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Fantastic :)

Thanks. To be fair, I should mention that my "comfort zone" was never very comfortable and that doing what was expected/staying within the lines/following the norms was an immense amount of work and rarely brought me the rewards/benefits I was taught it would. Therefore leaving my comfort zone simply didn't have the risk for me that it would for most people.

Coincidentally (or maybe not?), leaving my comfort zone has almost always brought me positive results.
 
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Thanks. To be fair, I should mention that my "comfort zone" was never very comfortable and that doing what was expected/staying within the lines/following the norms was an immense amount of work and rarely brought me the rewards/benefits I was taught it would. Therefore leaving my comfort zone simply didn't have the risk for me that it would for most people.

Coincidentally (or maybe not?), leaving my comfort zone has almost always brought me positive results.
So hard to leave it but I agree. It almost always ALWAYS does.
 
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My apologies for not clarifying. Jeju is a Korean spa in just outside of Atlanta. It is a full service spa for men and women with a variety of services for relaxation. It's a great place to spend a day. Jeju is in part known locally because it contains wet spa areas separated by gender where nudity is the expectation. The male only, wet spa area has three pools for cold, warm and hot water. There is a steam room and dry sauna as well. Men can also receive body scrubs and massages in the area as well. I visit about every 2 months on average. I confess I've gone to relax and also to check out guys and it's a pretty mixed crowd of gay and straight.

The staff watches it pretty closely to both keep it clean but also to watch for any sort of sexual behavior. I've been told guys have been thrown out for getting caught while masturbating or playing around. I confess I've never done that while visiting but have flirted several times. I went out of curiosity the first time and found it to be relaxing, enjoyable but not cruisy and that's what I was hoped. I did meet one guy there once who I wound up having dinner with and fooling around with later but otherwise it's just been a place to chill out.
I've wanted to check that place out! Guess I'm going to have to do it now that I'm getting divorced.
 
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I used to be consciously aware of my small size, but I’ve become too old to worry about these things, so now I’ve no problem being seen naked.
We can't trust out vision when our imagination is skewed. I always thought I was small. I would be in rooms full of guys who dicks were way smaller than mine but think they were bigger. Healing my self-esteem helped me. Plus, I read a lot of medical surveys. I'm longer than average but my claim to fame is the girth.
 

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Years ago, Life magazine posted photos like these men. Guys in general used to be like this. I'd say these guys are true friends. We had these kinds of friendships, and I miss them. We'd all have to piss and from kids on we'd all stand around the same toilet and piss at the same time. No hangups. Society sure has screwed up stuff for men. Mate, and I both had to piss. Scotland has small close together pissers. He almost wet his pants because he didn't want to stand by me while we both pissed. Later I told him, "Doug, we've been through a lot together. We're close mates. You can stand next to me to piss. Just don't stare.". He cracked up laughing.

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