I live in a rural small town type county in western NY State. Meeting up with and hooking up with women has always been not easy for me, but its harder being in a small place like this one. If I go to a city for fun or whatever once in a blue moon, there seems to be more young attractive ladies out and about on one visit for a day in a city an hour and a half north of me, or when I visited the west coast for a week, I could see where someone could meet women in various places, good ones. but then I come back home and its the way it is. There's got to be some way. I don't really barhop...I dont really know any guys even though ive always lived around here, and im not a huge drinker, and just dont feel like it most times. I feel kinda stuck. Its not practical to pick up and move with my current circumstances, at least not for awhile anyways. Thats what someone would say. Im 31 years old....I turn 32 in a few months, and I could almost place a wager with someone, that I will have no activity with any interesting ladies in my age range until then or the rest of the year for that matter. It really sucks.. Maybe there are some out there, but maybe Im not looking in the right places. People online I chat with say, look here, look there...and yeah those are places you would look if you had certain types of places in a bigger market area.....where here I look in those places and there are old ladies or married people, or old men for that matter, or children.