Not Cumming For Days Worth It?

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I hadn't had an orgasm for about four days. A long time for me. If too much time goes by, I get really jittery and go through "withdrawal."

I had a cold and my wife was staying away. But I was better yesterday. She knew how badly I needed a blowjob.

She came to bed...which took forever. But she comes to bed and says she's ready to suck my cock. I straddle her chest, my cock in her mouth and my thighs wrapped around her face. With me holding her hands across my thighs. My favorite position. A combination of pinning her down while getting blown. The whole thing was mind blowing. Her mouth around my cock, looking down on her, feeling her boobs under my ass.

But THIS TIME, she slams down until my entire cock is in her throat. I'm not hung, only average, but she never took the whole thing down her throat. But last night she did. My pubes her in her face, my balls on her chin. None of my shaft visible. The sight of this was driving me wild, alnong with the feeling of her lips at the base. I kept begging her not to stop. And I exploded right down her throat.

Now the day after I keep thinking about it. But is it better to wait a few days where it will be all the more amazing, or should I ask for it tonight?
 
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I could have masturbated (and I come here a lot and do that while watching hung men get blown). But I knew that "saving it up" would result it being enhanced when I finally got blown.
 

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I think you should tell her it was the hottest thing in a long time, and how much you loved it. The way you wrote about it says a lot. She might be looking for a bit of validation, encouragement that when she did that, it drove you crazy. Maybe she felt like she shouldn't do that, worried what you would think.
 

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Regular ejaculation increases levels of the hormone cortisol. Cortisol, which usually gets a bad rap as a havoc-wrecking stress hormone, actually helps regulate and maintain your immunity in the small doses. It can actually strengthened the immune system! Not sure you will be able to use this as an excuse to prevent colds (lol).
 

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After high school I spent 8 weeks in boot camp without jerking off. Believe it or not, there just was no opportunity to do so. My GF at the time came to the graduation. And we hit the hotel room right after the ceremony.

It was a bareback missionary style fuck that lasted around 60 seconds. I'll never forget it to this day, my cock just exploded and the stuff went flying everywhere.

And when I got back home from AIT, another 6 weeks without jerking off. And I hooked up with my GF. We were in the same exact position as before. As I was about to cum, I'll never forget it, she covers her face and says "not again!"

Those were the days...
 
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I used to build up a load for three or four days just for the fun of distance shooting a triple day load. That said, I don't do it anymore as it's not THAT much better and more often than not the third orgasm of the day is the best one. Why limit myself!
 

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Question is: was it worth going eight weeks without any release? (I know you didn't have any choice, but did the explosion after it make it worth it?)

Blasting a monster cumshot all over a girl is an impressive site. And personally, I find it very erotic.

But, I wouldn't recommend waiting 8 weeks or even one week to build up. When you have the chance, don't wait, get laid. I've edged during forplay and finished off sex with a few pretty impressive loads . Plus she'll appreciate the fact that you warmed her up before sex...
 

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The actual pleasure of male orgasm is the act of pumping out the jizz. So what's the verdict- is the amount of jizz pumped out the key to the level of pleasure? Is it simply down to that? Is that the reason extended edging leads to a stronger orgasm. I know some guys orgasm dry and say it's good, but I think they must still be pumping with no content. I was horrified to discover that when I briefly took prostate urinary medication. It just didn't seem right. So are heavy cummers always experiencing the best orgasms?
 
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I used to build up a load for three or four days just for the fun of distance shooting a triple day load. That said, I don't do it anymore as it's not THAT much better and more often than not the third orgasm of the day is the best one. Why limit myself!

Yes, don't have the cannon I used to, but at 42 I can somewhat launch with edging.

Edging really is the key, I would go 2-3 hours getting ready before my girl came over to my apt. We were going doggie on the bed and I shot one over her head, "its all over the wall, you shot your cum on the wall" she said...LOL
 

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The actual pleasure of male orgasm is the act of pumping out the jizz. So what's the verdict- is the amount of jizz pumped out the key to the level of pleasure? Is it simply down to that? Is that the reason extended edging leads to a stronger orgasm. I know some guys orgasm dry and say it's good, but I think they must still be pumping with no content. I was horrified to discover that when I briefly took prostate urinary medication. It just didn't seem right. So are heavy cummers always experiencing the best orgasms?

Do Kegel exercises for men and stick with it. After a couple of months you should start feeling harder erections and stronger orgasms. The exercise really works...
 

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Its great to have a fluid filled orgasm but denying several regular orgasms for one that is a bit better - nah. Sometimes just be the pace of life I end up skipping a few days and then comes the big explosion but the flip side is how fast you end up cumming. So go out of my way - nah...not worth it.
 

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taking a few days off is great for me personally because it seems to heighten sensitivity, which feels a whole lot better, and i can also go for 45 minutes or more, whereas if i'm doing it daily its more like 10 minutes. in terms of the orgasm i don't find that there is much difference.