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Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Dorian_Gray, Feb 6, 2009.

  1. Dorian_Gray

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    I'm slightly hesitant to write this, but I have to get some opinions.

    I have a roommate (I know it's a touchy subject) that I find myself completely intoxicated by. I get really excited when he comes home from a week of work. I come home from work on Saturday and he's wearing all my clothes and he buys dinner. He bought a BMW 7 that he leaves to me while he's gone. He's on my car insurance, and at&t plan. Even the line of work he's in is hot. When I go to pick him up on Friday he's completely covered from head to toe in dirt, transmission fluid, and oil. He has no idea what he does to me, for me, or what I could do for him, or to him. It's just unbelievable. It's like he's the other half of me. I know that's wierd but he's actually claimed this himself. He has all the common-sense and I have all the book-smarts kinda thing. He's observant, I'm not. But you guys wouldn't even believe how much we are both clueless to the fact that all this is happening. It's almost transparent. It's like when I go through starbucks it's like a reflex to order two double chocolate chip mint frappaccinos, or like when I go through the drive through at any restaraunt I know how he likes everything on the menu, and vice versa.

    :frown1: Opinions Will Be Greatly Appreciated :frown1:
     
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    Do you guys together, or does he, ever talk about girls?

    Do either of you watch straight porn? If you do, does he know it, or have you watched it together?
     
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    Nope.

    Nope. Well, actually eh... nope.
     
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    Okay, do you ever touch each other, even casually? -- or make extended eye contact, or does one catch the other looking at them when they haven't been looking at the other?
     
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    Well, this seems like a dilly of a pickle if I've ever heard of one.

    You've gotten so attached to him, and I'm assuming that you've been roommates for quite some time, that you basically look at him as being your "mate."

    Your tone in this post is suggesting that you're interested in going further with him, but you don't really know how to even begin to suggest something more with him. I wouldn't blame you either.

    However, you say that he's the more intuitive of the two of you, so how do you know he doesn't sense your feelings. Depending on what you're willing to risk, you should start trying to test the waters. See where he's at with your relationship.

    Don't go too fast, though because even if he's into experimenting, he'll get freaked out when it becomes too fast for him.
     
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    So either you are both gay or is this another "I don't know what to do I'm in love with my straight roommate thread." :rolleyes::confused:

    [XGX=QUOTE] I'm slightly hesitant to write this, but I have to get some opinions.

    I have a roommate (I know it's a touchy subject) that I find myself completely intoxicated by. I get really excited when he comes home from a week of work.
    Roommates often share clothes that isn't too unusual ditto dpringing for dinner occassionally. I assume you reciprocate sometimes. :wink: He's on your car insurance?! :wtf2: Dude, unless he's your brother y'all are dating.

    Even the line of work he's in is hot. When I go to pick him up on Friday he's completely covered from head to toe in dirt, transmission fluid, and oil. He has no idea what he does to me, for me, or what I could do for him, or to him. It's just unbelievable.
    And he hasn't made a move? :confused: Hmm, sounds like denial but that shouldn't stop you it's clear to me there is mutual interest here.
    He has all the common-sense and I have all the book-smarts kinda thing. He's observant, I'm not. But you guys wouldn't even believe how much we are both clueless to the fact that all this is happening. It's almost transparent. It's like when I go through starbucks it's like a reflex to order two double chocolate chip mint frappaccinos, or like when I go through the drive through at any restaraunt I know how he likes everything on the menu, and vice versa.

    In order to get more helpful opinions/statements it may help to ask a question or two based on your original post.
     
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    sound like lovers to me.
     
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    I don't know how anyone could have said that more perfectly. The only time we ever actually, you know, touched... we were on the front porch swing smoking and he was showing me this little military trick and he ended up hurting my neck, so he gave me a massage. That's the extent.
     
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