Thanks for your advice krater. Your incite into masturbation technique is helpful. I haven't tried lube, but it seems I really just haven't tried enough. But I have some questions;
When you masturbate what do you look at?
Can you masturbate without porn?
What do you think about while you masturbate?
Do you masturbate for physical or mental fulfillment (give percentages)?
Can you tell the moment when you're about to cum..? Describe that moment.
Have you masterbated with out cumming?
After you've cum... what's the feeling.. pressume every goes soft?
Hmmm.. think that about covers it. Of course you're not obligated to answer any of the questions - but people on this forum are remarkably open.
When I've masturbated & I think I'm ready to cum... I seem to loose the moment in my head - which I think is because I'm not probably stimulating myself. Something the lube might help with.
More question are cumming to me (no pun intended :wink: ):
When you mastubate - do you focus on the head...?
When having virignal sex do you ever use your hand to get things to the right point.. or is that not an issue?
I better stop before I get carried away.......
Yes, try lube... there's always time for lube!! lol... I can't imagine not having tried enough. It seems, comparatively, that I masturbate ALL the time haha... I can't imagine not doing it and especially not doing it often
I look at EVERYTHING when I masturbate, guys, girls, you name it... I'm not into weird or gross stuff... but good ole porn always gets the job done. I tend to look at straight porn or solo guys... some guy on guy is ok I guess.
I can masturbate without porn, I just HATE to. I am a tactile/visual person. I have a great imagination, but its just a lot of work having to be in total control of both mental and physical stimulation. Looking at porn takes half the work involved out.
Mainly, I think about how hot it is to see someone pleasuring themselves. I love to watch people do what they like to do to themselves. Being involved with the other person is great, sex is great, but as I said before everyone knows their body best and there's just something extra powerful about seeing them explore that.
For me at least, masturbation is 50% mental and 50% physical fulfillment. It changes based on my situation... if I'm tired it tends to be quick and just gets whatever I need done lol. Then sometimes I take as long as I want because it just feels good to make myself happy lol... I guess I'm a bit of a hedonist...
Of course I can tell when I'm about to cum... It feels like a cold and hot rush of power, wind, energy, something... then as it builds I feel completely vulnerable, blissed out, full... I dunno... full just seems to be the word... satiated.
I have masturbated without cumming... It can be fun, but I usually go the distance and finish myself off.
Afterwards, as I said before, I feel full.. complete. Actually, I tend to stay very very hard after I cum... it takes a while for me to go down.
When masturbating, I do tend to focus on the head if I'm trying to finish up... more stimulation gets me closer. I like to play with everything, but as far as my technique goes its usually more head stimulation with the right amount of lube.
"When having virignal sex do you ever use your hand to get things to the right point.. or is that not an issue?"
I'm not really sure what you mean by this last question... do you mean vaginal sex?
It could be completely possible that you're putting way to much thought into what sex and masturbation is supposed to be and feel like... Just enjoy the sensation, don't think too much, and when you feel like you're about to cum... let go, just let go... lol