Non-sexual relationships and penis size

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What are you having trouble understanding? I can explain it in greater detail if you want.
#1 "We all know that penis size is one of the most important aspects of sex and romantic relationships. . ." Not in any significant (meaning non-one night stands) relationships which I've been in. But you and I have very different ideas about what sexual intimacy is all about, and what role cock size has in being a good lover.

#2 "It's impossible to respect any authority figure if they have a small penis. . ." 1st, penis size, or if they have one, has never ever entered into whether or not I respect anyone; that is solely based upon their actions. 2nd, how the fuck do you know what size dick somebody has in their pants? I don't seem to care about what size dick another guy has like you obviously do.

#3 "What if you found out your father was tiny, could you take him seriously as an adult?" The love and respect which I held for my father while he was alive had everything to do with the kind of man he was, and zero, zip, to do with his dick. To place genital size anywhere in this determination is unfathomable to me. You and I have very different ideas about father/son relationships than I do.

#4 "If you found out that your best friend had a small penis, would you continue being their friend?" You know what, one of my best friends does have what he feels is a small cock (he tells me it's about 4" long), and it really bothers him. You know what else, that makes me love him even more. It hurts me that he feels less than a man because he was given a slightly smaller than average cock. Whenever it's come up I've tried to tell him that dick size is one of the last things on whether a woman will enjoy making love with him, and that his many other physical and personality-based attributes make him a great catch for any woman. I've never told him that I was given a fairly substantial dick, because he doesn't need to add that to his insecurities, and as I said, I love the guy. Obviously, I have a very different idea of what being a friend is than you do.


#5 "What if you found out that a woman you liked came from a family where the men have small dicks. Could you continue dating her knowing that she likely has small penis DNA?" Right, like if I had a son, I'd love him, or feel proud of him any less if he wasn't born with my dick. That's so fucked up. It borderlines on eugenics: we must perpetuate large penises in the human gene pool. . .


Like I said, you and I live in alternative universes. Don't get me wrong, I'm grateful that I was handed a good sized cock, but I believe that cock size is just one, somewhat insignificant, component of one's being and sexuality, whereas you place a very different amount of emphasis on how big people's penises are. But you're entitled to your beliefs and value system, just like I'm entitled to mine.
 

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Short and sweet answer to Wally's original post:
Of all the hundreds or thousands of men I have met of known in my entire life, I know the dick size of only one of them - my own!
That said, it is probably a 0.0000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000001% factor in how I feel or relate to any man.
 

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I say we adopt a new catch phrase policy here at LPSG, that being, when a member is being obsessively self deprecating we can say things like, "You're such a Wally" or "Wally much?" or "Stop your Wally-aching" etc..
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In all honesty, yes it is. It is the worst thing in the world.
Nah--the worst thing in the world is reading your inane posts . . . its like listening to a politician try to explain how taxing me more will save me money . . .
 
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Nah--the worst thing in the world is reading your inane posts . . . its like listening to a politician try to explain how taxing me more will save me money . . .
However it is also strangely alluring and I just gotta keep reading his posts and listening to the blowhard pols.
 
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#1 "We all know that penis size is one of the most important aspects of sex and romantic relationships. . ." Not in any significant (meaning non-one night stands) relationships which I've been in. But you and I have very different ideas about what sexual intimacy is all about, and what role cock size has in being a good lover.

Dick size is everything for a man sexually. Don't be brainwashed by the propaganda.

#2 "It's impossible to respect any authority figure if they have a small penis. . ." 1st, penis size, or if they have one, has never ever entered into whether or not I respect anyone; that is solely based upon their actions. 2nd, how the fuck do you know what size dick somebody has in their pants? I don't seem to care about what size dick another guy has like you obviously do.

You can look for a VDL or stand next to them while they piss.

#3 "What if you found out your father was tiny, could you take him seriously as an adult?" The love and respect which I held for my father while he was alive had everything to do with the kind of man he was, and zero, zip, to do with his dick. To place genital size anywhere in this determination is unfathomable to me. You and I have very different ideas about father/son relationships than I do.

