Not attracted to guys but i am infatuated with cock

[Nudistpig]

Not to be a jerk, NudistPig, but you ARE in the bisexual forum, not the gay forum. While I do understand why Pullinit2's comments might have offended you (maybe he could have worded things better), you should realize that because sexuality is a spectrum, not a binary this-or-that thing, one will see many different and a variety of answers here, than in say the gay forum. Even then, I am sure there are a lot of 100% gay guys that will have all kinds of different answers, some of which you may disagree with, too. I'm a bi guy, and when it comes to attraction, I am far more physically attracted to women than men. It's complex for me, and really words can be imprecise when I try to describe it, so hopefully I am not offending you by explaining what it is like for me. When I have sex with a woman, it is part physical attraction, part emotional attraction, part purely sexual. There is just something about a woman's body that turns me on in a way a man's never can. When I have sex with guys, sometimes I am attracted physically, but usually for me, it's a hit it and quit it situation, and it is more about both of us just getting off, than being physically attracted (at least primarily). I just focus on his penis or ass, and I really don't look at his body all that much during sex. That said, when it comes to friendships, by far, I have way more in common with other guys than women, so in that way, I am much closer to guys. To make a long story short, bisexual guys think differently than 100% gay guys...as differently as 100% hetero guys, just in a different way.

Sorry, not offended in the least, my apologies if that's the impression. I have 100% gay in my profile but the reality is that I am bi, and the observations would be the same if it was a woman, a man into women describing women, or any other combo thereof. I'm not judging anyone's choices, that's not my right or intention...what I am reacting to with passion is how stigma operates on all of us, and yeah, I get a bit worked up over it and yeah, I could take a chill pill here and there... What's funny about your explanation of your bisexuality is that it's pretty much mine in reverse, in that your attraction to women is like mine to men, and vice versa. I don't talk about my interests or experiences with the opposite sex often for a bunch of reasons, and no, you are being super polite and not offensive in the least (if I am really offended not just being passionate or a bit ghey about shit, I don't respond at all, part of the schtick here is performative and I indulge a bit). My issue, and the one I see recuringly here is the idea that you can be into dick but not men (like I can't say I am into pussy, but not women, it's just not true...but it isn't the same, and I am less intimate and more selective...some of which is cultural too, just used to men).

There are a million ways to be attracted to another person, as far as I am concerned none of them are wrong unless it's painful or harmful to either person...as long as both parties are cool, then I have zero concern and say go for it. Not all male male bonds are gay...not all are str8, and gay guys can have the same bonds as two str8 guys might have and vice versa (and that can be more to do with being men than anything else), understanding that most of us are bisexual to one degree or another, falling in a middle we choose to embrace or downplay as is our need or desire. Just FYI, there is just as much objectification and beating around the bush in the gay section, maybe more... my last series of fuckbuddies have been until we hooked up, straight insofar as they knew, and that experience has been eye opening, and funnily enough got me watching the occasional str8 porn and enjoying it, I figured if they can make that leap so can I. I'll be careful to not be so hardcore when I interact and post in this topic, thanks for the time, care and heads up.

 

[Nudistpig]

Thank you! And I apologize for all on my poor wording

Hey, likewise, I was being a drama queen a bit (k, lots) and you didn't deserve it so much in your face as that. Sorry for not being chill.

 

[Allmight247]

Wow ... you guys seriously need therapy. The leaps men go to somehow justify being gay while simaltaneoysly being ashamed of their attraction..
Like men are more than ur fucking sex toys

 

[Allmight247]

How you can be attracted to cock and not men make no sense because cocks are attached to men! You guys are seriously in denial and need therapy!

 

[Almost40]

To all bossy sweet lips, who dint digf men attached to the cocks you crave for, please note: many "dicks" like us, adore, hungry lips, like yours. We "the attached humans" on the other hand, we feel the need to appoloogize for any inconvinence caused, for daring to be present, or saying any rude words such as "hello" before just wipping it out for you bossy dick lovers.... Suck dick, save the world.

 

[RJ5on1]

How you can be attracted to cock and not men make no sense because cocks are attached to men! You guys are seriously in denial and need therapy!

...said the man who hasn't (yet) been able to understand the concept of this particular thread.

However, I hold out hope for him because he's so impassioned enough to respond to it even though it doesn't really make any sense to him (again, Yet).

Given time, he may indeed realize that it truly is possible to be straight, and infatuated with cock, and that it actually has nothing whatsoever to do with denial, or needing therapy.

Sexuality is such a broad spectrum and continuum; it's more than simply, Straight - Bi - Gay...so much more!

 

[Frank240]

...said the man who hasn't (yet) been able to understand the concept of this particular thread.

However, I hold out hope for him because he's so impassioned enough to respond to it even though it doesn't really make any sense to him (again, Yet).
YES!!!!! This!!!!
Given time, he may indeed realize that it truly is possible to be straight, and infatuated with cock, and that it actually has nothing whatsoever to do with denial, or needing therapy.

Sexuality is such a broad spectrum and continuum; it's more than simply, Straight - Bi - Gay...so much more!

