Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 1/2 years. Our sex life has had a lot of ups and downs, stemming from problems involving both of us. He wanted to have sex with other women, while still being with me, and I had issues expressing myself sexually. Long story short, we fixed our issues and now I believe we are at a good place.
Recently though, he has been getting really depressed, or unemotional, unfeeling whenever we don't have sex. For example, we had sex last night, this afternoon before he went to work he was really down the whole time, I asked him why and he said "because I'm horny". We have sex just about everyday, sometimes twice a day. We do live together, and have a 5 year old as well. Sometimes we just CAN'T have sex in the middle of the day like he wants to, and it bums him out so much, even though he knows we will have sex that night. I feel so guilty that he's so horny all the time, but we can't have sex all the time like we used to, before we moved in together. I don't know what to do about. I try to give him great sex all the time, but when we don't have sex it complete wrecks his mood.
I guess my question to lpsg is, have any of you ever had this situation? How did you deal with it? Is it normal to be so down from not having sex for a few hours? Please help.
Recently though, he has been getting really depressed, or unemotional, unfeeling whenever we don't have sex. For example, we had sex last night, this afternoon before he went to work he was really down the whole time, I asked him why and he said "because I'm horny". We have sex just about everyday, sometimes twice a day. We do live together, and have a 5 year old as well. Sometimes we just CAN'T have sex in the middle of the day like he wants to, and it bums him out so much, even though he knows we will have sex that night. I feel so guilty that he's so horny all the time, but we can't have sex all the time like we used to, before we moved in together. I don't know what to do about. I try to give him great sex all the time, but when we don't have sex it complete wrecks his mood.
I guess my question to lpsg is, have any of you ever had this situation? How did you deal with it? Is it normal to be so down from not having sex for a few hours? Please help.