one during intercourse on a consistent basis. I can do it if I can slip my fingers in between us there, onto my clit, and get our bodies into wonky positions, but it's not easy by any means, and it doesn't seem "real" since that WAS my finger there doing the job.

 

[deleted15807]

It could be your 'C-V distance'.

Female orgasms and a 'rule of thumb'

'C-V distance' may be a factor in how easily a woman has an orgasm.

 

[dolfette]

eurgh!

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I know Dolfette, frustrating. And as long as people aren't willing to see how many women aren't built for this we are going to have to continue to look like bitches, fakers, stubborn, etc.

Several people didn't even bother reading what i wrote did they? I give up!

I don't want help, i'm trying to HELP other people!

 

[D_Cowboy Coitus]

I can have 50 of them in a night when a guy can't have that many in a month. They just aren't that special to me.

Allthe guys I know can have way more than 50 in a month

I dont mind this post being used to dispel some myths about female orgasms - but please lets not create them about male orgasms...just like the one that goes men cant have multiple orgasms...

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Allthe guys I know can have way more than 50 in a month

I dont mind this post being used to dispel some myths about female orgasms - but please lets not create them about male orgasms...just like the one that goes men cant have multiple orgasms...

Ok, can you have 100 in a night? Because i can. So get the hell off my thread if you are going to try to take one integer that i mentioned, which was 50 and make my thread about that.

Ok, the number is now 100 a night instead of 50 a month. Have anything else to contribute or does that out do your number? I can have about 1 per minute for atleast 2 hours. So thats well above 100.

Moving on....this isnt about male multiple orgasms at all. I was using it as an EXAMPLE that i'm multi-multi-multi orgasmic and there is nothing wrong with my body and the way it is designed. That's the point of my thread, if you got the number 50 per month out of the whole thing i wrote....you missed the entire point.

 

[dolfette]

I know Dolfette, frustrating. And as long as people aren't willing to see how many women aren't built for this we are going to have to continue to look like bitches, fakers, stubborn, etc.

Several people didn't even bother reading what i wrote did they? I give up!

I don't want help, i'm trying to HELP other people!

it's like they read the title, decide nothing else you wrote could be of interest, reply to the title.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I know, in the 2nd paragraph i go on to explain in thorough detail as to WHY i don't want to be in pain anymore trying to be what others consider "normal" and that my urethra gets pulled inside of my vagina and yanked around and bruised up and then i can't urinate for an hour and then i get bladder infections. Why suddenly do i need all sorts of ways to make it happen?

I went into great detail to describe the clamping of the vagina during the vaginal contractions and how fucking painful it is when a huge dick is inside of you when that happens. Why would I want to repeat that?????

Ok here goes:

I'm ORGASMIC, i DONT WANT THEM DURING SEX for damn good reason.

Luckily i know my body this well and have weighed what is important to me. Orgasms without sex = no bladder infections or pain. Orgasms during sex = not worth it. Imagine how many poor women there are out there getting a million urinary tract infections from the same ordeal but they have no idea what they might be doing during sex is making them much more prone.

If a guy had to urinate after sex and his whole dick was on fire, he might change his mind about pulling her shit all inside of her while her vagina is spasming up.

 

[dolfette]

I know, in the 2nd paragraph i go on to explain in thorough detail as to WHY i don't want to be in pain anymore trying to be what others consider "normal" and that my urethra gets pulled inside of my vagina and yanked around and bruised up and then i can't urinate for an hour and then i get bladder infections. Why suddenly do i need all sorts of ways to make it happen?

I went into great detail to describe the clamping of the vagina during the vaginal contractions and how fucking painful it is when a huge dick is inside of you when that happens. Why would I want to repeat that?????

have you tried screaming at people? :smile:

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I'm beginning to think for many reasons this place is for the birds honestly.

 

[D_Cowboy Coitus]

@mademoiselle - oh i'll get off your post. not for the reasons you ask - but it is not worth trying to talk to flamers...

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Yeah that's my whole problem, I'm a flamer. No one wants to read my thread without just responding to the title or the number 50 orgasms in a month and YOU call my response a flaming one?

You are about the 5th person to not even read my thread and respond to it. Your response was about male multiple orgasms, nothing to do with the message of my thread. You sir, replied to my thread to not want to further create myths about male multiple orgasms. Had i mentioned the number to be 100 orgasms per night, you wouldn't have gotten bent out of shape at all.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Dolfette- i should just be happy that no dude has said "Maybe a bigger dick like mine would help"

 

[dolfette]

Dolfette- i should just be happy that no dude has said "Maybe a bigger dick like mine would help"

you're tempting fate!

 

[D_Cowboy Coitus]

Mademoiselle - the point is I didnt comment on your thread about your (female) orgasms as how could I. I am a man. i read them to learn.

yet when I point out ur ill founded comment on male orgasms - something you equally you cannot comment on for the same reasons. you are a woman. You dont take my points on board and learn from them.

you flame.

that's sad.

 

[dolfette]

''womens issues''

women's orgasms.

feel free to make your own thread on male orgasms, rather than twist her simple figure of speech to gain attention.

i tell people i'm repeating myself for the millionth time. i don't expect them to take it as gospel that the numbers are accurate.

 

[D_Cowboy Coitus]

Dolfette -Are you suggesting that it is wrong to challenge misinformation?

If you dont get my last post either - or think I'm just doing this to "gain attention" that is just as stupid.

Whose attention exactly am I trying to gain?

 

[dolfette]

Dolfette -Are you suggesting that it is wrong to challenge misinformation?

If you dont get my last post either - or think I'm just doing this to "gain attention" that is just as stupid.

Whose attention exactly am I trying to gain?

you said you were done here, yet here you are insisting on getting the last word. attention seeking seems the obvious reason for your posting.

 

[D_Cowboy Coitus]

Oh believe me I'm really done now - not worth speaking to flamers with closed minds.

QED

 

[HazelGod]

QED

Oh, the irony... :lmao: