Hey guys,
You may remember from previous posts that I am a teenage guy dealing with some sexuality issues. I had just reached a point where I had accepted to some extent that I am what I am and I would gradually let other people know about my attraction to both sexes, and then this happened.
My buddy came over the other night and asked to use my PC for internet access, I of course obliged. At one point I noticed that he was very quiet, I walk over and he has somehow found a list of files on my computer, many of which are gay or bi porn!
I just completely panicked and instead of addressing the situation i just closed the window and was like "what were you looking for?" and then helped him to find it.
The thing is I'm not entirely sure how much he saw or how i should address the issue, if at all? Stuff between us was kind of awkward after that but I don't know if that was me as I was preoccupied with the whole thing.
I just really need some advice. I know the whole thing about if he is truly my friend he won't let it be an issue, but how can we hang out and act normal if there is this thing that neither of us want to address? I know it sounds like a minor issue but when it happened I seriously felt like I was going to throw up. I don't want him to think that everything that our friendship is founded on is a lie.
Thanks
Slamdunk_Dude
You may remember from previous posts that I am a teenage guy dealing with some sexuality issues. I had just reached a point where I had accepted to some extent that I am what I am and I would gradually let other people know about my attraction to both sexes, and then this happened.
My buddy came over the other night and asked to use my PC for internet access, I of course obliged. At one point I noticed that he was very quiet, I walk over and he has somehow found a list of files on my computer, many of which are gay or bi porn!
I just completely panicked and instead of addressing the situation i just closed the window and was like "what were you looking for?" and then helped him to find it.
The thing is I'm not entirely sure how much he saw or how i should address the issue, if at all? Stuff between us was kind of awkward after that but I don't know if that was me as I was preoccupied with the whole thing.
I just really need some advice. I know the whole thing about if he is truly my friend he won't let it be an issue, but how can we hang out and act normal if there is this thing that neither of us want to address? I know it sounds like a minor issue but when it happened I seriously felt like I was going to throw up. I don't want him to think that everything that our friendship is founded on is a lie.
Thanks
Slamdunk_Dude