It makes me sad that you think like that about your body type - you are just as sexy, gorgeous and wonderful as any other woman, or man, on the planet - there are plenty of men who love your shape, your breasts. I know loads of guys who prefer small breasts. You have to take what you've got and be proud of it - enhance any body shape with the right attitude and you can be way sexier than these women you, for some reason, consider more attractive. The reason you don't get atttention is not small breasts / height / weight - you don't get attention because you incorrectly seem to feel that you don't deserve it. You DO deserve it. Sure go ahead - lose some weight if you want to - it's healthier anyway (I should take a leaf from that book too). Buy a push up bra if it boosts your clevage and your confidence - why not! Do those things for yourself though - to make YOU happy - to improve your confidence - then other people will notice how attractive you were all along. But it is the confidence, not the appearance, that'll do it.
I need to meet those guys of whom you speak, I guess. I don't know any personally.
I'm working on the weight thing by exercising when I can. But I like to do those kinds of things for fun anyway, like hiking, softball, volleyball, etc. I used to be slim. I didn't attract that many men then, either, I was around a bunch of men who didn't like "skinny women"! Now, I wasn't bony-skinny like some of these celebrities you see now. I was a healthy slim, and the look is completely different. But I was still barked at when I walked down the halls at school (back when I was in school, that is).
I'm sure I'd get more dates if I was less shy too, but that's hard to overcome. I'm working on it but I still have trouble at parties and such. I never have any idea what to talk about.
Actually, I am average looking, not ugly. I try to tell myself that. But I'm a perfectionist - I want to be drop-dead gorgeous. I want to turn heads when I enter the room.