Not into BI anymore?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by sheneeds, Jan 2, 2012.

  1. sheneeds

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    Any of you fellas who have had BI experiences find you don't want it anymore? Kinda where I am now. Wonder why? Thoughts?
     
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    Geuss i would say i was definitely Bi, between ages 25 - 35 ( very approx)
    Knew all along really that i swung towards the Male
    Pretty well decided no more female fraternizing, when partner took his wife,
    ALL OK re that
    Comming to an absolute decision is pretty difficult
    even now i cling to a little female loving, purely platonic of course
    so i wish you the very BEST on that.matey.
     
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    I thought you were going to say you weren't bi anymore haha. I was going to have to tell ya that that isn't possible :p
     
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    well, some science says: men are more likely to identify as either straight or gay, where women tend to identify gay and straight (Bi).

    I still see the occasional girl I'd like to nail, but that urge quickly passes.
     
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    THANKS Giggles, saved you the trouble ... pheeeew'
    geuss that's one of the reasons my 'swing vote' went towards the male, mmmmm hah
    no offence offered nor taken






    just fortunate fr me, i added the last bit...? hah'
     
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    Some theories suggest that sexuality is fluid. Some may consider themselves a 50-50 bisexual at the age of 18 but find years later they feel a stronger "pull" towards one gender or the other. Is it chemical? Is it pyschological? There's no answer as of yet.
    But, yes, it may be quite normal to end up preferring one gender over the other depending upon the fluidity of your sexuality.
     
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    Thanks for the words everyone, much appreciated.
     
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    I don't believe that. Culture plays a big role in how we identify sexually. And this all reminds of that scientific study where they said that men of all sexual orientations are very attracted to the penis (big penis porn, popularity of shemale porn with "straight" males, competitiveness). The study goes on to say that only women can be truly be bisexual, but not men are not wired that way. Whatever!
     
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    If you are referring to the work done by J. Michael Bailey at Northwestern University, Bailey's research methodology has been severely criticized and questioned. There has been relatively recent work done by Allen Rosenthal that is better structured and has shown that male bisexuality does exist.
     
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    Boy! Add that one to the Department of Redundancy Department
     
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    I didn't proofread.:biggrin1:

    (You really got me laughing there, but I truly am am a linguist.)
     
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    Really, no one else but you can answer "why?".

    Why do you feel that you don't want to anymore? Did it not feel good? Are you having some sort of guilt feelings or concerns?
     
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    I think when people are younger we have more opportunities to connect with both girls and guys for a variety of reasons: attractiveness, school, curiosity, inexperience. As we age and hopefully become more mature, we are looking for other things and maybe not just purely sexual experiences.
     
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    I've been really thinking about messing with a guy. Sometimes I wish I didn't have a gf. I'm not the cheating type.
     
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    kudo's to you!! :biggrin1:

    Yep, wait until it's either that your single,or that it's ok with her :smile:
     
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    Hey Countryguy
    I have had a decent number of guys to play around with and enjoyed them. I honestly got up one day a couple weeks ago and just didn't have that want to see a hard dick. I can't explain it, no guilt, just a need I had for the time I had it??? Maybe it's the way these hotties look in their lingerie. Meh who knows who cares I suppose.
     
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    Cool. Just sounds like your interest has changed, and nothing wrong with that. :smile:
     
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    This is the problem that society can't deal with; not everyone needs a description.

    The oddness in which we label ourselves is completely illogical. Do what you think is right, in a situation where someone else wants you to do that to them, and doesn't harm anyone else.
     
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    Yeah, I've had this. I'm not really interested in having sex with guys at all any more, even though at one time, that's all I did. I used to find gay porn hot, but don't now, and find it a bit odd that it was once the only porn I'd look at.

    Strange eh?

    But I still like wanking with other guys on cam, looking at pics of big cocks, and straight porn with big cocks in. So it's not gone away completely.
     
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    I agree thouroughly with this. I would state, based COMPLETELY, on my personal experience, that no one is "straight" or "gay". I would argue that everyone simply has attractions. I wrestled for a long time on whether I was "gay", "straight" or "bi" and came to the conclusion that it was all bullshit. I kinda like the lpsg method of percentages. While it's not perfect it helps to explain a bit. For me...it's odd, I will pretty much (and I only say pretty much rather than always because I have not met EVERY guy on the planet) always choose a woman over a man, but that doesnt mean I don't love to take/look at/hold a cock whenever I can. On the other hand I just can't stop loving women.....everything about them is beautiful to me. I love to eat pussy, I love to make out with women and I love to know they feel good because of me.

    When it comes to men it's almost the opposite. I love a healthy looking cock...which to me mean large. Something that demands attention, or shows power. Size is less important to me than visual appeal. At the same time, I could care less about the man. Ripped abs and cut thighs help, but its all about the actions.

    Does this mean I'm Bi? Does it mean I'm staight? Forget that needless labelling, just figure out what you enjoy and seek it. Maybe this week you are more attracted to men, maybe you ALWAYS feel more attracted to men. It doesn't mean you HAVE to avoid beauty elsewhere.

    Whatever your preference, don't let it restrict you...there is a world of experience out there.
     
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