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I have gotten to know the new head trainer at my Y. We always stop and chat. He's in his 30s and a nice guy, but I don't find him attractive in the slightest. He walked out of the open shower room naked at the same time that I had just stripped off at my locker today. We both stood there buck ass naked with our cocks hanging out chatting away, and it was totally comfortable for both of us. After a couple of minutes of chit chat, we said our goodbyes, and I hit the open shower. In my opinion, this is totally natural and the way it should be. It's nice to know that other guys like this guy feel the same way. BTW, he and I both have average size cocks. Who cares? Neither of us do porn for a living. We're just 2 average guys behaving like confident well adjusted men. :cool:

I saw the same trainer today at my gym. He came over to say hello while I was working out. I was coming out of the shower room just as he was about to enter. I asked him if he was going to use the steamroom, so we could chat. He said yes, so we went in together and chatted away. When I'd had enough of the heat, I left and he followed me into the open shower. We chatted away naked in the open shower and then continued our chat at my locker while I was naked and he was dressed (he finished his shower a few minutes before me). While I was getting dressed, I saw him check out my cock, and it was cool with me. As far as I know, he's straight and he's also engaged. As I mentioned before, I'm not attracted to him in the slightest. He's just a good guy. I feel like he and I are actually bonding and becoming good gym friends. I truly think that nudity helps cement that bond between guys. We have started to chat more about personal things lately and especially today while we were naked together. It was a good experience. I gave him my card today with my contact information, so I'm curious to see where this goes. I don't mean anything sexual by that, I just mean in the sense of he and I becoming better friends than just gym friends.
 

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I saw the same trainer today at my gym. He came over to say hello while I was working out. I was coming out of the shower room just as he was about to enter. I asked him if he was going to use the steamroom, so we could chat. He said yes, so we went in together and chatted away. When I'd had enough of the heat, I left and he followed me into the open shower. We chatted away naked in the open shower and then continued our chat at my locker while I was naked and he was dressed (he finished his shower a few minutes before me). While I was getting dressed, I saw him check out my cock, and it was cool with me. As far as I know, he's straight and he's also engaged. As I mentioned before, I'm not attracted to him in the slightest. He's just a good guy. I feel like he and I are actually bonding and becoming good gym friends. I truly think that nudity helps cement that bond between guys. We have started to chat more about personal things lately and especially today while we were naked together. It was a good experience. I gave him my card today with my contact information, so I'm curious to see where this goes. I don't mean anything sexual by that, I just mean in the sense of he and I becoming better friends than just gym friends.


My opinion and ONLY my opinion,
I think when this happens naturally like what happening with this guy it is real bonding.
Guys becoming friends, it gets creeepy when its sought out intentionally.

Good for you keep us updated. KB
 
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My opinion and ONLY my opinion,
I think when this happens naturally like what happening with this guy it is real bonding.
Guys becoming friends, it gets creeepy when its sought out intentionally.

Good for you keep us updated. KB

I agree. It has to be natural and 2 sided. It does come across as creepy and desperate when it's sought out intentionally. I really didn't pay much attention to this guy in the beginning because he's not attractive to me at all unlike the stunningly hot head trainer he replaced a couple of years ago. He kept coming over to say hello which at first I thought was just part of his job to chat up the clientele, but it seems to have progressed past that now.

Anyone who knows me knows that I won't chase anyone to be my friend ever. I will make a few offers to get together and hang out, but if they are not accepted or reciprocated, I will never offer again. I'm too proud to chase or beg anyone to be my friend. I have walked away from 2 guys this year because of this. One of them was my old university bromance, and the other was my old regular workout buddy. Hell will literally freeze over before I make another offer to get together with either of them ever again.
 

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I agree. It has to be natural and 2 sided. It does come across as creepy and desperate when it's sought out intentionally. I really didn't pay much attention to this guy in the beginning because he's not attractive to me at all unlike the stunningly hot head trainer he replaced a couple of years ago. He kept coming over to say hello which at first I thought was just part of his job to chat up the clientele, but it seems to have progressed past that now.

Anyone who knows me knows that I won't chase anyone to be my friend ever. I will make a few offers to get together and hang out, but if they are not accepted or reciprocated, I will never offer again. I'm too proud to chase or beg anyone to be my friend. I have walked away from 2 guys this year because of this. One of them was my old university bromance, and the other was my old regular workout buddy. Hell will literally freeze over before I make another offer to get together with either of them ever again.

A lot of "making friends" is personality driven. I've gone to my current gym for a while. A few guys I have showered with innumerable times and they don't talk. I say "good morning" to this one guy and he invariably says it back AND NOT EVER one word more. He's introverted and not looking to interact with anybody. We've showered naked a few feet apart at least twice a week for at least three years totally relaxed.

Gym friends are made by taking classes, attending or volunteering for events, tournaments, pick up games. Bonding develops anong men often when you share a common activity-ies.
 

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I agree. It has to be natural and 2 sided. It does come across as creepy and desperate when it's sought out intentionally. I really didn't pay much attention to this guy in the beginning because he's not attractive to me at all unlike the stunningly hot head trainer he replaced a couple of years ago. He kept coming over to say hello which at first I thought was just part of his job to chat up the clientele, but it seems to have progressed past that now.

Anyone who knows me knows that I won't chase anyone to be my friend ever. I will make a few offers to get together and hang out, but if they are not accepted or reciprocated, I will never offer again. I'm too proud to chase or beg anyone to be my friend. I have walked away from 2 guys this year because of this. One of them was my old university bromance, and the other was my old regular workout buddy. Hell will literally freeze over before I make another offer to get together with either of them ever again.

Oh, I forgot to say you obviously have no trouble engaging with others. It surprises me though how many seem to find this a challenge.
 

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A lot of "making friends" is personality driven. I've gone to my current gym for a while. A few guys I have showered with innumerable times and they don't talk. I say "good morning" to this one guy and he invariably says it back AND NOT EVER one word more. He's introverted and not looking to interact with anybody. We've showered naked a few feet apart at least twice a week for at least three years totally relaxed..

How do you tell an introvert who's trying to be more extrovert?

He gazes at your shoes when he's talking to you.
 
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I have gotten to know the new head trainer at my Y. We always stop and chat. He's in his 30s and a nice guy, but I don't find him attractive in the slightest. He walked out of the open shower room naked at the same time that I had just stripped off at my locker today. We both stood there buck ass naked with our cocks hanging out chatting away, and it was totally comfortable for both of us. After a couple of minutes of chit chat, we said our goodbyes, and I hit the open shower. In my opinion, this is totally natural and the way it should be. It's nice to know that other guys like this guy feel the same way. BTW, he and I both have average size cocks. Who cares? Neither of us do porn for a living. We're just 2 average guys behaving like confident well adjusted men. :cool:

Great story. My idea of a 'normal' lockerroom
 
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Love the hangers and natural bush on that first guy.

bros-jpg.757069
 

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