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I used to stay out of the chatroom for these very reasons. Now i've learned how to deal with the "please cam for me" dudes who have no information available about themselves. What's interesting to me is many IM me because they've read my posts on the forum, so of course they know something about me and I know squat about them.
10. To those who are respectful to me in the chatroom, thank you. You are the ones who make my periodic visits there so very enjoyable.
Most people(here)--men and women-- have good manners and know how to speak to one another; therefore, they don't need a lesson on communicating or 'suggestions for chatting up'.
Yes, most do have good manners. I thought I made that clear when I created #10 and thanked them for their courtesy(see above). If not, my apologies. My list is for not for the majority but for the small handful of people who could use a few pointers. I made it in semi-jest, knowing that those who need to read it most probably won't.
Here is my suggestion: if someone is rude to you, tell him so; if this same person is rude to you again, tell him to take a flying leap. Emotions should be expressed, not bottled up inside. Stand up to the offender!
Please take the time to reread my quote above and what is marked in bold. I have many faults but a lack of backbone is not one of them. I do, in fact, ignore or set offenders straight when the occasion calls for it. I hardly think that what i've written in my post shows repressed emotion. I've stated exactly what I think and what I do when someone is rude. So not only am I straightforward with those in the chatroom, i've been straightforward here in this thread. Nothing bottled up here. Expressing myself has never been a problem for me.
 

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To the mad Jersey gurl---
My Dear Valiant Invisibleman,

Oh! Is that what the moderators' responsibility is?
I'm new to the group, and although I am a member on other listserves I have never had the need for the assitance of a moderator. That is not a dig at LPSG.org!
The LPSG Moderators have special super powers. (Some have super sexual powers but you will find out those later.) They have powers to ban peeps from the world of LPSG for a brief period or for forever and ever. You have to tell the moderator, though and they will monitor a troublesome guy's (or gurl's) postings. If they deem that they are indeed disruptive to the normal flow of LPSG, then, they are warned by them. Then, if the troublesome poster continues on being troublesome, they are put on a brief ban for a period. Then, if they are continuing to be a nuisance after that ban, they are banned for good.
To find a moderator, they will have Moderator under their LPSG name. Private message them to state your grievance. Be as detailed as you can. The date and time said incident. Give the name of the individual that is giving you a hard time.

While I have often responded to anonymous im's, the truth is I have avoided chat rooms for years. The only reason I entered this one is because everyone seemed so nice and laid back that I felt comfortable entering it.

The chat room. I miss the old chat room on LPSG though. The Jetson door bells and door slams. The cool indigo blue swirls in the background and the multicolored fonts of the chat. But, chat rooms are chat rooms. LPSG has some cool people on the chat though.

Back to your original point, I still have no idea how to contact a moderator. :confused: Should I have clicked "contact us" & sent an e-mail? Or is there an icon that I should click which is the virtual equivalent of a rape whistle?


As point of reference, you can have Matt, but Ben is mine.
I also have dibs on Mark Harmon-NCIS, Gary Dourdan-CSI;
Faber Dewar & Doug Wilson on Trading Spaces. (OMFG!!! Mark Harmon. I have to pay munny now to feel that fur on his chest...oh well. To feel Alec Baldwin's chest hair, all I have to do is give him a few Nathan's chili dogs, some seasoned fries and a medium Sprite. The price you pay...:wink: )


Is Metrasexual the 21st century term for faghag?
Cause I've been in that club for years :biggrin1: I can't believe
none of my many "Friends of Dorothy" didn't clue me in.
Those bitches are so jeaous! Two of them are still mad at me for the glorious entrance I made New Year's Eve 2004.

You see how beyotches can be when they get envious of you. They withhold information from you. (And never let them know your fuck buddy gives you "analgasms" because your FODs will want an "analgasm" as well. :wink: )
 

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I'm curious, how bad is it for you ladies? Do you get a plethora of posts daily? I used to have a personal blog that I had some vids on and I would be contacted occasionally but I can't imagine what you all go through =/

In all honesty...I just joined here and I did contact somebody in a PM but it was completely passive. I hope that because of my low post count it wasn't taken as something else *ohhh oh!* I'm sure it wasn't :)

Chears!
 

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FWIW, I have some very worthwhile chats with people who have neither pics nor posts. There's still the initial reaction "Oh, this should be good", but I'll still give them a chance. I don't have pics myself, doesn't make me any less real.

I don't consider lack of pic or posts worthy of automatic disqualification.


I completely agree with you. But if someone doesn't have pics or posts for me to review, I have nothing to go on unless they throw me a bone (no pun intended). That's why I said no information=no response. As long as they're willing to tell me something about themselves, talk about why they're here, or discuss whatever's going on in the chatroom, i'll talk to them.
 

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I think the dilemma lies in te efact that it is so hard to indeed find a real woman online who can verify her gender, yet there are a million gender=female profiles on the yahoos, msns and ICQ who will up and IM a guy because of his status or profile information. When in fact they are a fake be it a guy or a girl who looks nothing liek the pics she sent you...No one is going to pretend to be a guy to contact women because then he would have to do double work not only coming up with a scheme, but sifting through all the fake women as well.

I'm sure it is exponentially more difficult being a real woman who is constantly bombarded with guys who lie and make false claims and flood their inbox's with garbage. At the same time don't expect most of us to take that into consideration because we are out here trying to find someone who can reciprocate the interaction.

All in all it is FRUSTRATING as hell for those of us who put on a good show and follow simple requests, but when it comes down to it I've been known to boot a few "females" off my cam because they wanna make demands and have nothing to offer in return. I don't want to fuck you, I just want to have fun...When it no longer is fun for either of us then don't IM me.

