So I've always been somewhat of a loner and I've always wanted friends, but it just hasn't seemed to happen. Various jobs and made friends there, but lost them when the jobs ended. I just find it really hard to make friends. Being gay, I feel even more worried when speaking to other men I don't know as 1) if they're gay they think I'm coming onto them and 2) if they're straight they think I'm coming onto them. I feel like I'm missing out so much, especially as I'm not close to my father and have no brothers. It's like a whole thing I've been missing out on and continue to miss out on. I'd just love to have 2 or 3 male mates who I can go to the pub with or something. I'm not into sports and have zero hobbies so not sure what I can do... Any advice? Have you made friends whilst above the age of 30?