Not the black thing again!

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  1. Guy@naPrince

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    I hooked up with a girl last week, who was really surprised that I didn't want anal from her. This chick was really bummed [:biggrin1:] that I wouldn't ram my fuchwurst up her stinkenhausen and said she thought all black guys did that, and I couldn't figure out where the hell she got this from. She says her friends all know this.

    Have any other AA, African or Carib bros heard this? Is it a new thing or a Beltway thing, maybe?

    No big deal really, since I'll probably never see her again. Just curious?

    [I'd rather not divulge her nationality and will only say she was a non-white Euro and not black herself .. AND not an LPSG boardee.]
     
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    Funny--I have guys who want me to fuck them up the ass all the time. :rolleyes:

    She has probably been watching too much of that interracial porn with Lex Steele, Sledge Hammer, Brian Pumper and others. It can make you think that all women want 3-5 black guys fucking them up the ass all day. Pfft!
     
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    What he said
     
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    Honestly, Lex, I have heard this to be true about Arab guys [No offense, Arabs.], but never heard it about us. I guess Sean Michaels has alot to answer for. :biggrin1:

    Most of my situations are fetish-oriented, but, we didn't hook up for anal. Again, this is news to me.
     
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    I will NOT make a bad pun with a variation of "silly Rabitk trix are fr kids".....but I'm sure someone will....:rolleyes:
     
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    I will NOT make a bad pun with a variation of "silly Rabit trix are for kids".....but I'm sure someone will....:rolleyes:
     
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    There's a lot you left out, but how old was this girl/woman ? Experience level ? Experience with interracial relationships ? Awkward pillow talk ? Maybe this was experimental sex ?

    Merely speculation here, but women these days can't win, they give you what you want and when, are willing to give you what they think you want, are willing to try something they may have never had and it turns out to be another therapy session because you're offended because you got laid for whatever reason ? By your own admission, it was a one nighter, you get what you get out of those. You both used/abused each other sexually for your own motives and like you said no big deal, so why not move on from it, it's almost a week later and it bothers you that you got a piece of @ss. I guess that's why this is the LPSG though, I forget sometimes where I am.
     
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    Where are you coming from with this?

    Yeah, it was an interracial thing I put together online -- wasn't looking for interracial, but, that's what we got. Yeah, she was well over legal age and looked it - pretty, but, no lolita. Certain acts were agreed upon beforehand, and rules were set; anal was not addressed, at all. Like I said, I probably won't see her again and won't lose sleep over it.

    I've already moved on.

    I just want to know if this is going to be a thing now. Is every black guy supposed to be hot for ass-love? I just want to know, if this is something I'm going to have to iron out, every time I want a piece. Maybe, I'm not the only guy, who's run into this.

    I can hear it now. "What? You're not into butt sex? You, a black guy? Is it me? What is wrong?"

    Yawn. :rolleyes:
     
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    I was wondering where you were going with this myself ? If you tell her you don't have designs on anal intercourse and if the response isn't what you expect or pleasant enough, then dismiss the lady without further adieu. People formulate their expectations right or wrong and if it's a racially or politically incorrect response, you shouldn't have to put up with that. But by not putting up with that, it's up to you to weigh whether continuing relations in some capacity continues. Is it a comment that changes the entire comfort level of the encounter. Whatever she says is on her, it's an uncontrollable variable, just like her preconceptions of what to expect is uncontrollable. Even an ironclad, in writing agreement doesn't guarantee everything as you found out. Stereotypes are what they are, we all have a few to live up to ourselves. Sorry to hear your latina experience was less than optimal.
     
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    Funny Story--was talking with a hot muscle bear daddy bud and we were chatting about a buddy of mine who is longing to have anal sex with a woman. His response: "Why would you want to fuck a woman up the ass?!?"

    He honeslty had nO clue why any straight guy would choose anal over vaginal. Classic.


    Which is second only (as a snore-fest) to--"You're black so I guess you have a big dick, right?!?"

    Answer: "Yes I have a nice cock. it has nothing to do with my being black and everything to do with the fact that I was born with a big cock."

    SNORE.

    And I've talked to guys who have been on the other end of this (black and average size). It's not fun.
     