#4 "If you found out that your best friend had a small penis, would you continue being their friend?" You know what, one of my best friends does have what he feels is a small cock (he tells me it's about 4" long), and it really bothers him. You know what else, that makes me love him even more. It hurts me that he feels less than a man because he was given a slightly smaller than average cock. Whenever it's come up I've tried to tell him that dick size is one of the last things on whether a woman will enjoy making love with him, and that his many other physical and personality-based attributes make him a great catch for any woman. I've never told him that I was given a fairly substantial dick, because he doesn't need to add that to his insecurities, and as I said, I love the guy. Obviously, I have a very different idea of what being a friend is than you do.

You're a kind hearted person. I don't think most would share your opinion though. They would use their dicks as leverage to become dominant over their father and friend. Constantly making comments and wearing tight pants to reveal their size.

#5 "What if you found out that a woman you liked came from a family where the men have small dicks. Could you continue dating her knowing that she likely has small penis DNA?" Right, like if I had a son, I'd love him, or feel proud of him any less if he wasn't born with my dick. That's so fucked up. It borderlines on eugenics: we must perpetuate large penises in the human gene pool. . .


But what if people found out about your kid's small penis? That would ruin your reputation and status as a man.

Like I said, you and I live in alternative universes. Don't get me wrong, I'm grateful that I was handed a good sized cock, but I believe that cock size is just one, somewhat insignificant, component of one's being and sexuality, whereas you place a very different amount of emphasis on how big people's penises are. But you're entitled to your beliefs and value system, just like I'm entitled to mine.

Fair enough.
 

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Wally…

Your description indicates that you place a good amount of the masculine attributes in the penis…

Your thinking leads me toward a utopian world… where all the manliness would be concentrated into the dick…

So… you tell how the penis can be a way to intimidate and dominate other males… and how a big penis is the sign of a good genetic background…

Actually… these two ideas are already provided in nature by the secondary sexual features...

… in order to intimidate and dominate other males… physical strength… and good genes… are reflected by the aspect, the conformation and the power of the limbs… shoulders… ass… torso… and back…

… the virility is also located in the behavior and the character features specific to a male/man…

I think that generally… the test to determinate the sexual value of a man is done on these secondary sexual features…

… And… while the penis belongs to the primary sexual features… I strongly doubt it might give me the possibility to do all you described… because…

… A penis is … a weak point… on a male body…

… A penis is… sensitive… most of the time… soft… and fragile…

This first consideration proves that it is an extremely vulnerable organ which must absolutely be protected and not exposed during an aggressive confrontation with another male…

Any of the secondary sexual features has the possibility to make severe and irreversible damages to a cock… and also to the balls closely attached to it…

That’s why I think that the cock is definitely not the symbol of the man power but its weakness and vulnerability…

Actually… the cock symbolizes… the sexual identity but not the sexual strength…

In the animal reign… mammals males don’t fight with their penises but with their muscles… their horns… their teeth… their claws…

Male birds exhibit the beauty of their feathers… or other appendices like crests…

The penis is not present in those scenes fight between mammals… because… a punch… a bite… a scratch can just make it unable to penetrate the female… which is one of its most important use…

It is possible that the vulnerability of the cock is due to this penetration aim… since the vagina itself must not be able to bear brutal and rough frictions.…

Several scandalous and terrible examples from History show how it’s easy to sexually mutilate and dominate a man by inflicting him irreversible wounds on his penis…

So the penis is not an organ to dominate other males…

I don’t know why we think exactly the contrary, Wally, lol…

I read last year on the Internet that the specie/sub-specie homo sapiens sapiens had the bigger penis among the primates…

It could be a start to better understand our fascination for such a vulnerable and fragile organ… which essentially reminds us how we can easily be dominated…
 

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Wally…

Your description indicates that you place a good amount of the masculine attributes in the penis…

Your thinking leads me toward a utopian world… where all the manliness would be concentrated into the dick…

So… you tell how the penis can be a way to intimidate and dominate other males… and how a big penis is the sign of a good genetic background…

Actually… these two ideas are already provided in nature by the secondary sexual features...

