I feel put out if a playmate dislikes performing cunnilingus on me.
I go out of my way to use all my skills to make him happy orally and, yes, I do enjoy it but part of me hopes to inspire a playmate to at least equal my efforts in South Belly Button.
I have let a playmate go who looked upon the whole idea of cunnilingus as some sort of sufferance he had to endure in order to get to the ...ahem..."good stuff".
How the hell am I suppose to feel good, let alone suppose to get off on that?
Exactly -- how are you supposed to feel good about yourself if someone doesn't feel they shouldn't be there for you? Especially something so sensitive.
I've been in a relationship where the sex was ....not good. I tried all kinds of things to help us out, even 'stuck it out' because I thought ending our relationship because the sex was horrible was kinda....not cool. (hard to explain) But, in the end? It bloody killed every part of what had started out as a great friendship. I can't -- even now -- stand the person. Uck.
It was important life lesson. You have to say what you need. If the other person can't give you that? You have to move on. *shrug*
Good luck