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Any other guys here not a fan of virginal women? I mean it isnt like I want a whore or anything but virgins are so much more trouble than they are worth imo. So many more emotions and connections are involved than the typical spontaneous/casual encounter. Thats alot more pressure than needs to be involved in a sexual situation. Im much more the relaxed kind of guy who is more concerned about things being fun rather than perfect.
The reason I bring this up is the girl im currently involved with (I hesitate to use the term girlfriend) has recently dropped a bomb on me that she is a virgin. This really just left me dumbfounded because my typical assumption is that a woman has had enough partner to be comfortable with herself but not enough to where I find it distasteful. Somewhat benefit of the doubt.
Back to the topic I really dont want to be the one to take her virginity because if things dont work out I dont want to be remembered as THAT GUY. It rubs me the wrong way. But at the same time how do you turn something like that down without it being taken the wrong way? Because for one reason or another she REALLY likes me. It seems to be the typical all or nothing response I illicit from women.
Seems like a no win situation for me so which would be the lesser of 2 evils?
The reason I bring this up is the girl im currently involved with (I hesitate to use the term girlfriend) has recently dropped a bomb on me that she is a virgin. This really just left me dumbfounded because my typical assumption is that a woman has had enough partner to be comfortable with herself but not enough to where I find it distasteful. Somewhat benefit of the doubt.
Back to the topic I really dont want to be the one to take her virginity because if things dont work out I dont want to be remembered as THAT GUY. It rubs me the wrong way. But at the same time how do you turn something like that down without it being taken the wrong way? Because for one reason or another she REALLY likes me. It seems to be the typical all or nothing response I illicit from women.
Seems like a no win situation for me so which would be the lesser of 2 evils?