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This might not be the best spot for this so if its wrong i apologize. I have discovered over the past couple of years i life CMNM, not as a sex thing, I dont get hard doing it- but i love rush of masculinity and sense of belonging I feel. I used to go to a shvitz in my home town where non-gay nudity was expected but that shut down after covid, and i went to a russian masseuse for awhile who asked i be nude for the massage, but he has since retired. Lockerooms near me are hit and miss, if they are nude friendly they are also cruisy- which is not my scene/what im after. Not judging, just not my thing.

Does anyone have any ideas of cmnm experiences I can seek? or can you tell of some of your experiences? I can travel ect. thanks
 

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I have never had any problem being naked in changing rooms (which I presume to be the same thing as locker rooms on the other side of the big puddle).
I have also never had a problem undressing completely and finishing drying and dressing again outside shower cubicles in an all-male environment in order to minimise the amount of time I am in the cubicle when there are queues.
I have also been naked in changing rooms where both men and women have been clothed.
Unfortunately, therefore, I cannot help you as, over the last 60 years, I have never encountered a changing room where nudity was not accepted.
 

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I have never had any problem being naked in changing rooms (which I presume to be the same thing as locker rooms on the other side of the big puddle).
I have also never had a problem undressing completely and finishing drying and dressing again outside shower cubicles in an all-male environment in order to minimise the amount of time I am in the cubicle when there are queues.
I have also been naked in changing rooms where both men and women have been clothed.
Unfortunately, therefore, I cannot help you as, over the last 60 years, I have never encountered a changing room where nudity was not accepted.
Can i come stay with you for a couple weeks haha. ITs very touch and go where i am, nudity has been highly sexualized but i have always felt it is a part of masculinity as you have described in theory, i just need a way to experience it. My dad even tells stories of his whole class swimming nude and things- it was just a different culture back then.

Outside of the lockeroom type situation, have you had any other experiences we can look for? hunting, skinny dipping with the guys? ect. thanks
 

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Outside of the lockeroom type situation, have you had any other experiences we can look for? hunting, skinny dipping with the guys? ect. thanks
The only situation that comes to mind is non-nudist holidays where I never do the towel dance at the beach and have regularly walked naked from my apartment or hotel room to the sea for a swim. On these occasions I have been seen by many clothed people, both male and female.

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I uploaded the wrong beach photograph. It should have been this one. View attachment 103228601

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wow! Super cool. Did you ever experience the sauna cultures of easter Europe by any chance?
Did you notice the guy looking in the background?
As far as saunas are concerned, I currently use the saunas at nude swim events and at Clover Spa Hotel without any precautions. At other UK hotels I sit on a towel with enough free to one side to cover up if anybody else enters.
I have little experience with continental hotels but have booked a long weekend at Hotel & Wellness Zuiver in Amsterdam before Christmas. The only other non-UK hotel sauna I have used was in Beijing in 1999 which is pictured below.
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There is a Korean spa near me that I want to try. Of course in the wet area, everyone is naked.
The gym I use to go to had a steam room and wide open shower area next to it. People walking in and out of the steam room got a close up view. Right next to the shower area is the mirrors and sinks. If someone is standing at the sink, there is a full view of the shower area right up close. Then across from the open shower area is a large locker area and benches where everyone gets changed. It seems around here a lot of guys don’t like to get naked. They just will change a shirt and that’s about it. I would take long showers there and get all lathered up. My cock got rock hard a few times with tons of people and staff members around. This is a 24 hour gym and there were times I was there at 2am. Very few people around during that time. I was feeling horny that night and got a locker at the front, farthest away from the showers. I stripped down and walked all the way naked to the steam room and shower. I didn’t take a towel with me and felt really exposed. After spending some time in the steam room, I took a nice long erotic shower. I don’t know if anybody ever walked by when my back was turned. So there’s a long bench in this shower. It’s built of stone all goes the entire length of the shower area. I would say about 20 feet. It’s a large shower. I sat down on the bench and started stroking my hard cock. If anyone walked by there way no way they could miss me. I think I only lasted about 2 minutes. This got me so horny I blew my load fast, and walked all the way back to my locker naked, with my still swollen cock swinging. Nobody ever came in.

There is a cleaning service that comes in. A crew of 6 people that clean the gym. Some of them women. Most of the time it’s the same guy cleaning the showers, but there have been times the ladies walked in while I was naked. I was hoping someone in the cleaning crew walked in when I was stroking myself. That would have been hot.
 

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Did you notice the guy looking in the background?
As far as saunas are concerned, I currently use the saunas at nude swim events and at Clover Spa Hotel without any precautions. At other UK hotels I sit on a towel with enough free to one side to cover up if anybody else enters.
I have little experience with continental hotels but have booked a long weekend at Hotel & Wellness Zuiver in Amsterdam before Christmas. The only other non-UK hotel sauna I have used was in Beijing in 1999 which is pictured below.
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This is cool man, id love to gain some friends into it and hit up some places like that together. Of course people in my real life are prudish but im always on the lookout..
 

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This is cool man, id love to gain some friends into it and hit up some places like that together. Of course people in my real life are prudish but im always on the lookout..
I generally always hangout naked at my place - it has become a lifestyle and not necessarily sexual. I hosted a lot through Couchsurfing and didn’t even care if my guest was naked or fully clothed
 

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come to paris. there's a few places i go where nudity is mandatory and its not at all a cruisey environment - mostly straight business guys in there. you and i can hang with our dicks out in front of other men while getting pampered
Awesome man, id love to. I came a couple times growing up, so id love to come back as a man. Ill PM you
 
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