I agree that most people have good manners, but there are always the ones that leave the sour taste inour mouths.
 

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I'm curious, how bad is it for you ladies? Do you get a plethora of posts daily?
A quote from one of our new ladies :''well over 300 within a week''. :rolleyes:
If I was her I'd be doing a lot of ''User Blocking''.The constant stream of pop up message alerts must become a real pain,not to mention all the ''you have a new message'' emails you have to delete.
 

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Yes, most do have good manners. I thought I made that clear when I created #10 and thanked them for their courtesy(see above). If not, my apologies. My list is for not for the majority but for the small handful of people who could use a few pointers. I made it in semi-jest, knowing that those who need to read it most probably won't.

Please take the time to reread my quote above and what is marked in bold. I have many faults but a lack of backbone is not one of them. I do, in fact, ignore or set offenders straight when the occasion calls for it. I hardly think that what i've written in my post shows repressed emotion. I've stated exactly what I think and what I do when someone is rude. So not only am I straightforward with those in the chatroom, i've been straightforward here in this thread. Nothing bottled up here. Expressing myself has never been a problem for me.
Bliss You are my dream girl.............:wink: You are amazing...........:smile:
 

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A quote from one of our new ladies :''well over 300 within a week''. :rolleyes:


WOW, that's incredible...in a bad way =/ I'd VERY much consider leaving a site if something like that happened to me :(
 

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A quote from one of our new ladies :''well over 300 within a week''.

WOW, that's incredible...in a bad way =/ I'd VERY much consider leaving a site if something like that happened to me :(
Yep, some people don't seem to understand what ''respect people's boundaries'' (Terms Of Service) means.
 

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I dont bother the ladies. Im polite and respectfull. I leave getting dirty up to them. All the the ladies have been great to me. I think what they are asking for is just a little respect. I wouldnt walk up to a woman in public and talk dirty without knowing them. I wont do it here...............:cool:
 

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What a lot of *big girls' blouses* some of you are - this is LPSG not a line up at the junior high school prom. Because I have not posted pics of my dick I am person non grata? You have every right to post messages, answer or not answer IMs PMs, put out pics and your statistics. But please don't run around polishing your halo. "I think the lady doth protest too much" applies to some guys here as well. If you want respect then start by respecting other people and stop being so fucken egocentric.
 

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I must add to the earlier rant that the males on here that act like humans and provide amusing and (sometimes) intelligent conversation make it easy to spot the high school kids looking for a cheap thrill

To you gentlemen of LPSG, I thank you!!:kiss:

We have one thing in common, we are all human, (also, most of us males have large dicks, but, we wont go there.)
A lot of men also have in common with every other men, that love women, ofcourse, I am no exception, but then again, the ones that are drawn to the alternitive variety (note, I didn't say a word, I am being politically correct! :biggrin1:) also like to air their views to the opposite sex and help wherever possible.
Most here are quite adultry and mature and most do try to give the best advice possible.
 

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What a lot of *big girls' blouses* some of you are - this is LPSG not a line up at the junior high school prom. Because I have not posted pics of my dick I am person non grata? You have every right to post messages, answer or not answer IMs PMs, put out pics and your statistics. But please don't run around polishing your halo. "I think the lady doth protest too much" applies to some guys here as well. If you want respect then start by respecting other people and stop being so fucken egocentric.
I suppose the irony here is lost on you.
 

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I’m so glad I’ve gone stealth. No more annoying PM’s, email, or lpsg stalking. They just wouldn’t leave me alone. All these fake guys pretending to be women it’s absolutely ridiculous. I’ve even stopped my online stalking (no more buddies list). I used to try and see what the non to rarely posting women might be thinking by what they were viewing. Not no more.:mad:

If you are a real woman and want a no nonsense get to know kind of exchange be prepared to photo verify. I don’t know, something like a quick turn around request of you with some gesture and an lpsg card that say’s something like 'spiker is okay' emailed. Otherwise keep it on the forum, though there really is no room to flirt there.:mad:

I’m totally kidding. I’ve gotten like 0/1 unsolicited PM’s or emails. I just thought if women got a rant so did the hetero guys though mine is pointless cause I’ve lost interest for some reason…. Maybe it’s the pointlessness of it all <nihilistic sigh>….

Later!!!:smile:

P.S. That alpha male thread? That makes it definitely 'pointedly' funny.
 

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What a lot of *big girls' blouses* some of you are - this is LPSG not a line up at the junior high school prom. Because I have not posted pics of my dick I am person non grata? You have every right to post messages, answer or not answer IMs PMs, put out pics and your statistics. But please don't run around polishing your halo. "I think the lady doth protest too much" applies to some guys here as well. If you want respect then start by respecting other people and stop being so fucken egocentric.[/quote I think your missing the point. As for respecting people i think you have some learning to do.
 

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What a lot of *big girls' blouses* some of you are - this is LPSG not a line up at the junior high school prom. Because I have not posted pics of my dick I am person non grata? You have every right to post messages, answer or not answer IMs PMs, put out pics and your statistics. But please don't run around polishing your halo. "I think the lady doth protest too much" applies to some guys here as well. If you want respect then start by respecting other people and stop being so fucken egocentric.
I think your missing the point. As for respecting people i think you have some learning to do.
Know-it-all's never learn unfortunately.
I wonder how many have put Mr.Torpedo on their 'Ignore' list ?
 

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I've done a bit of reading over the years, but I don't think I've ever run into the phrase "big girls' blouses" before. Can anyone elucidate?

At least the punctuation is good; the man in the street handles apostrophes about as well as I handle sports trivia.
 

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