No Stalls?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by bigboy19, Mar 21, 2005.

  1. bigboy19

    bigboy19 New Member

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    Hey everyone,
    This is my first post here. I'm 20 years old (ignore the 19 in my nick...silly to have put my age in it!) and I guess you can say I've got a big dick (as most of us here ;)). I've been a lurker for awhile, never visiting very often, and finding most topics covered so adequately that I didn't have much to add. But finally I've got something to discuss...heh.

    I don't really know what forum this should go in, but i figured it has to do with relationships sorta... It's sorta weird so don't think I'm a perv or I got a fetish or something... I'm just curious.

    I read earlier posts about guys' using urinals in public restrooms and whether or not/how their size effected how comfortable or confident they were in relieving themselves. That question lead me to a similar one...

    I went camping last week with a bud of mine and the only men's room at the grounds was...not very modern. There were just two toilets and a urinal in the room...and a hose to wash your hands outside the door. There weren't any stalls, you know, like no partitions between the toilets... and no lock on the door...which I'll admit I'm not used to, but I didn't have much a problem with it. My friend was upset though and said he'd rather shit in the woods and wipe himself with leaves than use that bathroom...which is exactly what he did all week. I, on the other hand, was completely comfortable using the bathroom. Other guys at the campsite had varying reactions...several walked in on me, apologized and left... either waiting by the door or just returning to their campsite I guess. Some guys, however, had no problem sitting right down on the crapper next to me. Don't know how many guys avoided the bathroom altogether like my friend.

    I guess I'm just wondering what you all guys think of this. Am I weird? Is my friend? How comfortable would you be or have you ever been in a similar situation? Like can you take a shit in front of close friends or lovers? Are the same guys who have no problem using urinals, especially without partitions or trough urinals, just as comfortable with taking a dump? A lot of guys said their size effected their confidence in lockerooms and showers and using urinals...does size effect something like this just in being comfortable enough to be yourself? Any ideas?

    Thanks.
     
  2. Dr Rock

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    I'm sure I COULD take a dump in front of friends or lovers. I just don't know anyone who'd want to be subjected to the sight of me pinching off a loaf.
     
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    I can (an like to) piss anywhere, anytime, in front of anybody. Taking a "public" dump, is however a whole 'nuther problem. Ick.
     
  4. blackwood

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    bigboy..


    Lead off by saying that I am an oldtimer so some attitude will expose me as such.

    Once I graduated high school, was in the militay service (which provided NO creature comfort or respect for privacy). I got used to the company at the throne though, which led to various comments about my size and why I had to dangle my rigging in front off the stool insteard of in it. Nothing much else to chat about you know. Our regular toilets, even enclosed, are trickey for anyone with low hangers and long dick to negotiate without dropping all into the water. Pee at the urinal or standing at the stool but crap at home or somewhere near a shower.

    Using urinals at the DFW Airport for some reason always attracts viewer/estimators, who are both fun and annoying. This is especially so where urinals are wall hung and do not go to the floor. I found this to be less so in other airports but I have spent more time at DFW.

    You don't seem to be wierd, you are bigboy, GOOD enough.



    blackwood..
     
  5. Imported

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    gamma_phi: I used to go camping a lot and there were the same type of facilities as you described. Even the showers were wide open - no door to the whole building - just walk in, make a left, and there were the showers - no curtains, doors, NOTHING! Keep straight instead of making a left and there were the toilets and such. No partitions, NOTHING. There were doors to the crapper though (thank the big G-man!). We had to shower with everyone walking in and out during the night (or day if you showered during the day). You just kinda got used to it. Either you did it or you didn't - you smelled rather RANK if you didn't, so what's a guy to do?
     
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    Funny thing - I never mind anybody sitting on the next crapper in wide-open restrooms but what does bother me is that they'll think that the stink is mine. :blush:
     
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    I don't really care if the urinals in a bathroom are such that you don't have any privacy. You can't always duck into a stall if you're wanting to avoid displaying your goods. My college is a mix of a few new buildings and ones that are ancient. Most all of the ancient ones pride themselves on guys standing as physically close to each other as possible while urinating.

