not so new, not so big member

[7x6]

Been reading the forums for a while now. Like a lot of people I suspect, I didn't join because I need support for me huge cock, my ID should really be 6.75x5.75 if I wasn't rounding to the nearest half inch.

I joined because i'm fascinated by big cocks. I've been thinking a lot about exactly what my fascination is.

I wondered if I was gay for a while but I really do just like watching and reading about guys with big dicks fucking women, purely for fantasy purposes I guess, most of my fantasies are about me having a bigger dick, I think it's a deeply engrained thing.

When I was a kid, from the first time I showered with other boys at 11, I was convinced I had a tiny cock, I am, I think, a pretty extreme case of 'grower rather than shower', possibly exacerbated further by being fairly overweight. Even now i'm still no more than 2" soft. This meant that post puberty I was convinced the average guys were way bigger than me and the big guys... I realise there were some serious semi hordons involved, big dick porn has taught me that big ones might not get fully errect or point down even when errect, anyway, some guys (incluing my own cousin) seemed to have at least 7 or 8 soft inches, I guess I assumed these guys were over 12" when hard (maybe I did go to school with freaks and they were, who knows).

Anyway, this really did worry me, I didn't have any confidence around women until I finally convinced myself, at 20 or so, that I was average. After i'd sorted that problem out I found out from women that I was actually fairly large. I've been told i'm "the thickest i've had" by most, being obsessed, as I am I like to bring the subject up as, of course, talking about big cocks turns me on. Most women insist it doesn't matter "yours is great, what are you worried about", I then have to explain i'm not worried about anything, I just like the idea of having a huge cock. Then maybe we watch some big dick porn together...

The strange thing is that even though i'm perfectly happy with the size of my cock (would never try to enlarge it) and have a very good sex life, i'm still as obsessed as I was when I was a kid about cock size. I guess it's just part of me.

The thing is, apart from the huge dick, i'm pretty much living out my fantasy right now. it's a pretty basic and probably very common fantasy, just to satisfy a highly sexed woman. I'm not claiming to be a sexual athelte or anything, I just have this 'problem' that for me to come through penatration is very difficult, if I want to do it at all I have to fuck for half an hour, stop and go soft for 10-20 minutes then fuck for another 10-15 minutes, it really is the only combination that works (at least with my last girlfriend) and that pause is a great time to get some tounge and finger exercise in. Anyway, i'm now 100% confident about sex, not claiming to be a superstud or anything but pretty sure that i'm always going to be surprising good in the sack for a fat 42 year old

Anyway, in spite of all this i'm still completely fascinated by what it would be like to have a huge cock, for my fantasy to work I have to know what it would really be like. my fantasy (not desired) size varies from only marginally bigger than I am to 12"+, I like to come here to read convincing accounts of what it's really like to present a woman with 10"+, what are the reactions, how many inches do you have to leave out in the cold, I need this detail for my fantasies

Anyway, I reckon this site is pretty cool, it's actually fun to play spot the real people among the dickheads. I reckon there are a lot of people here with similar fantasies to mine but who get their kicks from creating an online personna with a bigger dick. I'm not just talking about the 13" plus guys, I bet some of the more realistic sized guys are just more convincing fantasists. I almost did this myself, was turned on by the idea adding a bit (maybe claiming 8x7) and seeing if I could make it convincing.

I didn't bother in the end as I thought it would be much more interesting to see people's reactions to the thoughts of the real me.

Feel free to tell me i'm a repressed homosexual by the way

 

[davidjh7]

Congratulations. You're male.:smile: Those of us without what society perceives to be the "huge ones", and even those who society DO acknowledge as being "huge", have a certain fasicnation with bigger. Much of it is deeply seated in our racial memory, from when we were trying to convince women to let us plant our seed in them. (Not much has changed in 100,000 years, has it?) Many cultures have or do, to a greater or lesser extent, worship a huge phallus--it's endemic to being human. If we don't got, we want---if we got, we want more, unless we have so much that living a normal life is impossible--it seems only then do people actually want LESS. Once you realize where most of it is coming from, and take it as much as possible out of the fantasy realm, the obsession lessens a bit. This site has been great for me in this regard--it has recoonected the fact that people with big cocks are PEOPLE, first and foremost--the extent the big cock affects their lives is very individual. In most cases, it seems, it doesn;t affect their life any more or less than any guy's dick affects his life. Don't sweat it, and don't worry about it. It sounds like you have a good thing going on, and are enjoying it--way to go! Enjoy being you.:smile:

 

[7x6]

You are of course right about the 'male' thing, i'm a lot (if not most) guys are fascinated by big cocks. It's not something straight guys talk about a lot but you do hear the occaional "there was a guy in the showers at the gym today, it hung down to his knees!" type story.

That's another thing I wonder about, what size would you have to be to not want a big one? I for one don't think i'd really want to be long enough to not be able to fuck the average woman, grinding pelvis to pelvis. How long is that?, not more than 8" or so I suspect. My fantasies are usually way beyond that. Do guys with 9" really fantasize about having 12" when they must have experienced some downside to having 'only' 9? there are threads in here that suggest they do. Is the desire to be the biggest what really drives people? I know the times i've been told i'm the thickest a woman has had have been great ego boasts. The times I'm told i'm not are also fun as I get to hear first hand experience of a big cock which i'm not exactly averse to during sex

 

[Pecker]

Welcome 7X6. Don't be shy, tell us about yourself.

 

[7x6]

OK, what do you want to know?

Yeah, sorry about the weird, verbose introduction. Must remember not to post things on the internet while i'm under the influence...