My boyfriend and I recently lost our virginity to each other. He is pretty big (8.5x6) so at first it hurt. A lot. It took trying for like a week and a half before I was able to take it all. Now I can do that with no pain, or at least very minimal pain sometimes, but honestly.. I don't really feel anything pleasurable, either. I can feel him enter me, which is a nice feeling, but after that it's pretty much nothing. He's given me great orgasms through oral and fingering before, but this is nowhere near that at all. I know most women can't orgasm through penetration alone, but I mean.. I don't even feel ANYthing good. Is this normal? Could it be because of the position? We've only tried missionary and with me on top, but for some reason, I actually feel a lot more pain when I'm on top. I think it's just harder for me to relax that way. Any advice?