No pics = faker?

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It's your decision whether or not you want to post pics and no one should harass you about it...posting pics is not mandatory. Why post pics of yourself or your man when you're not comfortable with it just to appease some people who don't know or even care enough about you to respect your wishes?
 

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I volunteer my own pathetic pic collection for your use.

When someone gets pissy because you aren't posting pics of your partner's cock, just link them to my gallery.

Just tell them those are him and tell them whatever size you want (because it won't matter).

Problem solved! :biggrin1:
 

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It's your decision whether or not you want to post pics and no one should harass you about it...posting pics is not mandatory. Why post pics of yourself or your man when you're not comfortable with it just to appease some people who don't know or even care enough about you to respect your wishes?

I could care less about the pictures. Who is this "man" and why am I not the guy you are snapping pics with. :wink:
 

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LOL I used to post from another account (with a more clearly feminine name) and I racked up 1300 posts or something like that, I think. I had up a few pictures, and it was generally known that many people on here have spoken to me on the phone, and three (two of whom were once very, very well known here) members have met me in person. Still, I was once accused of being a fake. I attempted to silence that quickly with photos of my face, and a sign with my (then current) user name. Still, I was accused of being Madame_zora, Lex, and Naughty! LOL Eventually my accuser came around to logic (and my irrefutable photographic evidence).

I intend to put up new photos for this account, and reccomend you do the same. This time, because I don't want it immediately recognizeable to every horny idiot that I'm female I won't appear in the photos, but instead will drape a sign with my user name over my sleeping feline, or the skeleton in my living room. You might do something similar if it makes you more comfortable, or, you may simply ignore your detractors. You wouldn't be the first to go that route, nor would you be the last.
 

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Ok so I've had this problem many times here, to the point where I don't really participate on the forums any more. But tonight I went to the chat because I was bored and somebody I didn't even know came and accused me of being a fake because I didn't have a pic of the big penis I get to enjoy.

So my question is, does not having a man willing to share his picture mean you can't participate here? Does my man not wanting a bunch of random dudes/women on the internet seeing his penis mean his penis is tiny and I shouldn't be here? Is not feeling comfortable sharing pics a ticket to second class citizenship here?


i hope not.
 

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TBH, I'm more skeptical of the gals that come on here with the MySpace or low-quailty cam porn photos and come on really strong posting things like, "Come on boys, let me see those giant cocks, PM me to cam" or whatever. Women whose posts are a little more low key and don't have photos are generally more believeable than that.
 

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TBH, I'm more skeptical of the gals that come on here with the MySpace or low-quailty cam porn photos and come on really strong posting things like, "Come on boys, let me see those giant cocks, PM me to cam" or whatever. Women whose posts are a little more low key and don't have photos are generally more believeable than that.

What she said.
 

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Yes, Sweety, I was being harassed in the chat room but that was curtailed when I made it known that I would report it. Standing up for yourself doesn't make you an asshole. It is better than doing it back which wouldn't be appropriate. Don't forget that you can use the "ignore" feature. Have fun and thanks for venting your concerns.

Standing up for yourself is a thousand times better than living the way you would have to if you didn't. And there are LOTS of losers slinking around having to do that on a daily basis, so don't be one of them. It doesn't make the world better to put up with that crap.
 

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I had pictures up here ages ago. Took 'em down for various reasons, including some odd PM's.

At this point, I don't care if people think I'm "fake". Besides, I have made very few statements about myself, so I doubt anyone could describe the "pretend" me, anyway.

As far as participating goes, I'd say that if you don't have pics, you'll probably have a hard time pic swapping, camming, or hooking up. If you just want to read/post in the forums, chat, and look at the gallery, I'm sure you'll be fine.
 

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To me it seems the other way around - like if people post pictures and they are too perfect or if they have that whole 'internet fadedness' to them that makes them appear as if they've been recycled on here for years - that's the stuff that makes me wonder. I've seen a bunch of fakes just by clicking on the gallery every once in a while. Not so much that I'm actively familiar with every fake picture or pornstar cock, but you do get that whole 'I've seen this somewhere before' feeling. Whereas if someone has no pics, I think they're either shy or humble. But definitely not that they're fake, because what's there to fake if there's nothing to judge?
 

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To me it seems the other way around - like if people post pictures and they are too perfect or if they have that whole 'internet fadedness' to them that makes them appear as if they've been recycled on here for years - that's the stuff that makes me wonder. I've seen a bunch of fakes just by clicking on the gallery every once in a while. Not so much that I'm actively familiar with every fake picture or pornstar cock, but you do get that whole 'I've seen this somewhere before' feeling. Whereas if someone has no pics, I think they're either shy or humble. But definitely not that they're fake, because what's there to fake if there's nothing to judge?
Yes i dont question people on their pics. Im not here to pick someone apart.
 

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Not having pics doesn't necessarily make you a fake. In fact, my best friend posted on the internet for a long time without any pics. She was easily hot enough to be a Playboy covergirl, even though she'd never admit it publically, as modest as she was. Just be yourself and people will see that you're the real deal. Besides, the fakers tend to either get busted stealing pics from somewhere and claiming them or fuck up their story along the way.