D_golden parachute
Experimental Member
Yeah that is true, if you are genuine it really wont bother you if people think otherwise cos you can just ignore them
It's your decision whether or not you want to post pics and no one should harass you about it...posting pics is not mandatory. Why post pics of yourself or your man when you're not comfortable with it just to appease some people who don't know or even care enough about you to respect your wishes?
Ok so I've had this problem many times here, to the point where I don't really participate on the forums any more. But tonight I went to the chat because I was bored and somebody I didn't even know came and accused me of being a fake because I didn't have a pic of the big penis I get to enjoy.
So my question is, does not having a man willing to share his picture mean you can't participate here? Does my man not wanting a bunch of random dudes/women on the internet seeing his penis mean his penis is tiny and I shouldn't be here? Is not feeling comfortable sharing pics a ticket to second class citizenship here?
TBH, I'm more skeptical of the gals that come on here with the MySpace or low-quailty cam porn photos and come on really strong posting things like, "Come on boys, let me see those giant cocks, PM me to cam" or whatever. Women whose posts are a little more low key and don't have photos are generally more believeable than that.
Yes, Sweety, I was being harassed in the chat room but that was curtailed when I made it known that I would report it. Standing up for yourself doesn't make you an asshole. It is better than doing it back which wouldn't be appropriate. Don't forget that you can use the "ignore" feature. Have fun and thanks for venting your concerns.
The funny thing is I get more shit for not having pics of my man's cock than not having pics of myself. I guess I should just claim he's only 4 inches long so nobody here is threatened.
No this is nonsense. People dont have to share pics if they dont want too. I respect that.
Yes i dont question people on their pics. Im not here to pick someone apart.To me it seems the other way around - like if people post pictures and they are too perfect or if they have that whole 'internet fadedness' to them that makes them appear as if they've been recycled on here for years - that's the stuff that makes me wonder. I've seen a bunch of fakes just by clicking on the gallery every once in a while. Not so much that I'm actively familiar with every fake picture or pornstar cock, but you do get that whole 'I've seen this somewhere before' feeling. Whereas if someone has no pics, I think they're either shy or humble. But definitely not that they're fake, because what's there to fake if there's nothing to judge?
There are some great people in the Chatroom. Having said that im not into the whole Cyber Blind Date thing. Its a real mess. Someones allways getting burned.Just ignore them. I stay away from chat. It's a bunch of cliques and machoness in there anyway. So, I just stay out.