Few years ago I stumbled upon some research about body language and how people interact with each other and how they attract one another. My conclusion is that we're still just a bunch of primates no matter how advanced we think we are. Since then I haven't been able to fall in love anymore, like I used to be able to feel like this loving puppy if I met a really nice girl but now It's just formulas and techniques that I see and use. I am however capable of loving someone and being in love with enough time given but the puppylove and feeling butterflies at the beginning is just gone. Now I know that when people grow up they shield themselves from being hurt again and that they try to avoid that feeling but I'm actually looking to experience it again and I'm not afraid of dropping my guard but the feeling has never returned since I gained the knowledge of how and why. Not sure what I want to ask here, maybe to ask what your experience has been over the years with the feeling of falling in love.