Nude Beach

[borntobeking]

Lubing up and displaying your ass could be seen as an invitation by some...
:tongue:

Ha ha. Yeah, he thought he had problems before :biglaugh:

 

[B_Hung Jon]

Lubing up and displaying your ass could be seen as an invitation by some...
:tongue:

LOLOLOL....I didn't mean "lubing" up your ass. I meant making sure it didn't get burned and then ignoring the spectator. :smile:

 

[B_Uni79]

Went today as the day was really nice...no problems to report.
Sat near a couple(man & woman). A OK!
Saw that Terminator guy he was cruising in the far southern end of the beach. He must be a really horny guy, it's like he can't relax. Majority of the people are lying down and he gets up to go for long walks every 5 minutes...lol

You know what the problem was yesterday..the beach was near empty...so that is why he was around so much....options were limited for him...lol:smile:
thanks all.

 

[avg_joe]

I don't go to the nude beaches cuz I am scared of the freaks. You'll never know what they are up to.

 

[B_Uni79]

I don't go to the nude beaches cuz I am scared of the freaks. You'll never know what they are up to.

serious?

you got a cell phone with you..anything funny you dial 9 11

 

[bid6555]

That's the funniest thing I have read on a message board in quite some time. Thanks!

WR

Lubing up and displaying your ass could be seen as an invitation by some...
:tongue:

 

[Anonymous1991]

It's ego boosting. Women don't circle me like this...lol
6 feet, 260 lbs here...been going to the gym since 17...30 now!
lol....maybe I look good.....lol:smile:

Can you post a pic of yourself?? lol

 

[B_RedDude]

Then why didn't you just say to him, "Hasta la vista, baby"!?

There were 5 guys in total that were "cruising"...but they were not so obvious as 1 of them...very noticeable.(Just clarifying this for ease in understanding). Ever see Terminator 2? like that exactly....sunglasses, head turned and looking down at me at 10 feet away!
C'mon!

 

[sfniceguy]

I don't go to the nude beaches cuz I am scared of the freaks. You'll never know what they are up to.

"Freaks"?

I have been going to Northern California nude beaches for about 10 years now, and I cannot ever remember seeing or being bothered by a so-called "freak". Of course your definition of freak may be different than mine.

It's too bad you are allowing what may amount to 1% of the population on a nude beach to spoil the experience for you. You are giving those people a lot of power over you.

Like all things and in all places in life, you just ignore them, say "no thanks" or whatever it takes.

 

[sfniceguy]

The beach has a high gay population. It is the ONLY nude beach for 100's of kilometre's around. I enjoy tanning and having the breeze hit me nude. I'm locked in doors at work and school all day.
What am I to do?

You are to do what women have been doing since the dawn of time, when approached by an aggressive male that they're not interested in. Welcome to their world.

If you are hanging out on a gay beach, it should be no surprise that someone might approach you, thinking you are gay, or or at least interested in other gay men. It's an understandable confusion on their part. They don't know you're str8 and thus should automatically stay away (even though most WILL stay away anyway -- depending on the cruisness of your beach -- nude beaches are usually jsut that, nude beaches, not cruising spots).

Just like str8 men, some gay men or more forward/aggressive than others. Some assume anyone and everyone will be attracted to them if they just "show off". Sounds like you have found/experienced that.

For me, to ward off such unwelcome advances on the nude beach, I simply temporarily cover my penis with a towel or whatever is handy, give "the look," and that pretty much takes care of it. They get the message 99% of the time.

 

[D_Cock_Hudson]

Men who are annoying are not just a problem on US nude beaches, though more often than not in the UK it is straight men annoying women.

 

[NCbear]

For me, to ward off such unwelcome advances on the nude beach, I simply temporarily cover my penis with a towel or whatever is handy, give "the look," and that pretty much takes care of it. They get the message 99% of the time.

Of course, "the look" is a raised eyebrow and the "are you out of your damned mind??" expression on your face.

(^ See the Terminator shades above? I'm nothing if not appropriate. :biggrin1

Just trying to be helpful. :tongue:

NCbear (who knows that offense is sometimes the best defense)

 

[AlteredEgo]

Why did you go to a nude gay beach if you didn't want to get cruised?

Possibly for the same reason my husband would: if it's the only one around. We don't live in Europe.

 

[Snozzle]

A gay guy is much more likely to pester a guy on a gay beach than a strait guy will pester a gal on a strait beach, because his chances are much better. Not many women will look at a guy, decide she likes what she sees, and go off into the dunes with him for some rumpty-tumpty. Of course, a guy whose technique is as gross as this guy's won't have as much chance as the average gay guy, but he gets enough intermittent reward to keep trying. Hope springs eternal....

 

[B_cockluv10]

You inadvertantly opened yourself up to being cruised by going to "the far end of the beach basically no one else around" and "near the bush area of the beach". That's where the cruising like you describe happens because it's there aren't a lot of people around and it's close to where the anonymous hookups take place. Just by going to that part of the beach you gave a signal that you were open to cruising.
If you don't want to be cruised at a beach where a lot of gay men go stay closer to the crowd and away from the bushes at the far end of the beach.

 

[sheneeds]

We go to the TAHOE nude beach once in a while. The gay men have a hangout away from the main beach by quite a distance. It's where I realized I really enjoyed seeing a mans cock dangling in the warm sun.....and a couple hard ones... . he he !!. Only had one old fart cruise aggressively and I put him in his place no problem. Oh yes Laguna Del Sol was fantastic for sightseeing !!! My gawd there were a few that were just amazing!!! Can't wait to go back.

 

[TheHung]

I went to a nude beach today...it is known for having a high gay turnout. None the less, I went by myself, I'm not homophobic and love and get along with all people. It was my second time going there. Today was kind of unpleasant, there were 5 guys "cruising" around me. I was lying down in the buff on my towel and kept to myself at the far end of the beach basically no one around. One guy was basically standing 10 feet from me just staring at me and going around me in circles giving himself a couple strokes as he was walking away toward the bush area of the beach... and looking at me again.
C'mon....he got the message to leave me alone after 15 minutes. I did not call him over or make any eye contact with him. I'm flattered and all...women haven't even approached me in such numbers and intensity before. Is this how gay guys typically act when they are in their "element"?

That's just a risk you put yourself in when you go to a nude beach. There are going to be people who like looking. There is always a con to a pro.

 

[joeburger]

embarrassingly enough some guys do act like that and can't take a hint. what was the beach you went to? as long as you don't make eye contact or give them any indication that you're interested they will get the hint and leave.

 

[cocktaste]

Why did you go to a nude gay beach if you didn't want to get cruised?

I laughed so hard when I read this! :biggrin1:

I mean, really! :wink:

 

[Wyldwill420]

Hi from SAN DIEGO. I hope someone might have some good info for Blacks Beach here in San Diego...Looking forward to reading about local places...Will