I don't know if this is a problem or not but here is my info: 19 year old college sophomore, complete virgin. I obviously have a desire to j/o and do so when I have time...sometimes i go a few days without j/o other times I do it 3-4 in 12 hours, just depends. I notice hot guys and girls around campus and like to oogle but thats it. I don't feel inclined to initiate any type of communication that would possible maybe just sorta lead to any sexual experience.... I've read forums on here, and the few male friends I have seem to be "getting it" or craving it way way more than I do. I usually join in with them but do so in a joking way. Any ideas/tips/helpful things/causes/etc. that you might know, I would LOVE to know!