Nude in Public

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  1. PunkKidd

    PunkKidd New Member

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    I have a problem, im not shy about my endowment or anything but every time i find myself naked in front of guys, lockerroom, showers, or just hangin out, i always seem to get an erection.
    i want to be able to do all these things without having to worry about that.
    is there any advice someone could give me on how to make the boy stay down.
    thanks
     
  2. D_Garmanswait Glassnads

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    Why you getting hard? turned on? the fact that your naked? other people seeing you naked? you might be an exhibitionist, it might explain your arousal.
     
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    Agree with track, it may be the fact that others can see you. Unless, of course, you're enjoying seeing them... ;-)
     
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    yeah i enjoy showin off and i do get horny bein nude with others
    and there are times i want to be aroused
    but most of the time i would rather not be because im just havin a good time bein nude with friends and dont wanna pop a woody
    or im at the gym just tryin to dry off or shower or get dressed and i dont want to get one in those situations either
    it gets annoying because it happens at inconvinent times
     
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    I used to fantasize about others watching me when I went to the gym but when I actually joined up it was completely natural and non arousing for me.
     
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    You don't tell your age, but enjoy it while it lasts! ;-)
     
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    His age is under his avatar. He is 18. At that age, the boy will get hard for no reason. When he gets our age though........
     
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    I just change and shower like I was there by myself
     
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    Have you tried jerking off more before you do these things? At your age, I got hard everytime my dick was exposed to air, regardless of who was there to see. But that seemed to help a little.

    Have you tried putting some desensitizer on your dick, like the kind people use to avoid premature ejaculations?

    Do you have this problem when you are getting plenty of sex with others? It used to happen to me more often when I wasn't having regular sex.

    The other thing that helped was talking or joking about it when it happened. That meant that I wasn't hoping people would ignore it--I was actually drawing attention to it. Then when the topic changed, I could focus on on somebody else or something other than the fact that I was naked. Focusing on somebody or something else helped.

    If that doesn't work, the only thing you can do is forget about the hard on as best you can and enjoy what you are doing! I never had anybody ever get upset that I had a hard on, and I doubt that anyone really cared that much. The worst was just a few who misinterpreted what it meant, but if they are people you care about, you can set them straight pretty easily.
     
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    thanks guys for all the help
    its not really an embarassment issue nor is it a misinterpretation issue either it's really just annoying to sit around with good friends hangin out naked just bein guys and trying to deal with a 9 inch pole between your legs
    it kinda ruins the fun for me and it also puts quite a few of my friends to shame which i dont enjoy doing because they are my buds and if they are self concious then hangin around with them like that just kinda rubs it in their face (no pun intended and in all seriousness) i figured it was probablly just a hormone issue i was just wonderin if their was anything i could do about it

    but yeah thanks guys
     
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    PM me, and I'll talk to you about it. When I was 18, I went through the same thing. I'm about an hour and a half from you.
     
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    I don't know how the desensitizers work on others but they make me horny as hell, it would defeat the purpose. The best way to kill an erection is to think of your Grandmother doing a striptease for you. If that doesn't kill it you're sick and beyond help....LOL
     
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    Listen Punkkid,
    It's largely a mental thing at this point. It's not hormonal or even that you are aroused. But since you are anxious about getting a boner and are putting so much pressure on yourself not to get hard, you body is reacting and the exact opposite happens. Just relax and take it in stride, If you get hard you get hard don't even think about it and I guarantee you that it won't happen.
     
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    I don't know - you got a lot of answers and some advice. I'm not sure that the people who told you that it's because you're 18 have got it right though. I have had this trouble since I was age ten (that's when I started to ejaculate and my cock began to grow). It has always been that if I became aware that anyone was paying special attention to my exposed member I would pop a boner. It has happened in locker rooms and swimming pools during my school years; in public rest rooms; anywhere that I might catch someone (regardless of sex or age) scoping my crotch. As I said, it started when I was ten, it was still going on at eighteen and I have no doubt that if the occasion should arise today so would my cock.

    Gramps
     
  15. D_Garmanswait Glassnads

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    I find the thought of being naked around people really arousing, I really want my girlfriends to see me naked sometime, I don't think I'd get hard though, I'd probably get all excited and start giggling.


    girlfriends=female friends.
     
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    He He Freddie..... Talk for yourself!
     
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