… in order to intimidate and dominate other males… physical strength… and good genes… are reflected by the aspect, the conformation and the power of the limbs… shoulders… ass… torso… and back…

… the virility is also located in the behavior and the character features specific to a male/man…

I think that generally… the test to determinate the sexual value of a man is done on these secondary sexual features…

… And… while the penis belongs to the primary sexual features… I strongly doubt it might give me the possibility to do all you described… because…

… A penis is … a weak point… on a male body…

… A penis is… sensitive… most of the time… soft… and fragile…

This first consideration proves that it is an extremely vulnerable organ which must absolutely be protected and not exposed during an aggressive confrontation with another male…

Any of the secondary sexual features has the possibility to make severe and irreversible damages to a cock… and also to the balls closely attached to it…

That’s why I think that the cock is definitely not the symbol of the man power but its weakness and vulnerability…

Actually… the cock symbolizes… the sexual identity but not the sexual strength…

In the animal reign… mammals males don’t fight with their penises but with their muscles… their horns… their teeth… their claws…

Male birds exhibit the beauty of their feathers… or other appendices like crests…

The penis is not present in those scenes fight between mammals… because… a punch… a bite… a scratch can just make it unable to penetrate the female… which is one of its most important use…

It is possible that the vulnerability of the cock is due to this penetration aim… since the vagina itself must not be able to bear brutal and rough frictions.…

Several scandalous and terrible examples from History show how it’s easy to sexually mutilate and dominate a man by inflicting him irreversible wounds on his penis…

So the penis is not an organ to dominate other males…

I don’t know why we think exactly the contrary, Wally, lol…

I read last year on the Internet that the specie/sub-specie homo sapiens sapiens had the bigger penis among the primates…

It could be a start to better understand our fascination for such a vulnerable and fragile organ… which essentially reminds us how we can easily be dominated…

A small dick is a weak point. A big dick is only a strength.

A couple of weeks ago I jerked off a guy with a big dick. I though of trying to harm his dick and even tried a little, but it was useless. His big dick was invincible. It was harder than steel. If I had angered it, or him, it would have destroyed me and my little nothing with one thrust.
 

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because according to you i am totally inferior, useless, and worthless all based on the size of my dick, something i had no control over either >.>
oh... don't feel sad, shortdickman... I think that Wally shares with us his thoughts... as this site is appropriate for such discussions...
Nevertheless even if I don't know you... I'm sure you're not inferior... nor useless... nor worthless...
oh you make me sad writing this... lol...
Don't let Wally make you feel bad, man!... lol
 

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I took a quick look.

TOTAL honesty here. Your penis size would initially be an issue for me, if I were having sex with you.

BUT, I'd quickly get over that, and we could have a good time, I am sure.

But Wally's theory that your entire value as a human being depends on that is just very, very silly. It's amusing, a diversion, a bit of a joke. And it would be ABSURD to think otherwise, even for a moment.

Your value is in your mind and personality. Your way of doing things, behaviour, communication. Ways of learning and being open minded, and/or leading other people, and/or cooperating and collaborating.

Hold on to the positive value you do have, not this strange and quirky fantasy.

:)
 

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If you like those negative feelings then it's worth holding on to. Constant sph = constant reward. I imagine it might work like that for some folks.
 

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We all know that penis size is one of the most important aspects of sex and romantic relationships, but what about non-sexual relationships?

It's impossible to respect any authority figure if they have a small penis, so if one day you found out your boss had a micropenis, could you continue to work for the man and respect him? What if you found out your father was tiny, could you take him seriously as an adult? What if you learned this during your teenage years? Would you be able to take his advice on how to be a man seriously knowing that you're already more man than he'll ever be?

What about friendships. How are they affected by size? If you found out that your best friend had a small penis, would you continue being their friend? Would you be afraid that he might infect you with his small penis disease or even worse give you the reputation of having a small penis by association, and end the friendship? What if the reverse happened could you still feel confident in your masculinity being around someone who is more masculine and manly than you'll ever be?

What if you found out that a woman you liked came from a family where the men have small dicks. Could you continue dating her knowing that she likely has small penis DNA?
No, you might equate penis size as an important aspect , but I do not.
And your questions are all about someone with a small penis.
Here is what I think about you and your question , you are an idiot wallyj84