Well today was a great day! Not only was it daddy's 80th birthday but my cousin came by and announced his engagement. I'm glad cause he's been alone too long since his divorce and I really like his fiancee. She's smart, funny, and pretty. Anywho he mentioned that she was cool with all of his non-negotiables. He said he had 5 things that are important to him that were in his life before she came along and he was keeping them no matter what e.g. non-negotiable. Fortunately the things he considers non-negotiable are rather miniscule IMHO. The things he can't live without: His motorcycle, guitar, wide screen tv, king size bed, and one floating thing which he said could be changed at anytime. Men, :tongue: Cool thing about his fiancee, she likes motorcycles so much, she got tired of riding bitch, and went out and bought her own bike last year. Now I know this has been discussed before, in a variety of ways, but I'm tired and don't feel like looking it up. :tongue: What are your non-negotiables? What are you not willing to give up to be with someone else?