In Response to Invisble Man: I thought about that briefly before I started the original post. I did PM him privately to let him know exactly why I was offended. I had to PM him because he was so arrogant about posting his penis size over & over w/o answering any of my questions. He apparently became annoyed with my questions and told me to, "wait, I have to go walk my dog."
It was at that point that anger overcame fear and my rant began.
I have accepted PM's and chats from people with no profile & no pic in the past because they were nice, complimentary, or just bored and wanted to chat. I will continue to do so, but this guy SCARED me. He was aggressive, arrogant, and predatory.
RE: Who is to say that you can't find the fuck of the century and/or love of one's lifetime and not have pics online? True, my current fuck buddy found me on AOL (of all places?!) eight months ago. He had one pic posted which had been taken in college when he was much heavier and had a full beard. He is now physically fit, 40, and sports a moustache and goatee. He also embellished his height by 2 inches :wink:
I have told my girlfriends that although he is attractive, if I had seen him at a bar, party, or work related function he would not have even been a blip on my radar.
At risk of sounding like some new age oddball, I got a really good vibe from him. He is a genuinely kind and decent man with a little baggage, but so what. I have baggage too. Besides he makes me cum buckets, introduced me to analgasms, and never fails to make me feel pretty. If he hadn't had a vasectomy I would probably want to marry him.
I didn't sign up for LPSG because I am a Size Queen.
I signed up because I like to look at nude men and the forums are interesting. Okay. . . I admit it, I get a little thrill from posting my nude pics and receiving such complimentary feedback; but who doesn't? Besides it's cheaper than therapy!:wink:
For the record, although I was reared in a conservative Methodist home with old fashioned morals and values I am often vain, shallow, and sometimes even materialistic. I used to consider these faults. Now they are just parts of who I am, and who I am is a a spunky, audacious, and sometimes sassy Jersey Girl. :biggrin1:
I guess he knows who you are and what you are about now, gurlfriend. I guess people don't really date anymore. They have to go online, put up pics, a resume, a blood work up, a medical history, a credit history, and must be enrolled in a gym.
I think no matter who you are and who you are going to be with--there has to be some respect. Definately, this didn't turn out so well with the said party. Men sometimes don't know how to treat women (and men). (If you are wronged--it would be nice to let the party at fault know with a private message.:smile: It actually scares potential men or women away from you when you make it public in a public forum. It makes you come across as self serving.) With the amazing technological advances with the internet, it is sad that people don't really treat each other right on it. People think that they can have everything made-to-order. Things don't work that way. Especially, with human reproduction and genetics. (Think about it.:smile: ) I guess he knows who you are and what you are about now, gurlfriend. I guess people don't really date anymore. They have to go online, put up pics, a resume, a blood work up, a medical history, a credit history, and must be enrolled in a gym.
I think no matter who you are and who you are going to be with--there has to be some respect. Definately, this didn't turn out so well with the said party. Men sometimes don't know how to treat women (and men). (If you are wronged--it would be nice to let the party at fault know with a private message.:smile: It actually scares potential men or women away from you when you make it public in a public forum. It makes you come across as self serving.) With the amazing technological advances with the internet, it is sad that people don't really treat each other right on it. People think that they can have everything made-to-order. Things don't work that way. Especially, with human reproduction and genetics. (Think about it.:smile: ) Who is to say that you can't find the fuck of the century and/or love of one's lifetime and not have pics online?