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I really didn't have any clue I might have been considered too big down there for whatever any use of the tool but a few weeks ago I went for second date with a girl I got to meet, after first date we got a little more into private issues and we were both flirting, second date was very good, dinner, some wine and we found ourselves in the bedroom at her place after a short car ride, after some very nice foreplay we got into action and I started to play with my finger on her rear hole and she seemed to appreciate it, when I turned her from behind and pulled my tool between her cheeks she stated very firmly "no, too much for my ass!"

I had to work on myself long time to accept I am quite average whilst I wish I was a bit in the bigger dept now what, not good for the king not good for the queen?
 

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Was she even cleaned out or prepared for any type of assplay? Did you have lube for it?
 

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I really didn't have any clue I might have been considered too big down there for whatever any use of the tool but a few weeks ago I went for second date with a girl I got to meet, after first date we got a little more into private issues and we were both flirting, second date was very good, dinner, some wine and we found ourselves in the bedroom at her place after a short car ride, after some very nice foreplay we got into action and I started to play with my finger on her rear hole and she seemed to appreciate it, when I turned her from behind and pulled my tool between her cheeks she stated very firmly "no, too much for my ass!"

I had to work on myself long time to accept I am quite average whilst I wish I was a bit in the bigger dept now what, not good for the king not good for the queen?

You are quite thick and not average
 

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Let us know when she starts to work on your ass with her fingers. You're in for a treat. You have a prostate, the male g-spot. She doesn't.


I hope you are patient, it will take a while before I explore the dark side :tongue:
 

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I really didn't have any clue I might have been considered too big down there for whatever any use of the tool but a few weeks ago I went for second date with a girl I got to meet, after first date we got a little more into private issues and we were both flirting, second date was very good, dinner, some wine and we found ourselves in the bedroom at her place after a short car ride, after some very nice foreplay we got into action and I started to play with my finger on her rear hole and she seemed to appreciate it, when I turned her from behind and pulled my tool between her cheeks she stated very firmly "no, too much for my ass!"

I had to work on myself long time to accept I am quite average whilst I wish I was a bit in the bigger dept now what, not good for the king not good for the queen?
Can't do it that way for anyone. You have to very slowly work your finger in and watch for her reaction. Using lots of lube, you start working a second finger in. If she contracts you pullout, Wait 30 seconds and try again. She will have relaxed a little by then. You have to be extremely patient. By the time you have two or three fingers in comfortably for her, you can start putting your cock in. Expect to take about an hour to get your cock in someone who has not taken it before.
 

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Some girl (and guys) love a finger in their ass, but say "hell no" to cock. It could be the fear of pain of something as thick as their wrist going in there that scares them. I've found that as long as you respect their limits, they will open up to something bigger.

My gf likes for me to "thumb" her anus while doing her doggy. After a few orgasms, her ass relaxes and next thing I know, she wants my cock in her ass even though when we started, she said no to anal. Her orgasms are very strong from anal and her mind just switches to pleasure mode once I touch her anus.
 

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It's not really about her ass, God only knows if will ever going to see her again, it's more about size, as I wrote it took quite a while to adapt to the idea of falling into the average category, you know, all the fu**in' porn and this board make of proper size a big issue, I had some quite fun anal before and am sure the girl who said no also had before, she sure wasn't a virgin but I wonder if what I own is something so scary, never happened before I was passed comments about size (luckily not even the other way round...), dunno if to take it as an ego booster or what...
 

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You're on your second date and in bed with her for the first time and you;re trying for anal?? Perhaps that's the bigger issue, not your size?? Try to get a relationship going first then maybe it will grow on her
 

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My first time having anal sex was with my first proper boyfriend when I was 19. We'd been together for a few months and were really drunk. We were having sex in his shared office space with his brother and he was about to enter me from behind while we were both standing; I was leaning forwards a little, against the wall. All of a sudden his cock was in my ass.... apparently it was an 'accident'. Hmmm... at the time I believed him but in hindsight I think it was planned. Luckily I loved it! I wanted more. It was his first time doing anal (he told me later... making me think even more that it was definitely no accident!).

Anyway, I was lucky that I liked it. If I hadn't experienced anal sex like that I would probably still be an anal virgin. My concerns would be pain and hygiene.

I'm nearly 30 and I still love it. I like the feeling of being filled up and I've come very close to climaxing through anal (haven't found a truly compatible partner yet).

Communication is everything. This was your second date. Trust is a huge requirement for anal sex; for any good sex to be honest. She needs to trust you with her body before letting you do certain things. Be patient, talk about sex, discuss what you want etc and if you want to have anal sex she has every right to ask something from you (such as massaging your prostate).

It's all about give and take (in my opinion anyway)