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My hubby and I have a great friendship with a guy. He is my lover and they are good friends. We have had quite a few threesomes but aside from incidental touching, they are hands off each other. Hubby is open to more experimentation but I don't know if the friendship can or should go that direction. I would love to watch them stroke or even suck each other's cocks. Any thoughts on how to bring it up without losing the friendship??? Is it even worth it? Experience with it and how did it go???
 

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You know, I think straight up honesty is best. That way, if it works, it works, and if it doesn't, no hard feelings. Trying to angle in and maybe pressure or trick or coerce someone into a situation is way less effective than just putting it on them and being like "Hey, that would be so hot, would you be into that?"
 

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Yeah, I did tell him I love watching gay porn. It is really scary putting it out there though because of all the gender roles and rules. I know two guys can fuck without being gay or bi. I get that it is about what feels good and not necessarily an emotional connection. I love the carnal imagery of two men together.
 
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I think if he is already into MMF threesomes, he is going to be open to taking it a bit further. Also, I think (speaking from experience), you are more likely to go outside of your comfort zone if you a) are super turned on, and b) you are getting a lot of support. I think at first you may need to reassure him and be really clear about how hot it makes you and so on, and then let him ease into it. If he feels like he is doing it for you, he may feel better about it than if he feels like he is doing something unnatural for himself.
 

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Talked to BF. He is down for light cuckolding but not ready to have any bi/cock play. He said he is afraid he would like it if a guy sucked his dick! LOL! Of COURSE!!! He did say he would let me fuck him with a strap on though!! I think it may gradually naturally happen.

We haven't had a chance to see each other for a few days. Hubby did just text me asking if I would stop and get a 'special treat' when I go to town later tonight. He sure does love it for me to come home freshly fucked... I am not complaining
 

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You could break the BF in slowly. The next time the three of you are together and getting ready to go at it, have your BF grab the bull's cock and jerk it slowly before guiding it into your pussy. Or have him rub the bull's cockhead up and down your pussy lips before sliding it in. Get him used to the contact.
 

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My hubby and I have a great friendship with a guy. He is my lover and they are good friends. We have had quite a few threesomes but aside from incidental touching, they are hands off each other. Hubby is open to more experimentation but I don't know if the friendship can or should go that direction. I would love to watch them stroke or even suck each other's cocks. Any thoughts on how to bring it up without losing the friendship??? Is it even worth it? Experience with it and how did it go???

Hey girl I wish my wife felt like you. Be honest next time yall are playing together tell them how hot you think it would be for them to do what ever you say. Make it a game so that they feel that they are only doing it because you want them too not because they like it. Liking it will come later. Tell them you find the thought very sexy and a huge turn on. And that it's a fantasy of yours. All he can do is say no. Make sure there's plenty of liquor served as well and that they are already very much turned on. Like I said you have to seduce them into it Good luck . Let us know how it goes.
 

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You could break the BF in slowly. The next time the three of you are together and getting ready to go at it, have your BF grab the bull's cock and jerk it slowly before guiding it into your pussy. Or have him rub the bull's cockhead up and down your pussy lips before sliding it in. Get him used to the contact.

No bull...just BF and hubby ;) Hubby is the one that wants to play more. Hubby enjoys sharing a cock with me and I love watching him suck a guy. BF is hesitant...But great suggestion. He (BF) is comfortable with having their cocks touching when I blow them together or DP. With me as the centerpiece it isn't "gay" (his words) though. He is really worried about the "gay" perception. I think with us he will eventually get over it though because we have such a good vibe together. I am trying to get him to see it as pleasure not sexual orientation.