    Taking a dump, however, I'd rather have a little privacy. Get backed up enough and I suppose you'd take a dump live on the Ellen show if you had to, but give me a choice and I'll choose doors - especially when I'm doing the one act that will be as close to giving birth as I ever hope to get :D

    Growing up a guy for 19+ years has taught me not to expect any privacy. In our shower room there ain't a bit of privacy...8 nozzles around the outside of the room and 6 hanging down from a water pipe in the center of the room and you're just about close enough you could scrub the other guys back (and whatever else you wanted to I guess) if he'd let you. Head over to the girl's dorms...private stalls, curtains, and even someone to hold an umbrella when they get out of the shower...never mind, been watching too much michael jackson trial...Lord I apologize.
     
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    Around 10 - 12 years ago, my family was hiking and camping in the west. One of the parks where we stayed had a wooden 3 seater latrine...really! LMAO! Talk about companionship!

    jay
     
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    I've been camping all my life, bigboy, but I'm pretty sure that if I came across your particular campground I'd be saving up all my BMs for 3 a.m., or some time when I'd be sure to have the throne room to myself! Group dumping is just a nasty concept, IMHO.

    Funny item along these lines: In the campgrounds in Vermont state parks they actually use bathroom partitions made by a company called "Hiney Hiders." I kid you not -- it's emblazoned right there on the door latch!! This one time I went camping in Vermont with three friends and on about our second day there we were all like, "Have you noticed that the bathroom stalls are called Hiney Hiders?? LOL!"

    Steve :D
     
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    You actually said, "LOL"?
     
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    Most guys get used to not having much privacy at times and BMs are just a natural function that everyone does. Still there seems to be a certain loss of...uhm.... dignity about the whole thing. Much prefer privacy.

    I will never forget the toilet that stood unprotected in the coach's office during my junior high school days. For some reason students, including me, would always gather at the office entrance before class. Yes guys, you know it, one day coach climbed on throne while we were standing there. I think I was the only one taking off in disgust but from then on congregating at the office door was discouraged. What I can't figure is what the architects had in mind. It was an old building but for pity's sake it was a shared office!
     
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    You actually said, "LOL"?
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    I guess it's contributions such as this one that explain how you've managed to reach 3367 posts. :D
     
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    Well, I haven't been camping in quite a while and I don't remember feeling weird about it when I was a kid. I can pee pretty much anywhere, but I think "dropping the kids off at the pool" would warrant some privacy. I think I'm anal enough (!) to bring a doorstop of some sort with me for that adventure.

    Oh yeah, there was an outhouse at an abandoned old schoolhouse where bands used to play when I lived out in the country as a teen. I preferred the woods because there was a sign inside that read "Due to the fact that the crabs have learned how to pole-vault, please don't throw toothpicks in the toilet!"
     
  14. Imported

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    carolinacurious: Pee in a trough --- no problem, as long as people don't talk to me ('nother thread)

    Communal Showers -- wouldn't bat an eye.

    A row of crappers? -- my ass would be in the woods with your friend! I'd take some toilet paper, though.
     
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    If I had to pee, sure why not. Otherwise, bring on the woods. I'd be just plain grossed out, simple as that.
     
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    You actually said, "LOL"?
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    Well, if someone tells me they got some spam and they were curious and that was why they were using my computer to look at bestiality porn, I actually do say LOL.And if there are a lot of people there, we start doing the Monty Python spam sketch.
     
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    I haven't gone camping in eons, but I can say that peeing or pooping there hasn't been a problem. Well, peeing is a little easier, but fertilizing the great outdoors can be trick, unless you borught some TP, or some old newspaper. I don't even go near strange leaves or tree bark.

    Hey, not really a prob in the morning if you slept through a chilly night, or ate way too much beans. If there isn't any porta johns within eyesight, just find a nice comfortable spot and relax.
     
  18. Briandude

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    I LOVE taking a dump in full view of other people. I don't know why, but the feeling of relieving my bowels and relaxing my body while others watch just gets my dump going. For example, I was at my friend Brian's house last weekend. I felt a big ass dump coming on, so while we were in the backyard, I dropped my shorts, and dumped in a hole in the ground. They all watched and said "aw shit dude!" but it felt soo good, shooting crap out while they watched, my big dick flailing about. There's something about losing control of your body while other dudes watch your humiliation that gets me going.
     
  19. KinkGuy

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    There's a fetish out there for everyone. This ones fondly referred to as "scat" when taken just a little further into a more sexual realm.
    And has lots of devotees.
     
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    Did I tell you guys about a high-school classmate who was drop-dead handsome, built, wonderful athlete. He married his high-school sweetheart (many broken hearts, including mine). Later he told us that, while he could fuck his wife with no problem, he couldn't pee if she was watching him. (No wonder she wanted to watch; he just stunning).
     
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