WOW that is all you got out of that? Really that was your rebuttal. That was all you came out with. OK so be it.
Now if you are going to quote me do it right. I said “in a submissive position.” I’m anything but a submissive. I have been called a Bottom, but a power Bottom. And that dose not make a man gay nor does it make him straight.
Submissive only means that for that activity you are not the Alpha, you have relinquished some power to another.
Let me put this in real world context.
I am in charge of my department. I make the rules, I say what goes on. I am the Alpha.
Yet I still have someone over me who is in charge of a larger department that mine happens to be in.
I have to be in a subordinate role towards him/her. I am submissive to that person.
So does that mean I am now “gay”? If so then everyone everywhere is now gay.
Now as far as this discussion goes and in the context of the topic, the same situation is still in play.
I have voluntarily given some of my power or “will” to another but this is only a temporary arrangement. And even then it is only a mental arrangement I have with myself. This is not shared with the person I’m with.
You did not actually read what I said or you would have noticed one tiny little word that puts what I said into context.
“The thought”. Remember reading that?
So if it is just a thought, yet not an action openly expressed then it is not actual submission. I have gone down on very submissive men. I’m still in control. I told them what I was going to do and I did it. What my thoughts are to me are mine.
OK we have now covered the act of submission versus the thought of the feeling of a submissive act.
So brain child what next. Shall we discuss the actual topic that this thread is in? Or are you just going to conveniently skip that yet again.
If you need me to I will read it for you and take out all the big words, and simplify it for you.
