Not a female, but I've been wondering this about my girlfriend for a while. Basically, her vagina seems like it's a dud. No matter what I do, sex, oral, digital, she basically has no sensation. She has never had an orgasam, and says that she doesnt often feel much of anything durign sex. I often feel like this is my fault for not being huge, but I do what I can with what I've got (~6.5). Personally, I think she doesn't get comfortable enough to enjoy it. She has only let me give her oral once or twice, early when we were dating, before she told me she thinks it is gross. I've done everything I can think of with my hands, to no avail. I've tried multiple positions, speeds, angles, anything I could think of, that would work. But it always ends with her saying after a few (10 max) minutes her vagina basically goes numb. To remedy this, I try to only do a certain thing for a short period of time, IE have her on top, me on top, me behind, after some foreplay. No luck though. In the end, it is incredibly frustrating not being able to pelase her. To me, that is probably 75% of the fun I have with sexual activity, pleasing my partner. With her, I almost feel bad about continuing, so lately I've just been selfish and finishing quickly. Are there any women who have a similar problem or men who have been with women like that? Any things I can try to please her? Is there something I am missing? EDIT: Also, I am her first and only partner, so she has nothing to compare what I do with to anything else. As said before, she has never orgasamed in any way (and she does not masturbate).