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    That's funny I am a black carribean....I thought I was the only person that is not into anal sex....I mean I think it is cool to watch on porn but I personally do not like it myself....It doesn't turn me on at all....I always thought I was weird when it came to that....I mean I am open to anything but that....Personally, I have only screwed someone anally once and that was enough for me....Everytime someone has wanted me to - I couldn't get hard from it....As far as I will go is putting a finger up there on someone....
     
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    I've seen the pics, mister. Lex Air has to be one helluva flight. :wink:

    I guess I can live with one more annoying date stereotype. The expectations about me having a giant dick don't bother me, since I'm well over eight ft and generally considered bigger than average. Even the expectation to be sexually uninhibited is okay, so long as uninhibited is taken to mean passionate and adventurous.

    If butt-lust is going to be a thing associated with us, I guess I'll take it as it goes. There'll be a few fetish-mongers out there, and you can usually spot them a mile off. No biggy.

    Pene_Negro_Grande, there's a cautionary expression among the Guyanese about how indiscretion can adversely affect your social condition -- nobody want dutty powder. The Caribbean folks I correspond with online are mostly Guyanese and pretty conservative, and the only place a discussion of anal sex would be suffered is between a man and a woman, .. if even, then.

    Thanks for the Carib perspective, and I will certainly keep that in mind.
     
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    I haven't heard about Arabs having a reputation for wanting it. But anal sex is pretty common in the Arab world as a birth control method. In many places a new bride is still checked to see if her virginity is intact, so anal sex is one way to get it on without technically losing it.
     
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    What the fuck is your problem, now?
     
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    And again you've entirely missed the point of a thread. All he's asking is if other guys have noticed the preconceived notion of black guys supposedly being anal hounds. He isn't complaining that he got laid. And before you go there, I doubt the girl forced him to use her poop schute. He's just telling us he heard something new and is wondering if others have heard the same.

    You're not adding neither perspective nor humour to the thread.
    PISS. OFF.
     
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    Right, the thread.

    My guess is that the notion of black guys wanting anal sex stems from the same notion that they are more "ass-men" than "breast-men" a la Sir Mixalot.
     
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    Of course she may was surprised...not because you are black but bcause you are non-white...:biggrin1:

    US is a breast land...some countries butt lands...in butt lands as Brasil women with big breasts use to reduce them..here in breast land they undergo augmentation...

    I really not so surprise for anal not be your thing...we all have preferences.. but I'm surprised for you to look up to African Americans in the US and than Caribeans bro's to know if it is a 'new thing' ???

    I think African Americans and Africans and Browns and Latinos...are butt men. But they may not be anal males...well, talking from my brown culture I can tell that I know that most of them are butt males and anal males.

    Why I know that? Bcause they ask for that..many women give into the experience and find painfull bcause males are inexperienced with it and women want no more, others try and was not to bad, others like it, others love it. Males that are good in it say that 'any ' women would love it if they try it with them..its their propaganda...

    Well for sure I have been in the position of being asked and did not went through with it but never in your position as a male to be asked...and it surprise me your 'surprise'...interesting.

    But we come from different cultures.:smile:
     
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    Actually, I do consider myself a butt man, and I'm not exactly a stranger to ass-play :wink:. You can tweek a woman's asshole with your finger, while you're into doggy-style, or bury it up to the knuckle and finger her a bit, and she's satisfied. Not every woman expects you to ram your dong up her tailpipe, and that's fine by me.

    And women have asked [even begged] me for full anal, but never said they expected it, because of my race, .. until now. If that was the reason, they just didn't say.

    I don't know how common my preferences are, but do know what I like. Huge asses would not be my thing. A woman with perky little tits and a fairly round, toned butt - sort of athletic, but not too hard - is ideal. Not ripped. I like butts just fine, but not for full-blown anal.
     
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    Yep. My boy is starting to add more anal sex to his videos because that's what his WHITE fan base wants to see. And it's strictly black on black.
     
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    Yeh..now I reckon brown in you...ass-play borders not full blow anal...fit bodies etc...all nice and good for butt people...its not new at all really old practice.

    :chairfall:
     
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