 

[WilliamG]

How you can be attracted to cock and not men make no sense because cocks are attached to men! You guys are seriously in denial and need therapy!

Here's an experiment: Put a nice dick pic in your profile. Note the likes of said dick pic from gay, straight, married and bi guys. This is without seeing the rest of you. There are those here that like a cock without the man.

 

[Allmight247]

Here's an experiment: Put a nice dick pic in your profile. Note the likes of said dick pic from gay, straight, married and bi guys. This is without seeing the rest of you. There are those here that like a cock without the man.

A cock is attached to a man...
I don’t hear many straight people tryin to rationalize liking vagina..
Like I said seek therapy bro it’s okay to like men, or be bisexual it doesn’t change who you are.

 

[Allmight247]

...said the man who hasn't (yet) been able to understand the concept of this particular thread.

However, I hold out hope for him because he's so impassioned enough to respond to it even though it doesn't really make any sense to him (again, Yet).

Given time, he may indeed realize that it truly is possible to be straight, and infatuated with cock, and that it actually has nothing whatsoever to do with denial, or needing therapy.

Sexuality is such a broad spectrum and continuum; it's more than simply, Straight - Bi - Gay...so much more!

I understand psychology and pathology.
Only yet to see any straight man, or bi women rationalize their attraction. It only seems to be “straight” men. I wonder why you go to such great lengths to keep being straight if these labels you speak up are arbitrary and don’t exist... seems reductive. I’m not judging you, but it’s clear that some of you are socially condition to perceive homosexual acts that fall within the realm of what you traditionally do with women as taboo, so sex is away for you to not only distance yourself from accepting ur bisexuality, but also keep you from creating emotional attachments.

If this wasn’t the case many of you wouldn’t characterize kissing another man as “disgusting”, or repulsive. How can you find being intimate with a man disgusting while having a dick in your mouth. Something is not adding up, and people are not born contradictions there is a key component missing. I don’t deny you have this attraction to “dick”, but I know straight men lol and none of them fantasied about dicks in their mouths no matter how big

 

[Pullinit2]

...said the man who hasn't (yet) been able to understand the concept of this particular thread.

However, I hold out hope for him because he's so impassioned enough to respond to it even though it doesn't really make any sense to him (again, Yet).

Given time, he may indeed realize that it truly is possible to be straight, and infatuated with cock, and that it actually has nothing whatsoever to do with denial, or needing therapy.

Sexuality is such a broad spectrum and continuum; it's more than simply, Straight - Bi - Gay...so much more!

Yup!

 

[WilliamG]

Like I said seek therapy bro it’s okay to like men, or be bisexual it doesn’t change who you are.

Is that what bugs you? Call me straight, gay, or bi. Don't care. Sexual identity in my world is fluid. I don't see myself falling in love with a guy. Would like to suck a cock or be fucked in the right situation though. Think of it as sport sex. How does this require therapy?

 

[Allmight247]

Is that what bugs you? Call me straight, gay, or bi. Don't care. Sexual identity in my world is fluid. I don't see myself falling in love with a guy. Would like to suck a cock or be fucked in the right situation though. Think of it as sport sex. How does this require therapy?

Because people regardless of orientation don’t typically have sex for sport. Bi, gay, or straight people typically don’t cheat on their significant others because they have urges for the opposite, or same sex. No one is judging how you identify yourselves, but some of you are simultaneously rationalizing infedelify, lying and distrust.

People are not meant to be seen as objects regardless of you’re a man or a women. Maybe my wording was a lil harsh, but I stand by it lol tho I recommend therapy to everyone cause it does help u sort shit out

 

[dude77007]

I guess a 100% straight guy would be totally oblivious to the cock in straight porn and probably closes his eyes when the guy shoots all over the woman's tits.

 

[Nudistpig]

I guess a 100% straight guy would be totally oblivious to the cock in straight porn and probably closes his eyes when the guy shoots all over the woman's tits.

Doesn't even look at his own dick or masturbate it because that is gay (this isn't a joke, latest evangelical hot take).

 

[Allmight247]

Also look how some of you are categorizing your attraction? Masculinity,

Doesn't even look at his own dick or masturbate it because that is gay (this isn't a joke, latest evangelical hot take).

you guys really exaggerating..
Lol comparing literally sucking another mans dick to masturbating?

 

[Semper-Gumby]

Look I realize that a few people here have their panties all in a bunch over this. But take a step back and take a long look at your words. Do you not see the hypocrisy in them?
How can a guy like to suck a cock and not be “attracted” to men, you must be or you are in denial and heed therapy.
So just because some one does not meet YOUR criteria of what it is to be gay, bi, or heaven forbid straight, you jump on your soapbox and start lecturing everyone about how they should be just like you. And in the same rant you talk about acceptance and how you can like what you want????
One of these things is not like the other. (Did anyone read that and not sing it? I did)

Look I have absolutely no inclination to kiss, cuddle, or love a man. I can find the human form beautiful but seeing a guy walk by me does NOTHING for me. But women in a short tight skirt with nice curves in all the right places? Hell ya.
I like dick, nothing else about the man. I find nothing sexually attractive about a man. In fact the act of sucking a cock is not even ready sexual for me.
It is more the thought of being used by a cock and being put in an submissive position.

