Hey there. I promise before I get started on my question that this isn't your typical guy size question. Ok, so I'm with this woman who has had a decent amount of sexual partners before which for the record doesn't bother me a bit I like that she's experienced..anyways we have been together for a few years and a couple of months ago took a two month break and we both had sex with one other person. During our relationship before the break and each of us having a new experience we had a lot of what I could call on my end great sex. And I mean great. The only thing like a lot of women is that she has only orgasmed from actual sex like twice out of probably 500 or so times we have had sex. To get her to orgasm during sex we normally use a bullet vibe on her clit. The other way we would get her to orgasm is through something we found out accidentally which is from a cyberskin life like dildo that is larger than I am in mainly girth and about an inch and a half in length. I have asked not out of insecurities but out of wanting to please her why it's very easy for her to have not one but multiple orgasm from the toy and she said to be honest that it makes her feel "full" and hits spots easily. She then said she's happy with me though and assured me things are fine. Well, a couple of months ago after we were discussing sex that we had during our break she told me that she learned that she can have "different but more powerful multiple orgasm from sex alone". I of course again with no jealousy or any bad feelings asked why and how could we do that. She asked if I was sure I wanted to know and I said yes. She then told me "ok here it goes. The guy I was with, his penis was thicker than yours and a little longer but it wasn't the length it's that it was a real penis not a dildo and it made me feel" filled up" and I started having really intense sensations then I would cum, then it would build up again about every 5 minutes ". I then said well you and I would have sex for like 20 mins and that never happened. Why? She then told me" to be honest it wasn't because it was him or that I loved him or that he was even that attractive, I know you'll look different at me but his penis just hits spots and gave me a tugging fullness that I am not used to and the last time I felt that was with an ex years ago that was a little under his size so I kinda forgot what it felt like. And to be honest it was physically great but I love you and if I want that type of sensation we have toys"
So where am I going with this? First I don't hold it against her for how it made her feel or resent or look at her different for her experience. I'm also not really insecure more than I think any other dude is. What my question is, is... Is this something that women have experienced before and also how big of a difference in physical pleasure is there really and also what are some things I can do to keep her happy.
Not to sound like a typical size thread but for the record I'm 6" long and about 5" in girth when I'm extremely aroused but again not thinking I'm small but I guess wondering if a woman was with my size for years then experienced what she did if it really changes her expectations as far as physical pleasure. Please only serious responses no "go read other size thread" replies please as I am already outside my comfort zone by posting this.
So where am I going with this? First I don't hold it against her for how it made her feel or resent or look at her different for her experience. I'm also not really insecure more than I think any other dude is. What my question is, is... Is this something that women have experienced before and also how big of a difference in physical pleasure is there really and also what are some things I can do to keep her happy.
Not to sound like a typical size thread but for the record I'm 6" long and about 5" in girth when I'm extremely aroused but again not thinking I'm small but I guess wondering if a woman was with my size for years then experienced what she did if it really changes her expectations as far as physical pleasure. Please only serious responses no "go read other size thread" replies please as I am already outside my comfort zone by posting this.