Non-sexual massage erection

[Lito]

There's no such thing as non-sexual erection induced by touch.

Touching can be very sexual, as your erection shows.

I think the situation to be normal, btw.

 

[funfryou2]

I guess I'll just let it happen if it does--and won't say anything ahead of time. It may not occur this time. And if it does, and he gets bent out of shape about it--I'm just sorry. He seems like a cool guy though, so it probably won't matter.

 

[ledroit]

There's no such thing as non-sexual erection induced by touch.

??? What about infants getting erections?

For me, "sexual" means I get aroused by the thought of doing something sexual and pursue the stimulation, either to head toward orgasm or to enjoy the genital sensations.

But I can also discover that I am half-hard when sex is the last thing on my mind and I am not interested in sexual stimulation. It might have been a function of my pants or legs or chair or something touching or stimulating my penis without me being aware of it. That is completely non-sexual.

I have also had massages like this in which sex was the last thing on my mind, when I even found the person unattractive and the setting very uninspiring. If I discover that my penis is getting engorged and it does not feel sexual at all, that is just an autonomic response, and for me it is on the same level of feeling pressure in my bladder or intestines. That is not sexual. I think "sexual" has to involve some kind of cognitive reaction, some mental awarenss of a potential for sexual intereaction, some kind of response either to being naked or to a person or environment. The movement of blood in your genitals can take place completely without your knowing or even awareness. But once you do notice and have a reaction, that is where awareness begins and the possibility of something being sexual occurs. You can have a sexual though that triggers the blood flow and arousal. But you can also have autonomic reactions that trigger the blood flow. It doesn't make sense to imagine that a penis gets aroused only as a result of sexual triggers.

 

[dreamer20]

I guess I'll just let it happen if it does--and won't say anything ahead of time. It may not occur this time. And if it does...

Make sure that you don't shoot him in the eye.:biggrin1:

 

[reallyhot]

Ironically, it's usually my therapist that's hard most of the time, and
one time when he helped me up, I accidentally pushed down on his hard
knob , he kinda had to rush off to the washroom to find some quick relief!
LOL I think he had a leaky pipe...
Anyway we just resumed our session normally, and I just apologized and
said sorry about that...No problem he replied, things happen...
Sometimes I get a boner, he always has one...he's just highly sexed...
and I always enjoy the view. and the relief from the massage. It's all Good!

 

[funfryou2]

Maybe after we start out, and I get really hard, I'll acknowledge it and "apologize" for it--then gauge his response--then maybe say something like "I sure hope I don't lose control"---and if he's cool, no problem. And if he's not, then he will probably kick my ass out of there.

 

[dreamer20]

I think you should stick to your response in post 22.

http://www.lpsg.org/810186-post22.html

Don't be so body conscious. The MT is accustomed to seeing erections at times.

 

[rob_just_rob]

Anyone else experience this?

I think my penis has learned not to get excited when it knows it isn't getting any. I've had some very cute massage therapists, but have never had an erection during a massage - as having one would be completely nonproductive.

 

[LeeEJ]

I'd think that having an erection for a great length of time would be counterproductive, too. Muscle tension and all that, ya know, especially if you have to relieve yourself immediately afterwards, which would probably eliminate the relaxation that you spent your time & money on. For the purpose of reducing stress, I think it might make sense to get it taken care of right away, then finish the massage in the afterglow.

 

[funfryou2]

Will just go with the flow, so to speak---when it happened before, I was in some sleep state on my stomach and I kind of woke up knowing I was going to shoot when he was working on my thighs. I sat up, grabbed the end of my dick, and asked for a towel---which he obliged me with---and shot into it. THEN I told him I was humiliated, he was cool, said it happens, then we went on about our business with nothing more said. Now that is the way it should be handled.

So if I'm just tensed up as hell worrying about it--will be a waste of time and money, like you said. But if I just get to where I don't care, that will work out the best. And if he boots me, then no more business from me.