Just because I like cock but I’m not attracted to the male form in its entirety does not mean I need therapy. It means I like one small part of the male body.

Those of you who are confused by this need to do one of two things, preferably both but I will settle for just one. Ready?

1. Go back to the first post by the OP and reread it. Understand the words, and accept it for what it is.

2. Practice what you are preaching, and have some acceptance that others are not like you, or fit nicely in the box you are trying to put them in.

Now if my little rant “triggered” you and you are going to get all butt hurt and try to post a retort. Just think before you do, please I beg you think it over before you do.
The reason for that is simple. If you could not tell by my user name I am a MARINE.
I pulled triggers for a living, I’m very good at it. So if this trigged you. I will push every single little button you have. And smile while I do it.
Have a good day and hope the rest of you find all the big, little, thick, and thin cock you can get and smile as you suck it without even caring about the “thing” it is attached to.

 

[Nudistpig]

Also look how some of you are categorizing your attraction? Masculinity,

you guys really exaggerating..
Lol comparing literally sucking another mans dick to masturbating?

No, the preacher who said it is.

Internet preacher Dave Daubenmire goes on bizarre rant: 'Masturbation is homosexuality'

 

[dude77007]

Look I realize that a few people here have their panties all in a bunch over this. But take a step back and take a long look at your words. Do you not see the hypocrisy in them?
How can a guy like to suck a cock and not be “attracted” to men, you must be or you are in denial and heed therapy.
So just because some one does not meet YOUR criteria of what it is to be gay, bi, or heaven forbid straight, you jump on your soapbox and start lecturing everyone about how they should be just like you. And in the same rant you talk about acceptance and how you can like what you want????
One of these things is not like the other. (Did anyone read that and not sing it? I did)

Look I have absolutely no inclination to kiss, cuddle, or love a man. I can find the human form beautiful but seeing a guy walk by me does NOTHING for me. But women in a short tight skirt with nice curves in all the right places? Hell ya.
I like dick, nothing else about the man. I find nothing sexually attractive about a man. In fact the act of sucking a cock is not even ready sexual for me.
It is more the thought of being used by a cock and being put in an submissive position.

Just because I like cock but I’m not attracted to the male form in its entirety does not mean I need therapy. It means I like one small part of the male body.

Those of you who are confused by this need to do one of two things, preferably both but I will settle for just one. Ready?

1. Go back to the first post by the OP and reread it. Understand the words, and accept it for what it is.

2. Practice what you are preaching, and have some acceptance that others are not like you, or fit nicely in the box you are trying to put them in.

Now if my little rant “triggered” you and you are going to get all butt hurt and try to post a retort. Just think before you do, please I beg you think it over before you do.
The reason for that is simple. If you could not tell by my user name I am a MARINE.
I pulled triggers for a living, I’m very good at it. So if this trigged you. I will push every single little button you have. And smile while I do it.
Have a good day and hope the rest of you find all the big, little, thick, and thin cock you can get and smile as you suck it without even caring about the “thing” it is attached to.

You say "it's more the thought of being USED by a cock and being a little submissive". Sounds like a little gay to me. They are called "bottoms".

 

[lightining]

Look I realize that a few people here have their panties all in a bunch over this. But take a step back and take a long look at your words. Do you not see the hypocrisy in them?
How can a guy like to suck a cock and not be “attracted” to men, you must be or you are in denial and heed therapy.
So just because some one does not meet YOUR criteria of what it is to be gay, bi, or heaven forbid straight, you jump on your soapbox and start lecturing everyone about how they should be just like you. And in the same rant you talk about acceptance and how you can like what you want????
One of these things is not like the other. (Did anyone read that and not sing it? I did)

Look I have absolutely no inclination to kiss, cuddle, or love a man. I can find the human form beautiful but seeing a guy walk by me does NOTHING for me. But women in a short tight skirt with nice curves in all the right places? Hell ya.
I like dick, nothing else about the man. I find nothing sexually attractive about a man. In fact the act of sucking a cock is not even ready sexual for me.
It is more the thought of being used by a cock and being put in an submissive position.

Just because I like cock but I’m not attracted to the male form in its entirety does not mean I need therapy. It means I like one small part of the male body.

Those of you who are confused by this need to do one of two things, preferably both but I will settle for just one. Ready?

1. Go back to the first post by the OP and reread it. Understand the words, and accept it for what it is.

2. Practice what you are preaching, and have some acceptance that others are not like you, or fit nicely in the box you are trying to put them in.

Now if my little rant “triggered” you and you are going to get all butt hurt and try to post a retort. Just think before you do, please I beg you think it over before you do.
The reason for that is simple. If you could not tell by my user name I am a MARINE.
I pulled triggers for a living, I’m very good at it. So if this trigged you. I will push every single little button you have. And smile while I do it.
Have a good day and hope the rest of you find all the big, little, thick, and thin cock you can get and smile as you suck it without even caring about the “thing” it is attached to.

Mic drop..... you nailed it it