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I'm not sure does this belong here but here goes.

So for past few days I've been feeling like I'm not horny at all and not even mood to really watch porn or anything like that. I even tried to jack off but I couldn't even get hard but I just ended up finishing it anyway.

I'm still young guy so..I wonder should I be worried or not? I understand that there's times when you're horny all the time then sometimes not so much anymore.

So should I just wait till the mood comes?
 

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I'm not sure does this belong here but here goes.

So for past few days I've been feeling like I'm not horny at all and not even mood to really watch porn or anything like that. I even tried to jack off but I couldn't even get hard but I just ended up finishing it anyway.

I'm still young guy so..I wonder should I be worried or not? I understand that there's times when you're horny all the time then sometimes not so much anymore.

So should I just wait till the mood comes?
That is totally normal so don't worry about it..the thing is that if you worry about it . it becomes worse...relax...there is nothing wrong with you...go for a run...smell the roses..be happy!!! :tongue:
 

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If you are taking any medications check for the side effects. Also, there is a post about a weight loss pill that caused it in one guy. My blood pressure med makes my erections a bit weak!!! Best wishes.
 

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How is not being a slave to your penis a bad thing?

I would prefer to feel as you've described. I can't imagine how much more productive I'd be and how much less drama I'd experience.
 

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If you are taking any medications check for the side effects. Also, there is a post about a weight loss pill that caused it in one guy. My blood pressure med makes my erections a bit weak!!! Best wishes.

I'm not taking any medication. I don't even take any pain killers when I've headache or any pains :p



How is not being a slave to your penis a bad thing?

I would prefer to feel as you've described. I can't imagine how much more productive I'd be and how much less drama I'd experience.

well I still think I am. Even tho I want to lower the amount I'm now jerking off to be honest. Tho I've made a really nice cut from 4-5 times to 1-2 a day or even go few days without I feel proud of that. Now I'm thinking if I can go several days without but will see :)
 

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I agree with the others. It is a normal phase thing that we all go through at times. I also agree that once it passes the pendulum will swing and you will likely be hyper horny for awhile. Enjoy that when it happens.
 

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Yes, I agree with everyone else here, it is normal. It's okay not to feel horny all the time. I mean yeah men are always horny, but sometimes it's okay just to live your life without worrying about jerking off, especially if you're not feeling it. Hell, its even happened to me, but I think I was having a bad week, and my mood really affected my alone time. Just relax, try not to think about it, and before you know it, you'll be good to go :wink:
 

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Yes, I agree with everyone else here, it is normal. It's okay not to feel horny all the time. I mean yeah men are always horny, but sometimes it's okay just to live your life without worrying about jerking off, especially if you're not feeling it. Hell, its even happened to me, but I think I was having a bad week, and my mood really affected my alone time. Just relax, try not to think about it, and before you know it, you'll be good to go :wink:


I just think that I'm not in the mood I guess also I've had few days headache so that could effect too.
 

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I just think that I'm not in the mood I guess also I've had few days headache so that could effect too.

And that's okay too, really. You're mood affects a lot of what you do, and definitely having a headache will not make me horny.

I'm sure when you're headaches go away, you can try again. Just relax, maybe watch some porn for visual stimulation, or take a warm shower, and you'll pop a nice boner, good luck! :biggrin1:
 

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OP, be glad your not controlled by your libido...

Go work out,
learn something new,
make some money,

Get busy living,
because the horney's will get you again soon...

I get real productive when my sex drive sleeps,, sometimes for days..
 

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Don't worry, since you said you're young its just your bodies hormones messing with you and what you have are somewhat signs of a depression that most teens/young adults go through in their erly 20s...don't get scared by the term depression as in this case its likely just your hormones and chemicals playing around so it should go way within a matter of months and you should be back to being super horny but with much better control now over your horniness if that makes sense..lol