Non-negotiable date requirement.

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It wasn't intended to hurt anyone, and it wouldn't keep me from being someone's friend. I have stated before, I have back issues, and hugging people below a certain height causes me pain.
So sit to hug them,then the boobs are in your face!Motor boat all the way!!!!!!!!!!!!!:p
 

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So far I haven't dated guys who look like Santa Clause. Not saying it's out of the question, but so far the old, chubby, white haired grandpa type just hasn't turned my crank. He'd have to have a heck of a personality.
 

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I'm 5'7 so I found the comments in the op very hurtful.

:(

My only requirement is signs of intelligence, open mindedness, a sense of humour, kindness, and imagination.

Would you be willing to stand on a small short bench to get those hugs? I had a bud who was 5'8". He'd stand on the bench, and I'd give him hugs. He said he loved that bench.
 

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Would you be willing to stand on a small short bench to get those hugs? I had a bud who was 5'8". He'd stand on the bench, and I'd give him hugs. He said he loved that bench.

Um.
Well.

It seems like quite an involved procedure to "get" something as simple as a hug.

And I get plenty of hugs anyway.

Although hugs are "delivered" through the body, they aren't really "about" bodies at all. There can be connections between persons, their minds, and the core of their existential / spiritual being.

I'm not sure a person who is so thoughtlessly dismissive of those of us with hobbit blood is the kind of person I want to hug, or be hugged by.

Nevertheless I appreciate the gesture of attempted reconciliation.
 

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those of us with hobbit blood
lol...
the height difference is absolutely not a problem for me...
nevertheless... meningreentights has pains in the back... which could somewhat justify his requirement... as for hugging someone shorter than me... I have necessarily to bend at least a little... which can be difficult with a painful back...
... but ... as my back is relatively ok at this time... lol... exbiker... you're welcome for all the hugs we may enjoy one another...
I like many of your interventions here at lpsg... and your intellectual/philosophical/british tone!...
*kiss*, exbiker!...
:)
 

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So far I haven't dated guys who look like Santa Clause. Not saying it's out of the question, but so far the old, chubby, white haired grandpa type just hasn't turned my crank. He'd have to have a heck of a personality.
Santa dude1.jpg
@LaFemme Santa baby!!!! Bill
 
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as for hugging someone shorter than me... I have necessarily to bend at least a little... which can be difficult with a painful back...
... but ... as my back is relatively ok at this time... lol... exbiker... you're welcome for all the hugs we may enjoy one another...
:)

awh :)
 
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... but ... as my back is relatively ok at this time... lol... exbiker... you're welcome for all the hugs we may enjoy one another...
I like many of your interventions here at lpsg... and your intellectual/philosophical/british tone!...
*kiss*, exbiker!...
:)

That's incredibly kind. And exciting.

Thank you very much. Were it not for the laws of physics I'd be hugging you back, right now.

That's all that's stopping me.

:cool:
 
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I know people think some things are petty but often times you have a good reason for them. I won't seriously date any girl under 5'10". I am 6'3" and it hurts my back to hug anyone shorter. My ex was 5'11.5". She was just the right height for me. I don't even like hugging a bud who is below 6'. I had a bud who was 5'7". I wouldn't hug him. His head was at my nipples, and his nuts were by my knees.
What requirements do you have?

Clean breath.
 

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Um.
Well.

It seems like quite an involved procedure to "get" something as simple as a hug.

And I get plenty of hugs anyway.

Although hugs are "delivered" through the body, they aren't really "about" bodies at all. There can be connections between persons, their minds, and the core of their existential / spiritual being.

I'm not sure a person who is so thoughtlessly dismissive of those of us with hobbit blood is the kind of person I want to hug, or be hugged by.

Nevertheless I appreciate the gesture of attempted reconciliation.

I was not attempting to reconcile. It is the only way I can hug someone under about 5'10". I need multiple back surgeries that workman's comp won't approve. I am not increasing my pain for anything as simple as a hug.
 

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I'm 5'7 so I found the comments in the op very hurtful.

:(

My only requirement is signs of intelligence, open mindedness, a sense of humour, kindness, and imagination.

Hats off to you sir, I'm around 5'3 mark, which means I've already been rules out as undatable by half the guys here :mad:

And like you my requirements are more personality based. Give me a kind hearted, emotionally stable man who can make me laugh any day, regardless of his height
 

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My requirement when I was single was that I had to find the woman to be attractive, to me. In general, that meant they were also considered attractive by most guys, I have been very fortunate to have been with a few women that happened to be genuine head-turners, as well as having the compatible nice personality I was looking for. It certainly boosted my ego walking into a room with my lady and having both men and women 'checking her out.'

Even though I'm 6 feet tall, I've been with women from 5 foot nothing, all the way to 5 foot 9 or so. One of the 5 footers was a classic blonde bombshell in the looks department, but also a wonderful, sweet, loving woman. I had no issues hugging, or fucking, the two 5 foot women in my past.